Rethinking how much size matters to women

I think many guys here are also suffering from a related problem. Many here don’t want to be BIG, they/we want to be the BIGGEST.

We are assuming that if our wife/gf has had a bigger dick, that will always be the lover she is lusting for. I can tell you it’s just not true. I have had ex’s come back to me as friends and talk about how sex with her new bf is mind-blowing, and he has a smaller dick than mine. I have many female friends who I talk candidly with, and for most, their ‘best lover’ wasn’t necessarily the biggest (though he was usually above average).

We need to get our heads around the fact that while being big is good, you don’t have to be the biggest ever to fully satisfy your woman, and not be unfavorably compared to other men.

I don’t have a big dick… I have been a good lover so far!!
I know this becouse girls still come over after we had sex, they have told me good compliments as well.
When I have sex my thought is: not to come until she has her orgasm, several orgasms!!

However I want a bigger dick :D

Sorry for my English

You are very true. You want to be special for your woman and a simple way to become special is to be the biggest. It is much more complicated to become the best lover she ever had.

For women, smell, touch, the way you talk and act and care about her will make he more willing than if you just show off with a big piece of meat. My wife always tells me, and I believe her, that men with a big penises are usually bad lovers as they tend to believe that it is the only thing they need. Guys who know that they cannot rely on a big penis caress the woman variates the act better and use tongue and fingers much better. But still, I admit that it feels a bit degrading to know that she had sex with a guy with a really big tool. She told me once early in our relationship and many years later when I told her how this always felt to me, she really regret she ever told that story. It did not mean much to her but did not understand how we men feel about that.

Well,it’s simple..
If a person CAN’t fuck,the size of the tool doesn´t matter..
Sex is very much about friction,so how much force does it take to put
A pencil in to a cup of coffee?

When a woman says”you’re the biggest & best” & you actually believes her,just
Ask her ex´s what she said to them.. :-)

Cheers,Kwah

I wont lie. I am doing this because I want to be the biggest. My girlfriend were satisfied with my 6inch.

Hahaha kwah I think you’d better read the forum guidlines about grammer and punctuation before one of the Moderaters crucifies you :)

Ok Mr.Black i understand your situation utterly, I was speaking on behalf of the people who are unconfident with what they have, not whether being the best mattered to them or not. The fact is you are never going to know if you were the best lover or not, but should have the confidence to say you have tried the best you can. Men are extremely competitive when it comes to women, this is true for the whole animal kingdom, just watch the fights on youtube for breeding rights. This instinct is still in with us now and we want to know that our women is proud to have her children with such a prolific lover, that will breed superior offspring that will be just as good or better (To have the best chance of mating). This will come into our minds when we are having sex.
Do I deserve to be having sex with her?
Am I making her satisfied enough for her to not seek better men that will provide better children?
This may sound harsh but the thing is that its the same for women.
Am i good looking enough to provide good looking children?
Do i have the skills to cope and look after them?
Can i feed them and give them nutrition to survive? (Boobs)

I suppose us guys on the forum just want the utter ego boost just to know in our heads that we were the biggest and we want the women to lust for us just because we had the bigger penis. This won’t be true but we want to believe it so we believe that the guy with the big penis is the man who women are lusting for.
I also read an article online that men who are richer make their partner orgasm more because they want him to feel he is worthy of her children and that she feels secure. So maybe you should be working on your pockets. ;)
Don’t believe me? … .
So mates with more desiarable traits i.e bank balance, good looks, good body, healthy, and finally penis size.
So penis size is one of the the least important factors but still a factor, so i suppose its better if you have a girlfriend really.
Feel free to discuss….

Seems like most of the power is in the money according to .Parry. An aprhrodisiac as strong as any herbal concocted forumula. It will have them thinking you are the man, that the sex and aura of you is hotter/better. I guess its true. Fatten your money.

Thing about it, if you have been around someone who is lush for you when you have money, and going the other way when you don’t. Theres nothing in the world that can suck worse than this feeling.

Most men would want to believe that if someone in power stripped their ability to make green cash dollars, that the woman they chose would stand by them and that they would not be affected.

I take women like cock size like this LOL

Women with xxs pussy like under average size <0.1%
Women with xs pussy like A size 2.4%
Women with s pussy like L size 13.5%
Women with A pussy like XL size 68%
Women with L pussy like XXL size 13.5%
Women with XL pussy like girl fist size 2.4%(take it non stretched)
Women with XXL pussy like men fist size 0.1%(take it non stretched)

Tweek 13,yeah.Maybe they will do it.I put my energy in other things than being a spelling-police.
I’m from Sweden & joined here to discuss PE related things.
My dick wasn’t 10” long & over 7” in girth when I started PE 8 years ago..
I joined here to get some tips,maybe sharing mine with some here.But if my bad english is hard to understand I won’t
Bother,right?I just keep on reading & skip to post.Simple..

Cheers,Kwah

Ouch, space and return key work wonders man.

kwah,

We don’t expect perfect English, especially from posters who do not use English as their first language. However, we do demand an effort to make posts as understandable as possible (again, especially for the benefit of readers who don’t use English as a first language).

That means using spaces after your words and between sentences, using only one period to end a sentence, etc. Please do these things.

This thread is relative to the woman. I have been with a black girl that refused huge cocks, literally turned them down. I am 7x5.75 myself, not much of a shower, but I am a workhorse and make a chick feel loved. I have been with several girls who have been with guys with units that were 9-10inches long, they didnt hold a candle to me, how do I know this, because these chicks came and came, a ten inch cock is nothing if you can’t make a girl squirt, a 4 inch cock can make a girl squirt.

Most of us on here are aspiring to be larger for our own sake, which is a good thing, yes I would like a 9 or 10 inch unit, FOR ME, and I can honestly say that I am 100% thankful I did not start out with that. Most guys with huge units are lazy and expect to be worshiped not to be a worshiper. I can work it, and when I reach my goals thru PEing, I will be sure to treat my lady with the same lust I do now. Not to mention this shit is fun.

PEing makes me more interested in sex, I feel better than I did in my prime, wait, this is my prime, I am 35, and loving it! Not to mention, so is my 28yr old girlfriend. Work it Gents, your growth will come.

I am gay, so I hear conversations that straight guys don’t hear. Women love and a prefer big penis and will not say this directly to a man. But they all do agree if a guy knows how to fuck even if it’s average it’s better than a big one. Only time I have heard a woman not like a big penis is if their vagina is tight and it hurts. Most women even though may prefer a big penis will choose love over size.

Lol, newsflash, 5.75 girth is huge.