Very depressed and unhappy about my girth

Ali -

I’m on the same venture as you, and I don’t care if I’m average or whatever, the point is I’m not confident with the girth size. I just want to make it thicker.

But the only way either of us are going to get where we want to be is either through doing nothing and experiencing some kind of ‘miracle’, or by doing something to try to change it. It seems many people here have had great success with building thicker cocks. Why shouldn’t we be able to do the same?

I asked myself these same questions for many months. Well, I signed up here at the beginning of Feb and I’m in my 6th week. Rather than feel sorry for myself, I decided to take the bull by the horns and see what can be done. Why don’t you do the same? Let’s be in the same boat together.

Peace, bro

Well said.

That’s exactly the kind of attitude and support we expect from each other here. Well done olive_oyle.

Now the spiders are starting to come out of the woodworks. Thanks olive for your comment, it couldn’t have come at a better time. your comments and suggestion/advice and support are welcomed and If you would like to help get ali on board, that would be very much appreciated..

I kept my wife happy with a 4.4” girth for almost forty years. Thanks to PE, I now pleasure her with a 5.4” girth. However, she has still yet to comment on the increase, even when I pump it up to over 6 inches.

Cause in reality everything that is within the average range or nearby is not really discernable for woman.
Espacially when the change is gradual over time.
Compare it to boobs which have a rather big variance and a A cup is very discernable from a C cup and both are often seen.

If you have sex with a woman that had like 100 dicks she might have seen a handfull very thin and some very thick dicks and can discern.
If she had 1 or less then 10 dicks she wont had much bigger or much smaller dicks.

Thats why having fear about having a dick within the average range when meeting woman, espacially woman that havent had more then 100 dicks, is in reality not relevant.
And when comparing it to other skills to get her off and comparing to personality traits its almost stupid.
For me after realizing it its very funny. But I know how it was when beeing younger.

Ever heard the phrase “There’s always a bigger fish”?

There’s always going to be someone bigger and better than you.

You got to either put your head down and work hard to make something of your dick or hold your head up high and make up for it with confidence.

I feel your pain man I’m in the same boat as you in girth. And sometimes I don’t want to live anymore that’s how bad it is. I’m in college and I’m terrified of having sex which is bad. I understand the PE part but people can’t even grow girth all of the time. It takes years to grow a half inch or an inch at the most. College is full of flings and one night stands. How can I have that with my depressing 4.5 ? I feel worthless sometimes as a man because of my girth.

Look at the circumferences of most sold dildos, 4.5”. You are prisoner of your fears, be confident 4.5” is more than enough you need.

Yup all your fellow college guys fuck with their average cocks the girls you like.
Many of them the same size as you. Fucking one girl after the other having fun.

You are hurting yourself. The problem is not your dick but the beliefs you build about it.
Its typical young inexperienced boy talk. I know cause I had the same prob.
And the funny thing is it has nothing to do with your size.
If you keep on going with these thoughts you will someday look back and see how stupid you were just because you worried about a fraction beyond a dot.

What would happen if you fuck and cream all over 10 girls the next year?
What do you have to loose? explain what you can loose.

I don’t know to tell the truth and I understand PE can help but it takes tears to gain maybe even a 1/2 inch of girth. I’m just saying 9 out of 10 guys on campus most likely has a thicker girth than me. I don’t care if my length was 2 inches as long as my girth was 5 inches or above I would be cool. C’mon we all know girth is desired by women and I just don’t have it. These guys have the confidence on campus to fuck these girls because they know they have a good size.
PENIS SIZE=CONFIDENCE and 4.5 girth just doesn’t give me that confidence I need. I’m short, I have a below average girth and I’m not the best looking. It isn’t nothing that attracts girls for me or gives me confidence.

‘These guys have the confidence on campus to fuck these girls because they know they have a good size. ‘

Or the adverse. 4.5” is just a bit under the average. If you want to make a big problem of that, you are free to do so. But it’s you doing so.

Confidence trumps dick size every time. Great sex has very little to do with dick size. It’s a cliché that lesbians have great sex but it’s true. Good sex is confidence and connection. The number one big ‘guy’ problem (which you have) is to believe that confidence comes mostly from a big dick. A big dick can give some confidence, but often it mostly gives ‘cockiness’, and believe me, women do not find that attractive for long.

OK, so we know confidence is king. Big ‘problem’ number 2 is that most guys are focussed on themselves - on their confidence. Wrong. The confidence that matters is not your confidence.

A girl wants to hear how attractive they look, and how much they turn you on. Build up their confidence, because they are worried that their tits are too small, that they are too short, that they are too fat, that you don’t like what they are wearing, that you prefer blondes, that they are wearing too little/too much makeup… they are insecure! You may be a little insecure about your girth, but your insecurities are insignificant compared to most women’s.

Man if only your in my shoes. Trust me I want confidence I just can’t find it.

Sage wisdom!