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Edging 101

I don’t know why this happens, but when I start edging I bring myself to the brink of cumming, start doing lots of kegels as I plateau, and I keep myself in this endorphin bliss for around 30min. All of a sudden the high goes away, I start becoming less horny, and my dick starts going a little limp YET I didn’t cum! My dick did produce lots of precum, but I wasn’t even close to finishing. When this happens, I jerk off a little harder to bring myself back to euphoria, or I decide to take a break for like 15min and then start jerking off again. Either way, it takes me a long time to actually cum. I hypothesized that it could be due to my endorphin supply being depleted, but I’m not sure. Any ideas?

Sorry if it has been discussed already, but did anyone else notice a drop in libido when they started edging? I’ve recently taken up purposefully prolonging masturbation again (and stopping before cumming more often than not), and I can’t remember the last time I was so ‘unhorny’ over two/three weeks. It’s almost as if my body got so confused by the different pattern in masturbation that I got stuck in some weird libido limbo.. To be honest I was expecting the opposite effect.

I wish I had smaller libido…

Sometimes edging/ballooning can make hornier, sometimes less.

Maybe look if it’s really edging and do it for 2 weeks to see the difference. Exclude other factors (stress, etc.) and You can answer by yourself.

I have experienced decreased libodo from edging, Norsay.

My explanation was that my body was much more satisfied (or chemically saturated, whatever) after a long edging session than usually so the need for additional satisfaction was weakened.

Start 06.2012 BPEL: 6.1" EG: 5.3" Current BPEL: 7.1" EG: 5.6" Goal BPEL: 7.5" EG: 6"

If you experience any pain in your perineal floor due to over-edging,you need to back off. Apparently it is very hard to heal an injury there, and doctors can’t do much if ligs tear etc down there. It is even ok to ejaculate after an edging session, though some believe it diminishes your gains from that particular session.

Originally Posted by sta-kool
There was this great site, that had an excellent article on the ejaculation process and a terrific description of how to edge, for both men and women. Unfortunately the site vanished. Fortunately I printed it to a PDF one day.

Here are the instructions the author gives:



Since emission and ejaculation are two distinctive processes inside the male body, they can be separated with the edging technique. This enables men to have several (half) orgasms on a row without entering the PERT phase. Separating both requires some practice, but most of all a lot of discipline.

When emission starts, our body wants us to continue stimulation for a few more seconds in order to start the ejaculation trigger.

You’ll need to have the power to say ‘no’ to your own pleasurable feelings, which is not easy at all in the beginning. Most men automatically ejaculate after emission, simply because they don’t have the power to stop stimulation since it feels too good.

Edging is not difficult at all once you know what the emission phase feels like. Some men can feel the tickling sensation of the fluids moving from the ampulla’s and the seminal vesicles towards the prostate. All men, however, feel that their pelvic muscle (the so-called ‘pee muscle’) contracts during the emission phase. This feels like you need to go to the toilet, but you squeeze your muscles and try not to pee. The muscle is contracted, and pulled upwards. Try to stop peeing when you’re going to the toilet, and you’ll feel the muscle that comes into play. When this muscle contracts, emission begins. This is the key moment in edging. As soon as you feel this muscle clamping down, immediately stop all stimulation. If you were touching your penis, pull away your hands, if you were stimulating your nipples or other body parts, stop doing so. Timing is crucial. If stimulation goes on a second too long, ejaculation will occur.

What you need to do now is to release the tension of the pelvic muscle. Instead of pulling the muscle up as if you are trying to stop peeing, push the muscle down, like when you're farting or making bowel movements. Try this out first a couple of times without masturbating, while sitting on a chair for instance. The switch has to be done as soon as you feel the muscle tensing.

Remember it won’t be easy; your body will tell you to continue stimulation and will try to contract and pull up your pelvic muscle. You’ll need to do the opposite: stop stimulation and push out. Continue pushing till you feel the orgasm fade away. This will take about three to five seconds. Don’t stop pushing before the feeling you’re going to ejaculate subsides. Don’t worry if it doesn’t work the first time, just keep on practicing.

Sometimes your muscles in your abdomen will contract once or twice, which may feel like ejaculation is going to start, but eventually these contractions will stop. While you’re edging, small or large amounts of fluid may run out of your penis. If the fluid is clear and sticky, it’s most probably produced by the Cowper’s glands. If the fluid looks like egg white, it’s accumulated sperm that’s being pushed out.

If you successfully performed the edging technique, you will have felt the beginning of an orgasm, but a full ejaculation did not occur and your penis will stay erect for a while. At this point, you’ll feel a slight pressure inside your abdomen, caused by the sperm ready to be released. This feels like you have to pee, but you can’t. Some men report this as a frustrating feeling, which can last for a day if at the end of a session no full orgasm occurs.

After waiting a short while, you can continue to stimulate your penis. Your might have lost your erection in the mean while, which is normal. The goal is to start masturbating again and to go for a new half orgasm, repeating this process as often as you wish. During every emission phase, more fluid will accumulate inside your prostate. Pressure inside will build up and once you decide to let yourself ejaculate, the force and the amount of semen will be enormous.

You don’t necessarily need to finish your masturbation session with an ejaculation. Some people find it erotic to edge in the morning a few times and go to work with the tension in their genitals, caused by not ejaculating (blue balls). In the BDSM world, edging without ever ejaculating is known as orgasm. denial. Don't edge too frequently without ejaculating, because it is known to cause infections at the prostate.


W hen you’ve mastered the edging technique, you can even ‘fool’ your body even more with the ‘double- decker’ method. Instead of one orgasm with ejaculation, you can have two full orgasms on top of each other in a few seconds time. The downside of this technique is that after the second orgasm, the PERT phase will start.

In order to have two orgasms in a row, stop stimulation during the emission phase, but don’t push out the pelvic muscle. Just relax and let your body contract the muscle, as if you were having a normal orgasm. If the timing is right, ejaculation will start without you touching your body (a so called handsfree orgasm). Between the third and fourth spurt of semen, continue stimulation of your penis. If you do it right, a second (and final) orgasm will occur on top of the first one and a new (less powerfull) ejaculation phase will start.

Another trick is to continue stimulation during the emission phase, but to limit the stimulation to very, very, very light touch. This enables you to ‘surf’ on the orgasmic wave, going from a firm stimulation to reach the emission phase to a light stimulation to avoid a full orgasm and so on.


Could someone please help me to understand the second fat-fonted paragraph? Am I supposed to “push down” straight after the “I’m-about-to-cum-sensation” is gone or during it? If I have understood everything correct, I am supposed to “push up” when the cum wants out, and when that sensation is starting to subside, that’s when I start “pushing down”? “The switch has to be done as soon as you feel the muscle tensing” I guess that’s what I don’t understand.
Please help me to understand, if I have misunderstood, thanks guys.

Start: BPEL - 5.7/5.9 x 4.7 (14.6/15cm~ x 12cm)

Short term goal: 6.3 x 4.8

Goal: 7.3 x 5.5


Start: BPEL - 5.7/5.9 x 4.7 (14.6/15cm~ x 12cm)

Short term goal: 6.3 x 4.8

Goal: 7.3 x 5.5

Not exactly the orgasmic waveriding described by stakool but what I do is reverse kegel (push out) as soon as I feel the PONR approaching or just generally to lower the state of my arousal.

Depending on the timing I may be able to fully continue stimulation. Close observation of the sensations is important. Sometimes the pressure from reverse kegeling may get too high and feel like the need to urinate, which occasionally leads to involuntary muscle spasms - ejaculation is imminent (which at this point is pretty likely to be non-orgasmic). In this situation (or if it all just becomes too much) what I do is stop stimulation and do a few normal kegels to return to more manageable terrain. Deep, relaxed breathing and relaxed abdominal muscles are important aswell.

Start 06.2012 BPEL: 6.1" EG: 5.3" Current BPEL: 7.1" EG: 5.6" Goal BPEL: 7.5" EG: 6"

Okay, thanks, I will try that out! :)

Start: BPEL - 5.7/5.9 x 4.7 (14.6/15cm~ x 12cm)

Short term goal: 6.3 x 4.8

Goal: 7.3 x 5.5

Yes, do the pushing down as you get close to the point of no return - this relaxes the muscles and keeps you from going over the edge and ejaculating.

Again it will take time to figure all this out, but practicing is so much fun! If you end up blowing your load, relax and enjoy it.

Thanks, sta-kool! I will give it a try :)

Start: BPEL - 5.7/5.9 x 4.7 (14.6/15cm~ x 12cm)

Short term goal: 6.3 x 4.8

Goal: 7.3 x 5.5

I actually taught myself to do this in my early teens. Had nothing to do with PE, just figured out I could get really strong orgasms by prolonging my sessions like this. Haven’t done it in 15 years or more but since I’m starting a serious PE routine I guess I may get back into it to help my training. I wonder how much trouble I will have doing after all this time.

None of you seem to understand. I'm not locked in here with you.. YOU'RE LOCKED IN HERE WITH ME!


Swimming Pool

OK, this thread is a bit stale, but it is the 1st that comes up with a search for “Edging”.
I have done edging for decades.

Just thought I would pass on some info on using the nozzles in an in-ground pool for
Edging. I stand near the nozzles and bring the penis into the stream, then remove it.
It feels similar to entering & leaving a vagina. It quickly gets to the PONR.
In years past I would have used them to get off (ejaculate).
It produces a good amount of precum. I like the taste of PC.

On another subject, after reading in this forum about pumps, I am considering getting one.
One concern is whether there is a loss of tactile feel. If it is enclosed in a tube, how can
You touch it? They are cheap enough so I could get one just to try it out. Any recommendations?
I see Doc Johnson sold by Walgreens.

I’m not sure if this question has been asked, but how soon after you almost hit your PONR do you resume? If I resume as soon as I feel the need to cum resides it will come back like a minute later. If I wait a little longer it takes 5-10 minutes till I need to cum again. Am I starting up to soon?

Originally Posted by morbidangel

I’m not sure if this question has been asked, but how soon after you almost hit your PONR do you resume? If I resume as soon as I feel the need to cum resides it will come back like a minute later. If I wait a little longer it takes 5-10 minutes till I need to cum again. Am I starting up to soon?

You just want to wait as long as you need to go back some levels. Its good to kind of measure 1-10 so you can notice the subtile differences.


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