Where do you find the motivation

You’re already pretty close dude.

HardBodyPer, You are not small, you are probably larger then most males. There are same amount of females as there are males (or even alittle more), so you want to say that all the females are going with 5% of the population? Or is it 1%? I don’t know how large they want it.

I believe it may be a problem with the way you take it, you feel like the lady has a problem with your unit and by that project bad vibes and make her leave you. (Maybe you talk to much about dicks with them that you personally drive them to try out some big ones themselfs).

What a sickening statement coming from you Beelzeboss. Step into reality already. :P

I know bro, it may seem that way online, can’t really tell who is who or really anything other than what someone types, you just gotta take my word for it. As I’ve said before, I only go after girls that I believe are at the top of the food chain, I know that makes me an arrogant tool, but I see myself at the top of the food chain also (minus the normal sized cock), not just by my mere existence, but because yeah, I’m a pretty good looking fella, I’m in good shape, and I handle my business (got that thing called ambition, mixed with brains). That is part of the problem, but that also got me thinking, these are the kind of girls that could have anyone they want, yet on numerous occasions they’ve chosen someone with that rep for being large (and nothing else going on for them, besides, lets maybe being a pothead) over me with everything but the large one. Its become clear to me over the years how important a big dick and money (not ambition or brains, but cash in hand) are in the female mind.

Also, reading some of my shit on here, you might get the impression I have a shitty personality, that I’m some kind of asshole (I’m just trying to write what I believe to be truth), but in real life, I’m a ball breaker around my friends, funny around females and I think in general people like being around me.

Final thought, I avoid dick conversations with females like the plague. I don’t feel its an area I can brag about, so I don’t like talking about it.

You have to have a personality that is compatible with routine to be a good PEer. If you are good at say working out or exercise you should make a good PEer in terms of psychology. You need to be able to follow a regiment and endure the actual work and trials and tribulations.

Most people do it for psychological reasons, hurt egos and such. That said, there is no actual problem with that, just make sure you are doing it for yourself in the end as long as you are happy everyone else can just stuff it.

I found that sex felt better after I had started PE, and judging my partner’s response she enjoyed it more also. It’s also a great feeling when you grab your unit and can really feel the progress you have made.

My motivation is every once in a while if my girl and I haven’t messed around, I’ll either pull it out and her eyes widen, or when she gives me a bj, she looks up at me and says “You’re getting bigger”, or when we have sex and I have to ease my way in because she is so tight.due to my new size. It’s an amazing feeling.

Call me weird but I kind of like it when we put off having sex for a few days or a week. We both have very busy schedules( me 45+ hours a week at work, her full time student and work part time ). So please understand where I’m coming from. I’d love to have sex everyday. But now we’re getting off topic.

To simply answer your question, my girl keeps me motivated.

Heh, I might have gotten a bit carried away there, I know a big dick isn’t what makes the difference in a womans eyes, but it sure is a nice added bonus!

Maybe you just have to admit to yourself that you’re only here for DW’s “WTF” thread or Twat’s news. There’s more to Thundersplace than dick building.

Seriously, maybe you just don’t want it enough. It’s okay. You can still hang out here.

I don’t know about the other folks here at Thunder’s, but I experienced several “false starts” before I became properly motivated to continue long enough to see results. Don’t give up! PE really, really does work.

nibor

Just keep trying. Eventually a habit is formed. From then on out, its not a task, but just a habit. Kinda like brushing your teeth.

Everyone tends to see foreigners by stereotypes and popular commonplaces, and americans - no offense intended - tends to do this more than many other; probably it’s just a consequence of your being ‘isolated’, surrounded by oceans (Canada and Mexico are much MUCH more similar to US than any European country to another) and far from different lands and people.
The lower divorce rate in Italy, for example, have many reasons, the most important probably being worse economic condition (it’s harder to sustain a divorce when one wage isn’t enough to pay the rental). So, what’s the consequence? Few divorces, fewer weddings, many adulteries.
Do you truly think young generations are so different in Italy, or France, or even Japan, than in US?
I can assure you a simple walk in any big city here can easily demonstrate how many girls (and boys) are so VERY similar to the women you describe in the US. Nevertheless, they all end up dating common guys and girls.
Every teenage girl here sooner or later dreams about a well hung boyfriend; they would probably say “well, why not? If I can”.

I don’t want to be harsh, but you just shouldn’t expect too much from the people. Everyone is just selfish (rightly): when a guy dates a woman and do not offer anything truly worthwhile, she’ll fly away. You can blame the “hung reps”, but in the end she could have left for a guy with a fancy car, or an important job, or money, or brilliant personality, or just self confident.
It seems to me your place is lacking all these, so what’s left? The hung reps. If a woman flies away just for this, sorry to say, but then she couldn’t find anything more valuable than this poor reason in her relation.

You said it all.

You define your ‘food chain’, only to find out that the top of it is stupid enough to leave a guy “pretty good looking, in good shape, handling his own business with brain” for a guy with the mere reputation of being hung. This said by a guy who’s steadily above average.

Either something in the description of yourself is badly wrong, or you truly have to redefine your food chain.
Try looking for those girls not chewing with their mouth wide open. :)

Interesting point of view, I’ll take your word for that about the younger generations. My point of view is what the numbers are on paper, mixed with the very friendly and family oriented Italians that I’ve met, I noticed a big difference in these people from Americans in many ways, but we are talking about a handful of people, not the entire Italian population.

I agree with much of what you said, the “fancy car” goes hand in hand with money, and important job usually goes hand in hand with it, so unless its a job where the guy is famous, I doubt it has much influence. I do disagree with women who STAY with men that have “brilliant” personalities and are “self confident”, I’d definitely describe myself as having both, hasn’t worked out too well for me.

You could be right, most of the rest of the world, from my perspective seemed to be much like the US in that regard, but Italy just seemed very different.

You measures 7.375” x 5.375”, but then you say:
“I see myself at the top of the food chain also (minus the normal sized cock)”

You’re not normal sized; if you believe it, you’re not self confident at all.

I’m not saying where all equals, I’m saying we’re all different - but the difference is everywhere, in the same way. :)

[by the way, come here and find what many girls thinks about blowjobs, and you’ll think better of yours :) ]