Where do you find the motivation

My motivation is posting pictures of my wang online. If I don’t continue my routine, I’ll have posted pics of my wang online for no reason. Gives me that extra push.

I have had the same problems as the original poster. I’ve known about PE since 1997, thunders since 2003, and I’ve rarely completed a good month of PE, if ever.

Hatred for my dick size, and feeling inadequate usually gets me motivated enought to try once again. Reading progress reports help, but I’ve also always failed to stick with it.

Try stuffing something that looks like a big cock in your pants, on a day when your going to be in the public eye. If you feel as if women look, and talk to you differently it might help you.

For me its all about becoming a big, swinging dick, and not allowing myself to be happy with what I have. Size does matter, regardless of what we all tell each other.

I personally don’t think you should start dreaming about a Hugh dick that you will one day have, because ti will take a long time and people tend to be inpatient.

What I tend to do it just take it one month at a time, if I gain 0.1’ or 0.2’ in that month I’ll just say to myself that I will, in few years for now, be thank full that I made that small steps (and maybe alot more little steps).

And I say that because I’ve gained in 2 months here, 0.2’ in the 1st months and 0.1’ in the second, and I’m taking the positive side of it, instead of comparing me to the crazy gainers that gain 1’ in a month and by that think I gained nothing.

No big dick and you won’t keep a woman, period.

E-man has some good advice there.

I would also say — just commit to doing 1 on/2 off for a while. That is not much time to spend out of your week.

That is how I started. A very light routine too. 3 sets of stretches, 90 to 100 jelqs. Similar to this:

NEW newbie + advanced routine

After a month or so I started seeing gains.

Again, not a huge time commitment. Surely you could do that.

Broad brush statement, but for the most part, its true, particularly if you are talking about hot females who get to choose rather than less attractive females that are more likely to take what they can get.

That’s the most toxic and demoralising statement I’ve read on this forum. I don’t believe it to be true either.

No it’s not.
You are free to consider and perceive women this way, but you can easily be objective enough to understand that there are MANY wonderful women (a lot) which are attracted by much more than 2 extra inches.
Actually, these are the majority. The others are the so-called size queens, and the funny thing is that usually they are no gorgeous at all.

If you really can’t imagine a woman to be attracted by intelligence, personality, self-confidence and so on, just keep considering them shallow and answer this: would you prefer a 9” penis or to be rich and powerful? Which of these would attract more women?

Women can be shallow no more and no less than men; some are attracted by penis size/boobs size, most are attracted by entirely different things, from intelligence to money.

Yeah, what he said!

Once you start to gain, that should be all the motivation you need. Still, getting over the hump, the time and motivation it takes to start seeing gains, that is the tough one. How do I stay motivated, stay with a 45+ minute routine at least 5 days a week? My dick IS getting bigger, that’s how!

Maybe your experience in the old country that may be true, in fact, I believe its probably true. I love Italian culture, almost every Italian I’ve met who has visited the US has been super friendly and wonderful, if everyone was like that, we’d have on hell of a great world. I’m from Italian heritage, too bad my ancestors had to move to the US, I’d probably have a little different attitude living in a country with such a low divorce rate (something like 6% of marriages end in divorce in Italy, one of the lowest rates in the world, and I understand why after meeting several Italians). That being said, where I’m from, size is a huge issue with females, the only issue that can compete with dick size is bank account size. When I discuss this, no one wants to hear about it, but there have been multiple examples of females who were dating me, then stop dating me and I find out they are dating a guy who has a rep for being hung. My dad who is hung is the biggest playboy I’ve ever met, he doesn’t even appreciate how easy he has it (thanks in large part ot his rep.).

Me, I can meet them, keep their interest until the pants come off or the penis size issue is brought up, then almost invariably, they lose interest.

Of course, as I’ve said before, I have very high standards, but I have everything in the world going for me minus a large cock and a big bank account (although I have an undeniably bright future, women don’t give a dam about that, only what you can do for them in the present).

Here is a link to stats showing divorce rates by country:

http://www.nati onmaster.com/gr … le-divorce-rate

Once again, its probably hard for you to understand, but there is a major cultural difference going on. What I say is true for me and anyone else living in the US, but probably not so true for you.

One last thing, I disagree with this completely. If you go back and read my stories, I have very high standards and almost every girl that I’ve dated has stopped dating me and went on to date and get involved in relationships with guys who have a rep for being hung, and in many cases, that is the only thing these guys have going for them.

That’s awful…

I am not interested in finding a woman that bases our relationship solely on the size of my dick. If the woman I find does, then she is going to be extremely disappointed with me right now. Maybe if this PE thing continues to work, that will be a different story.

Yep, that’s fucked up!

Maybe in certain isolated social circles, shallow teen-agers or immature 20-somethings who listen to the wrong kind of music…. A really small dick might be a problem, but with money, looks, personality, and intellegence, there is no problem with a “normal” dick in real-life society.

I mean, if a bigger dick isn’t motivation enough I do get more motivation from thinking of girls I had sex with or want to have sex with and I imagine filing them up and them being like “damn”, sometimes I watch big dick porn just to imagine myself being that guy with the big dick and seeing the reaction on the woman’s face, it almost seems like some women just melt at the presence of a big cock, and I want that big cock to be mines. ;)