That article has some good stuff on why you are experiencing what you are experiencing.
More from Dr. Boynton’s article:
The reason sex therapists or medics are unwilling to discuss penis size is because men are still often not satisfied to hear their penis falls within an average size range - they want to be bigger than average.
Even if you tell guys they’re okay, often their body image worries means they’re still anxious.
A recent US study showed that men seeking penis enlargement consistently overestimate the average penis size of other men and drastically underestimate their own size.
Men get penis hang ups since they usually only see other penises in the changing rooms or toilets - where they view their dick downwards and everyone else’s front or side on making other guys seem bigger.
Or they compare themselves with porn stars, where the actors are specifically chosen for their size - and filmed from flattering angles.
That’s not to say that size worries don’t do a lot of damage to many men. Worrying about your penis can lead to relationship problems, avoiding sex or relationships, erectile dysfunction (not being able to get it up) or premature ejaculation (when you come too soon).
<Some Stuff about seeking counseling if size anxiety has become very severe.>
It’s common for men to have an occasional worry about their penis size - after seeing a bigger guy at the gym, following a negative comment from an ex-partner, or perhaps after reading somewhere you should have a bigger dick. Some gay men also report being under pressure to be big.
Research indicates it’s more common for younger or sexually inexperienced men to have size worries and, with time, these worries reduce. However, for some men it continues to be a problem throughout life.
Guys should start challenging a society that makes them feel they’re only a sexually attractive and functioning person if they have a slightly longer knob.
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