Bane1, I think you should know that most of the members here have an inflated idea of what is an average size for a male. So when reading some of the posts here, you may feel “small”, but don't.
I see myself as huge, and even I can sometimes feel like I’m not so big when I read some people’s posts. For example if they say “I’m only 7” x 5.3” “, I think, “Wait a minute, only?! I’m not all that much more than that!”. But then I realise that people here really do have an inflated view of what’s a normal size.
I suggest you read Invisible’s threads on the what the normal size range really is; those threads are fantastic.
Good Luck with PE!