I appreciate your post, but I’m firmly convinced there is a serious cultural disconnect between the older generation and younger generation on thunders. We can speculate all day (if you in fact accept the premise, even just for the sake of debating) why women (particularly the younger ones) prefer larger units, but its pretty clear to me that it is the case. Maybe they consider it a “trophy dick” (like men consider hot wives “trophy wives), maybe its for bragging rights, maybe there is genuine reasons for it sexually (better orgasms, I’ve read up on female orgasms, no one has definite answers, but almost all agree there are multiple different types of orgasms, 1 involving uterine contractions that is best achieved if you can reach the posterior fornix, so a longer unit would help here, the other involves pacinian receptors, which respond to being stretched, so more girth would help achieve this, then we all know about clitoral orgasms, and some speculate on other types, but I haven’t read anything proving those, just the three I’ve mentioned), but whatever the case may be, it doesn’t really matter.
Maybe its the “hip hop” generation influencing females on what they are ideally supposed to want in a man, maybe its just that women have become less inhibited by truly looking for what they desire in a man (pure animal instincts have become less inhibited). I don’t have the answers here, I speculate and have my theories, but they are just theories. What I do know is my experiences in the real world, and I can tell you unequivocally that in my experiences, penis size and money (aka “trickin” as its known in the hip hop generation) are the two most important factors in what hot women (choosers) go after. As far as I’m concerned, the money thing is nice, but I’d rather have a woman want me for penis size than money, and obviously if you have both, you have a HUGE advantage on people who don’t. If you have both, a girl will be more likely to stay with you, even if you don’t trick, because not only will she be in love with the dick, but she’ll think eventually you will spend on her (even if you don’t, it can be used as leverage).
I know that all sounds very cynical and you don’t really want to believe any of this shit. I know your a married guy and older, so please don’t let anything I say effect you personally, certainly shouldn’t. But what I say, is the reality I’m living in, and almost every other younger guy here can attest to (and its not because of lack of experience, its from having experience on the front lines in this day and age), although some probably don’t want to admit it. If you said looks, personality and self confidence matter in meeting women, your absolutely right, but those attributes count for nothing (or very little in comparison to the big 2) in keeping a woman. I also hope I don’t come off as “bitter” cause I’m not, when you first start realizing some of the things I’ve realized, its a bit of a rude awakening, but then you get over it and try your best to adapt. I’m actually content with who I am, so much so, that if I never got to hook up with another female in my life, I would not be bitter about it, even though that’s not what I “want”.
That’s cool Hardbody. I believe that you live in your reality. So, I DO understand what you’re saying. I certainly hope, that over time, you’ll be able to find a woman or women, as the case may be, that like the good guy behind the dick. Yes, women have penis size preferences, but as they get older, let me suggest that the size of a dude’s junk will be quite a ways down on their list of “must haves”.
I think your a smart guy, and I also believe that you have some life experience. Do, however, give what I suggested a chance, and you might be pleasantly surprised. You’ll get wherever you want to go in life, I can tell.
Paraphrased: It is not the critic who counts: The credit belongs to the man in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly, who errs and comes up short again and again, who, at the best, knows the triumph of high achievement, and who, at the worst, if he fails, at least he fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who knew neither victory nor defeat.