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Rethinking how much size matters to women

Originally Posted by Benjamin21
I take women like cock size like this LOL

Women with xxs pussy like under average size <0.1%
Women with xs pussy like A size 2.4%
Women with s pussy like L size 13.5%
Women with A pussy like XL size 68%
Women with L pussy like XXL size 13.5%
Women with XL pussy like girl fist size 2.4%(take it non stretched)
Women with XXL pussy like men fist size 0.1%(take it non stretched)

Um, well done on the standard bell curve…I’m afraid I think lacks any actual signifficance to reality.

Beenthere, I’ve always liked your threads. A few thoughts, if you don’t mind…

When thinking about size, men focus on length; women, on volume (even if they don’t consciously state this concept). Why?

The Vagina “tents”
Bear this in mind. When it’s discussed that most women would find 8 x 6 “ideal” (and this is probably true), that’s not necessarily the “8” length or the “6” girth – it’s the (approximately) 23 in³of volume. Obviously, the 8 x 6 configuration creates a nice symmetry. Of course, you could get that same 23 in³ volume with measurements as bizarre as, say, 1.25 x 15.12 (22.74 in³) – in which case you’d NEVER get any pussy – or 32 x 3 (22.92 in³) – in which case the woman would be laughing too hard to screw you.

But consider the latter: if you did manage your 23 in³ of volume with a 32 x 3, you’d probably never be able to “deliver” more than about 6 in³ of volume since you’d have trouble fitting more than about 8.5” of length in most women (she’d feel pain as though you were stabbing her with a stick). Meanwhile, the “standard 6 x 5” delivers DOUBLE the volume of 8.5 x 3.

At my largest consistent size, I was packing roughly 26 in³ of volume. This was often a bit much for my ex. Believe me, our days of having a “quickie” (when needed) were long past. A lot of foreplay – sometimes lube still required – a slow entry, and careful thrusting. I’m not knocking long sex, of course, just stating that adjustments had to be made. And this was predominantly because of my girth (usually around 6.3” mid-shaft, near 7” base).

Most Important Measurement
Too many guys worry about length, length, length (I used to be one of those guys). But if you had to choose one measurement, shoot for 6” of EG. Even though I DO believe that girth gains can hinder length gains – and vice versa – I still maintain: be like Billy the Kid & go for the six-shooter.

Even a 6 x 6 “chode” is packing more volume (17.19 in³) than an 8.5 x 5 (16.91 in³) or even an 8 1/8 x 5 1/8 (16.94 in³).

And your 6” EG will spread her open more, and it will look like a “mighty” cock.

Keep one more thing in mind: if “Cock Size” is the dominating theme in your life, your problems far transcend what “consolation” PE can provide. I remember my dash for the 8 x 6 – I hit the 6 first, the 8 was a lot harder. But, in time, the novelty wears off. If you’re obsessed with your size, you’ll ALWAYS want more, more, more…which can only mean that you’ll never be happy.

My ex will readily admit that I was both the biggest & best my ex ever had (the bitch even claims that sex was all I was good for…bullshit), but she still left me after all those years.

Having said that, even my girth was a bit much (for her, not me). Expecting a woman to keep her mouth around 6 1/3” of rock hard cylinder inevitably leads to sore jaws & teeth scraping your shaft. And I didn’t dare even think of mentioning “butt love” to my ex.

Go for the Six – no woman will think you’re small (unless she truly has, as RWG put it, “cow pussy”). And for every cow pussy you might encounter, there’ll be (at least) 12 or 15 other women who will thrust their palms against your hips and gasp, “Take it easy!”

Originally Posted by wadzilla
women who will thrust their palms against your hips and gasp, “Take it easy!”

I think this is the main reason size matters to me. I cannot safely say everyone, but I would venture to guess every married guy has had the experience of being accommodated sexually at some point in their lives. The experience of your wife or girl friend allowing you to get some to keep you happy, for instance craving your cock in side them.

Now with a larger dick you can at least make sure she is not checking her watch (old moving) while your are pumping away. She has to be involved and cognisant of what you are doing due to the stress you are putting on her pussy. Also hopefully your dick turns her on and she eventually gets into it.

Too many guys worry about length, length, length (I used to be one of those guys). But if you had to choose one measurement, shoot for 6” of EG. Even though I DO believe that girth gains can hinder length gains – and vice versa – I still maintain: be like Billy the Kid & go for the six-shooter.

Even a 6 x 6 “chode” is packing more volume (17.19 in³) than an 8.5 x 5 (16.91 in³) or even an 8 1/8 x 5 1/8 (16.94 in³).

And your 6” EG will spread her open more, and it will look like a “mighty” cock.

So my 6.2 x 6.3 rocks the putang just as much as an 8.5 x 5 ?

Wow, I’m packing hot cock.


Start 6.5 bpel 5.75 eg Current bpel 7.0 eg 6.75 (7.0eg base) Goal bpel 7.25 eg 7.0 mid shaft

Progress routine and pics/vids

So how do you do the math? I’m approx. 7.1 or 7.2 nbp x 5 3/4.


Then (2007) 7"bpel x 5".5

Now (9/2009) 7".5 bpel x 5".75 (currently 5.6) I guess I lost a wee bit

Now 9/2011 7.75 bpel x 5 5/8

I think 6” is too much to be the ideal. I would say 5.8” is the ideal girth for the majority of women.

I don’t think many women could tell the difference. It’s only a very tiny increase in diameter requiring the most minute extra amount of dilation, probably has as much variation due to muscle tone as size.


4/2008 Bpel 6.50, Beg 5.5, Mseg 4.9

6/2008 Bpel 6.75, Beg 5.5, Mseg 5.1

9/2008 Bpel 7.00, Beg 5.5, Mseg 5.1

Originally Posted by tweek13
Um, well done on the standard bell curve.I’m afraid I think lacks any actual signifficance to reality.

Of course it isn’t exactly like this but I think larger women like on average larger size.my goal is a girth 1 SD less then what average women can take(0.5 inch girth less) easily so 84% can take easily.(white black women).east Asian take off 0.5 inch girth

Originally Posted by man-of-10
I think 6” is too much to be the ideal. I would say 5.8” is the ideal girth for the majority of women.

You’re probably right.

It’s insane just how little the size difference needs to be in terms of girth to constitute such a huge change in response from a female.

5.5” Meg could feel ‘nice’ and extremely pleasurable then jump just .2 or .3 then suddenly you’re ‘HUGE’ in their eyes.

I’m just over 6” meg and am considered monstrous even though I’m only 7” nbpel. So you’ll be surprised at just how.erm.. Small or large a dick needs to be to be considered ‘perfect’ for a high percentage of women.


Starting stats:- Dec11th2008 7.2"bpelx6" meg.Mar23rd09 8.375"bpel x 6.125"meg. Mar10 8.4" bpelx6.125" meg.

Goal: 8"nbpel x 7" A one eyed monster by any standard :)

Originally Posted by kooljohn
You’re probably right.

It’s insane just how little the size difference needs to be in terms of girth to constitute such a huge change in response from a female.

5.5” Meg could feel ‘nice’ and extremely pleasurable then jump just .2 or .3 then suddenly you’re ‘HUGE’ in their eyes.

I’m just over 6” meg and am considered monstrous even though I’m only 7” nbpel. So you’ll be surprised at just how.erm.. Small or large a dick needs to be to be considered ‘perfect’ for a high percentage of women.

Women stretch though, they’d get used to it no?

Originally Posted by Invisible
Here are some posts that I believe are relevant to your situation:

Availability Bias
Tray Gazing And PE

Just thought I’d share with you guys that today I actually mentioned this problem to my psychiatrist. I asked her for help switching councellors to possibly a sex therapist or someone that is familiar with these issues. She was very glad that I was candid enough to bring something so personal (see also: embarrassing) to her attention. By nature I am quite pessimisyic, but we’ll see what happens from here. Thanks to those that brought this BDD stuff to my attention.


Current average: NBPEL 7(ish)" / MSEG: 5.25"

ST Goal : NBPEL: 7" / MSEG: 5.5"

LT Goal: NBPEL: 7.25" / MSEG: 6"

Originally Posted by Benjamin21

Of course it isn’t exactly like this but I think larger women like on average larger size.my goal is a girth 1 SD less then what average women can take(0.5 inch girth less) easily so 84% can take easily.(white black women).east Asian take off 0.5 inch girth

If you don’t mind my asking have you had some “real world” sexual experiences or is this all “theoretical” and/or based on pornos?

To be honest theoretical,searching on the Internet on vagina size and standard derivation.I’ve been with 6 women but my girth is only 5.3.never been with a women that had to stretch I think.guys with really thick ones that have been with lot of women now the best what average women can take.

But I read from a guy with 6.75! King size girth haha that the tighter women liked it the most, so I’m not sure anymore.maybe you just have to do long foreplay and go really slow in the beginning.

Average women is like 2 inch width(first inches) so that translate to like 6.3 inch girth.women penis size preference data stated 6.25-6.5 as ideal so around 6 3/8. So 1 SD would be like 0.5 inch girth less( around 5 7/8). Women that have children can take much more than this maybe.but skills is just the most important.I have read members with 5.5 girth that said a lot of girls couldn’t take it and over 6 inch girth guys that said every girl could take it comfortable.

Originally Posted by Benjamin21
Average women is like 2 inch width(first inches) so that translate to like 6.3 inch girth.women penis size preference data stated 6.25-6.5 as ideal so around 6 3/8. So 1 SD would be like 0.5 inch girth less( around 5 7/8). Women that have children can take much more than this maybe.but skills is just the most important.I have read members with 5.5 girth that said a lot of girls couldn’t take it and over 6 inch girth guys that said every girl could take it comfortable.


It doesn’t work like that man. You can’t convert “width” to girth like that. Pussies can stretch laterally/horizontally far better than they can vertically.

Personally, I’m going for 5.7” of girth(I’m nearly at 5.6” now so I’m close) and I will see the feedback I get from that. At that size I could get up to over 6” post-clamp. It’s the ideal size IMO.

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