Very depressed and unhappy about my girth

Hello,

I’ve read a ton about girth, and it’s obvious that women prefer girth far more than length (because it fills them up more, and that brings more pleasure), and that little differences in girth are far more noticeable than little differences in length. I’ve also heard how a girth of 5-5.5 inches is really satisfying for the girl, etc, etc.

Due to reading all this, I feel very depressed and really unhappy about my girth of 4.5 inches. I’m pretty much convinced now that my girth of 4.5 inches will never be able to satisfy a girl like a girth of 5-5.5 inches would.

I’ve pretty much given up.

Um, Wait. What?? You joined this penis enlargement site last month, you’ve apparently not begun to do the exercises, and you’re giving up?? Giving up before you even begin?

Buck up-get going on the newbie routine and believe that you can achieve a bigger and better functioning penis. . You’ve got absolutely nothing to lose except some time and a potentially large cock to gain.
Get going and report back.

Look on the bright side, if you get in to this now and stick to a routine most days you will have a slight (temporary) swelling just from working the tissue. I personally have An extra 1/2 inch girth that carries most of the way through the day on PE days over rest days.

It’s like the trial size colognes at the counter, swing through often, pick up samples of good stuff and wear it out on the town. No one knows you are saving up for a big bottle unless you tell them.

Good luck, buddy!

I agree! I’ve been peing since January and have girth gains. Idk if they’ll stay just yet but they’re there. Girth wont appear by the use of self pity and low self esteem alone. You have to work for it. Good luck!

Every guy knows that the vast majority of girls like a man to have an athletic body. They go on bodybuilding sites, and buy magazines with ‘get flat abs in 6 weeks’ articles, and do tons of reading, then sit down with a tub of ice cream in front of the TV. :shrug:

What 6 weeks? You have been defrauded. I’m getting ripped abs in 2 weeks and that just for $19.99.

alimahmoud25, beside stupid talk, not even the worst (or best?) slut on the earth will weigh much your penis girth, many other things will be more important than your penis size. Why should you believe me? No reason at all, just that I don’t have any reasons to lie to you. If anything, being on a penis enlargement forum, and being a moderator, I should tell you exactly the adverse.

So said, you can gain some girth. 1”? No one knows. Not even you, if you don’t try.

I don’t believe what I have just read from the opening post of this thread, You got to be fucking kidding me, right. Women don’t prefer girth, they prefer a guy with a good personality, one who carries himself well with some confidence. You have to know, the world does not revolve around your penis. Girls don’t pick out guy as if they are purchasing a new car. “Hey I would like to try out this dick, can I take it for a ride?”. alimahmoud25, You have 3 very good mods that have replied to you and they too probably can’t believe what they have read. If you are wanting to gain your cock for girls, then you need to take a good look at yourself in the mirror. Quality out weighs quantity. A great personality is a lot more than any girth you can imagine. I am in agreement with marinera, if this forum charged money, we would pull you in immediately, but this place is free.

Like clgp7 posted, ‘You joined this penis enlargement site last month, you’ve apparently not begun to do the exercises’. Are you doing what firegoat posted and doing tons of reading, then sit down with a tub of ice cream in front of the TV? alimahmoud, take your sympathy card somewhere else, but if your serious you need to help yourself first, and once you do that, we are all here for you, the entire forum. this great forum has an abundance of experienced members with vast amount of information on the subject at hand, but in order for these guy to help, they need something to work with.

Look alimahmoud25, if you want this, then change you attitude, and get off your ass and get with it. We have all the information to get you started.

Look alimahmoud, welcome to Thunders. Let me help you get started, START HERE ——-> NEWBIE ROUTINE <——- Important Newbie Info Everything you want to know is in that link. One of the the links I would suggest you read in that link is the Penis Enlargement Manual , I found that to be very interesting. You don’t have to study it, but take a look at it and just go through it, it may help you one day as you start to advance. Another link in there is the Penis Enlargement FAQ, you might find that helpful as well.

From your opening post I think your new to PE. First and foremost, Safety comes first, the exercises are going to hurt a little, but if it hurts a lot, STOP. This is all in the Newbie Link, but just know this going into a PE regiment. This is one of the nice things about this great forum is we care about your health, and the members will urge to either ease up or take a break.

One more thing, Be respectful of your brothers here as they will be to you. The biggest thing that Thunder himself, and the rest of the Moderators do not put up with is disrespect, that is the fastest way to get thrown out of this place. We are all here for the same reason, not to mention our insecurities. Everybody helps each other here.

So alimahmoud, now you know some of the drill. Good luck, and if you have any questions, just ask, also there is a Search button at the top right, just so that you know.

Take care and be careful.

I know PE is an option. But I just want to know in general if my current girth (4.5 inches) can bring a girl a lot of pleasure during intercourse? I’m afraid I need to be at least 5 inches in girth to bring a girl a lot of pleasure during intercourse.

Of course it can bring a girl a lot of pleasure. You can give a girl the most intense orgasms of her life with your finger whilst a man with a 6” girth can be boring or even painful. Vaginas are connected to the brain.

If I may, I’d like to toss in my two cents. Ali- your question is one that has been largely covered in a number of threads. There will be women out there who think that your girth is huge, and at the other end of the scale, there will be those that think that 6.5 inches around is small! After a point, it has more to do with your ability to use it than what you are packing. From what I gather, you are probably a virgin, and have little to no experience with women? Your anxieties don’t seem to be founded on any tangible experiences or you would have mentioned that. From your post, I would say that you are probably comparing yourself to what you consider to be ideal, and developing anxieties around that.

My advice to you is this: Put your measuring devices away. If you watch porn, stop that too- it will negatively impact your self image until you realize that PE is a very real thing. Get on with some exercises, and like Gandhi famously said- “be the change that you want to see in the world”; in other words, if you are not happy with an aspect of yourself or your life- fix it. Don’t like your girth? Don’t whine about it, start with some basic exercises and get on with it. With all the time that you spend lamenting what some hypothetical woman might say about your dick- you could be well on your way to the 5+ club.

Finally, do some reading on what it takes to be successful in a relationship- you will see fairly quickly that the girth of one’s penis is really quite an insignificant and non-important marker of a successful relationship, even one that is purely sexual.

Wow! well put Panamera. So what do you say alimahmoud? When are we going to get started on your first session. Start with the Newbie Routine.

The Newbie Routine

This exercise routine is designed for those new to penis enlargement. It should be challenging but not likely to cause injury. It is important to start out gradually to allow the penis to adapt. The first two months of penis enlargement are when most injuries take place and they are a matter of pushing too far, too fast.
The Newbie Routine

5 minutes hot wrap
5 minutes manual stretch (ten 30-second stretches)
10 minutes of jelq (two hundred 3-second strokes)
5 minutes hot wrap
50 kegels of five second holds each

Schedule:2 days ON / 1 day REST.
Notes

Gradually increase to 10 min total of stretches and 30 min of jelqing over about 6 weeks time.

This routine contains all the essential ingredients for growth. Consistency is important to ensure the best chances of success. As your penis becomes accostomed to the stresses it will become necessary to increase the duration or effectiveness of the exercises.

The following sections deal with the consituent parts of the routine and alternate methods or variations for each.

alimahmoud, here is where you get started. Just know, you have to work for this, and it is going to be hard work. Give the routine a shot, many newbie’s the fast newbie gains with this routine. I saw fast gains on this routine. Good luck, and remember, safety first.

Anything worth nothing comes easy. Nothing worth anything comes easy either ;)

You really have to go and read my thread ‘how long to get your gains’ about how hard it was for me to see gains. It’s long but it’s full of details you might need. I got length gains and some girth but got stuck for a long time. It took me getting really serious or giving up. I decided to get more serious about it ( without hurting myself! ) and it’s paying off.

Well said Panamera.

Ali, PE is definitely an option. However, you need to make sure you are doing this for yourself. When it comes to your body, you should be the one deciding if its actually what you want. There is nothing wrong with any of us on this forum. There never was. Speaking for myself, I, right from minute one decided to take this on for me and only me. It’s obvious that to some extent your partner will absolutely reap the benefits.

All of the advice offered to you thus far in this thread is excellent advice. You and only you can do something about the way you feel. What do you have to lose by giving PE a run? TNT stated that he gained pretty quickly with the newbie routine, so did I. It costs nothing monetarily to start, just a bit of your time and dedication. Decide for yourself if it works and if you want to continue. Sitting around feeling sorry for yourself will not solve the problem. I can say this from personal experience. I started out a bit under two years ago very close to your starting stats. I started PE and had a skeptical outlook and made okay gains. Once I changed my mindset and outlook, the gains started coming much easier and quicker. The first thing you need to do is realize that you are just fine the way you are. The rest is easy.

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NO, You can give a girl lots of pleasure.
BUT, it mostly depends on your skills. Experience is the numebr one you need to satisfy a woman.
IF you are worried and full of anxiety while having sex you probably wont be able to satisfy the girl.
NOT because of your size but because of your mindset.
IF you had that same mindset with a very fat cock you wouldn’t satisfy her.

You are within average girth size. Almost everyone is within average size.
If you meet a woman who had sex with 100 guys then the possiblitiy is high that she wouldnt have had many much bigger ones.
If you meet a woman that is a virgin she will think you are the biggest in the world.

All you can do is to get out meet woman and have fun or get the one you want to share all life with.
During that you can improve your penis health and size through PE.

Experience is everything. I was on the higher end of average in girth and couldnt satisfy girls cause I was INEXPERIENCED.
Once I LEARNED how to satisfy girls(physicly AND MENTALLY!!) I got them satisfied.
I fucked 500 times before I got a clue what to do lol.

So while we understand you. You have to understand that we are not here to whine but to get to work.
So hurry up my friend.