Let me get this straight, you gf/wife says “I think your size is perfect”. (You have an above average range 7 x 5.25)
Guy with strong beliefs about him being small : Was she just saying that to make me feel better about my small penis?
Guy that sees things positively and weights the facts : Yea I guess I am pretty big and should be proud of what I have.
I think many guys here are also suffering from a related problem. Many here don’t want to be BIG, they/we want to be the BIGGEST.
We are assuming that if our wife/gf has had a bigger dick, that will always be the lover she is lusting for. I can tell you it’s just not true. I have had ex’s come back to me as friends and talk about how sex with her new bf is mind-blowing, and he has a smaller dick than mine. I have many female friends who I talk candidly with, and for most, their ‘best lover’ wasn’t necessarily the biggest (though he was usually above average).
We need to get our heads around the fact that while being big is good, you don’t have to be the biggest ever to fully satisfy your woman, and not be unfavorably compared to other men.
Current 7.85" BPEL (7.25" NPBEL) x 5.75" MSEG| 6.25" BEG | 5" Flaccid Length
Goal 8" NBPEL x 6.25" MSEG