Is It In Yet????

I think it is the kind version.. I’ve heard that before a few times and it sucks because you know exactly what they mean.

Pretty much the same here. The lubrication factor has come up and I have been told by the wife that there isn’t the same level of friction/sensation when she is really slippery. Those are the times I really wish and think she would appreciate me being thicker.

Some vagina’s could be compared to taking a hot dog and throwing it down a hallway. At any rate my measurements are 6” x 5 3/8” on my best day. Most women I’ve been with has said I have a nice dick. I had one girlfriend who while conversing with one day about some random stuff just blurted out “you have a big dick” then proceeded to give me a bj. Once I had a girl who would not let me have sex with her because she said my dick was too big. My ex-wife told me if it got any bigger she would not let me have sex with her no more, and she actually left me for a man with a smaller dick (so I was told by various females that he had a small dick). A few strippers that while giving me a grind have reached in my pants and pulled it out have had a wide eye and grin expression on there face the look of surprise and say that’s nice, always wondered if the surprised look was cause they thought it was a good size or if they imagined me to have a big dick and then it turns out average. Anyway the way I came about is that my last gf gave me a complex about my dick when I broke up with her she said my dick was little and even though I know it is around average it bothers me now, so I started PEing. But from previous sexual experiences I worry about getting too big and not being able to get sex anymore.

Salvatti,

Your girth is no where near average it’s quite a bit larger. Do a wikipedia search of “Penis Size” and then look at the graphs for the Lifestyles condom studies. 5 3/8” is like 90th percentile.

Luckily, I haven’t heard those 4 words. But I’m sure that’s because I have only been with my wife. Here’s my path to PE..

I’ve always known I was below average. I played 2 years of football in high school and while I wasn’t the smallest in the locker room, there were many more larger. The funny thing is, that never bothered me much and I didn’t think much about it. Women on the other hand..

My first serious girlfriend and I were together for 1.5 years or so in high school. She didn’t want to have sex because her mom had her when she was 17. I was fine with that, we did plenty of other things. We broke up because we were drifting apart. But later, I found out there was another part. There was an ugly (not exaggerating), short, big-headed (the one on shoulders) guy in her gym class that would get a boner in class, outline it with his hands against his gym shorts, and call her name to look. According to her friends, she would laugh, blush, and turn away. According to her friends, he could “touch his hips with no hands” if you know what I mean. She’s dating this guy a week later.

After I get over her, I started to date a girl on the drum-line in band with me. Yes, I played in the band, more on that later. Anyway, she’s pretty aggressive and I’m thinking I’ll finally lose my virginity. So I go to her house. We’re playing a little “one-on-one” basketball in her driveway. I’m getting hard guarding her, she’s into it, so we start to go back to her house. Then her older brother shows up out of the blue from work. Cock blocked. So I’m thinking oh well, the chance will come up again. A week later, she’s acting weird and I press to find out why. Wasn’t expecting this, but our drum instructor took her home one night because she didn’t have a ride after band practice. Yadda-yadda-yadda, she ends up fucking him. Why? As she explained it, they were just playing around, but she brushed his crotch and it was so ENORMOUS. She didn’t mean to go that far. I quit band. I decided to play football again.

By this time, my confidence is shaken. I dated some more girls, but I noticed that I only stayed with the inexperienced girls. Most did not want to have sex yet. So I enter college as a virgin.

Freshmen year went by with no hits and it’s starting to piss me off. I know it’s a confidence problem. I can’t do much about it. I started a summer intern job and by that time, I’m desperate. I’m dating a not-too attractive intern, but hell, maybe I’ll score. But before that happens,

I meet my very attractive future wife! She’s also an intern and maybe it’s seeing me with the not-so-attractive girl, but she’s on the hunt now. She won easily. I lose my virginity to her in an embarrassing minute or two. I could sense the disappointment, but at this time I’m thinking, “Yeah, that was too quick.” The next time we have sex she cums and has slight look of disbelief. She tells me later, she had never cum until then. For the next year through college and more internships, we proceed to fuck like bunnies. I was a quick learner, and she rarely failed to cum. There were weekend visits where we only came out of the bedroom for food! We’re also falling in love with each other and I eventually ask her to marry me.

I learn some things along the way, such as, she’s only been with one guy — her ex of 2 years in high school. I cannot stand not knowing, so I ask THE dumb question. Here’s a sampling of her answers through the years in somewhat chronological order:

- I don’t know *blush*
- You’re a perfect fit for me
- Maybe just a little bit

But when I asked it in a different way, “Could you stack your fists on him?” Answer? Yes. Hmmm, can’t do that with my 5.5” dick!

I’ve actually met her ex. He and a friend of his helped moved my future sister-in-law. I know, weird. I ended up in the same car as them on one of the moving trips. He’s a pretty cool guy that talks and laughs a bunch. For some reason, he was telling a funny story about a high coach they nicknamed “Long Don Silver” for obvious reasons. His friend starts to say, “Yeah, well you’re pretty.” but the ex backhands his friend across the chest and shushes him. I die inside. I guess that explains why my wife was always a little looser than the girls I’ve been with before.

Back to the wife, we were fucking like bunnies for that first year, and then, it stops. Out of the blue. After that, we might have sex 1-2 times a month. I am thoroughly confused. I’m pretty sure she’s not cheating on me (she’s kind of clingy), but the sex stops. She says she’s scared of getting pregnant. Should be better when we’re married then.

Except it isn’t. We’ve been married for 10 years now and probably 8 of those 10 have been disappointing sexually. We had sex maybe 4 times during our honeymoon. The first year was ok. We may have had sex 2 times a week. After that, I’m lucky for once a week. Most of the time it was twice a month. That’s right, you could almost count on your fingers and toes how many times I had sex in a year. After our first kid, the sex falls off drastically. Maybe once a month. It’s not for trying. I probably get rejected 14 of the 15 times I try. I just gave up and stop trying.

She’s noticed and she come to her own realization of what she’s been doing to me. Over the past year, she’s made an effort to have more sex. She even initiates it every once in awhile! Here’s the thing though. Throughout our marriage, when we do have sex, it’s fantastic. She cums every time. Sometimes twice. And no, I don’t think she’s faking. I’ve been watching for that. So what gives? Why would someone not want to do something they seem to enjoy?

My opinion, I think she needs more size. She’s given birth to two good size babies. It was loose to start with but now, it’s worse. She’s shy about talking anything sex, so when she asked me if it was different after the 2nd baby, that’s a big deal. I didn’t lie and gently told her it was.

Other indicators:
- She orgasms best with deep penetration positions. Riding on top and grinding. Missionary with legs in the air. Doggy style.
- She likes it best when I grab her ass cheeks and squeeze, putting more pressure on the sides of my cock. If I don’t, she doesn’t cum as easily
- We can’t do many other positions because I’m not long enough
- She likes the A-spot. Verified with my fingers.
- I heard, “It’s too wet” too many times.

So my goal? Gain some size to see if it makes a difference. Even if our sex life doesn’t improve, at least I’ll be happy jacking off a bigger cock!

I never had a ” Is it in yet ” experience but once at a party one of my friends sister said to me an another friend “I want to see your dicks”. Me and my friends obliged her and whipped it out for her. She then grabs both of our dicks, holds them for a few seconds then says ” This one is bigger” The fucked up part was she was not referring to me. My friend looked like he had some what of a chub but I was still totally flaccid and had some whiskey dick. I cried foul. Lol. He was bigger than me from what I heard from others and from what I had seen one time before but still WTF.

After this she preceded to have a make out session with my friend on the front lawn. I guess it’s another case of bigger dick gets the girl.

BTW- My erect size then was BPEL 6.75” X 4.9. My flaccid was probably pretty pitiful though. Pretty messed up when even a supposedly above average penis gets no respect.

I never got the is it in yet but about 2 years ago during a drunk argument she told me fuck you and your 2 inch dick and my size back then wasn’t much smaller then now , about .50 on length and girth I would guess cause I didn’t take measurements . After googling for a while I found thunders and here I still am pumping , clamping , hanging , jelqing , just so I can ram my dick in her and love the look on her face and the chills she gets on that first penetration.

When I broke up with my ex girlfriend! Really it gives me the drive to do more PE than ever and I have more free time now.

Mostly when women make derisive comments about our dick size, they don’t know what they are talking about.

My ex used to rattle on about all the big black dicks in jamaica and blah blah blah, and it used to really bother me, to the point where I stopped touching her skinny ass, and finally left her.

I was still terribly bothered by those memories until I got results from PE and realized that there was more to come!

Success is truly the best revenge, not that I’m ever going to show her what she’s missing.

Yep! It always is :)

I’ve honestly never had a complaint, but I always have wanted a bigger dick just for the satisfaction of hearing a girl tell me it was huge. Never thought it was possible, started to develop a complex and have turned down sex a few times out of fear of embarrassment. Thinking any chance of getting a larger dong was gone, I was googling kegel’s because I heard they were supposed to help sexual performance, and then I stumbled upon thunders.

Now I’m seeing a girl who’s a few years older than I am, who’s really good looking and really likes me. Last night we went to the movies and she came over to my apartment for the first time and we made out in my bed for a while, and then she told me she was in a long term relationship and hasn’t been out of it for long, so she wasn’t ready to have sex yet. I creeped her facebook and noticed her ex was around 6’5 or 6’6 by looking at the pictures, so that’s gotten me a bit nervous about expectations, especially combined with her being older than I am. So I figure that maybe when she’s ready to have sex, I can add a bit more by then, and hopefully keep her satisfied while I still increase in size.

Taking all this into account, PE is just an addition to my 2012 resolution to live a better life, been hitting the gym hard, hitting the books hard, every day at the ball field is a day to get that much better. Thinking like this has already made a huge difference for me in the last 3 months, I think the added confidence of success in some aspects of my life is the reason I managed to pick up this girl in the first place.

She’ll be far more impressed with your confidence than she would with any dick cardinal2.

Yeah, but swinging good big lumber never fails to impress either, plus I imagine it would help with my confidence.

If you have good confidence, big lumber can only make it better - if you think right. It’s possible for PE to make someone who had a decent size stick to feel less confident as he base his confidence against comparing to pornos stars….

The right thinking is if, you already please your partners, any size increase is icing on the cake - unless it gets to a point where it’s painful and causing less sex…..