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that sounds nonsense, EQ means endurance for me!

Originally Posted by rostomel
that sounds nonsense, EQ means endurance for me!


Care to elaborate on that?

They are not the same thing. Your cock could be a diamond and if you bust in 30 seconds then you don’t have endurance, you have good EQ.

It’s a stretch but I suppose the argument could be made that if you had good EQ then you’d be able to go again after ejaculating, thus EQ could be considered endurance :-k .

mmm, thats true, sorry I mistook the expresion.

Tell me something, the sexual endurance improves going slowly beating your log, then when you stand for a long you beat a little bit quicker, and so, isn`t it?

I had no results with ”a fast beating and then stop before the Point, to rest a minute and again” thats how edging is explained here!

You may do a search for “ballooning”. That is more effective than edging in my opinion. Basically it’s just keeping yourself steady right below the point of no return instead of racing right to it, stopping, and repeating.

oh, what you mean with that is: walking just a step before the Point, making the organ feel like its just about to cum, but keeping that arousal level huh?

Like going up slowly and when you reach, keep a slow rythm and being constantly a second before the Point? Is that ballooning?

Originally Posted by rostomel

oh, what you mean with that is: walking just a step before the Point, making the organ feel like its just about to cum, but keeping that arousal level huh?

Like going up slowly and when you reach, keep a slow rythm and being constantly a second before the Point? Is that ballooning?

That’s my understanding of it, yes. You may want to stay away from the glans when you’re really close because it’s really easy to inadvertently jizz.

So, thats the true way of edge, isn’t it?

Originally Posted by kingpole
How to:

1: Get an erection. Your going to be at it a while so privacy and no distractions are the best conditions to start an edging routine.

2: If you are a two second man ejaculate first, wait for the return then proceed to edge. (Masturbate)

3: Use a good lube, KY jelly is is to drying use a good hand lotion.

4: Stroke the base of your erect penis slowly move up toward the frenulum. The frenulum is the trigger zone this is what makes you cum to soon. Avoid the frenulum unless you decide it is time to cum. Remember edging teaches your mind to be in control not your biological sensations.

5: If you feel the urge to cum, start to move back down to the base again. Keep the strokes slow at first don’t stroke fast until you have mastered edging.

6: When you feel like you are about to cum(PONR) stop edging until the sensation leaves then resume edging (Masturbating)
PONR means point of no return. At this time you can play with your nuts. Explore for the “G” spots you did not realize you had in this area until the sensation to ejaculate subsides.

7: kegel while you are edging. The best type of kegel for this is a moderate pulsing of the BC muscle. When you decide it is time to blow relax the kegel.

You will learn when your shaft is loading up with cum to ejaculate. When you feel it in the base you can stop jerking off at this point instead of waiting for it to travel higher up the shaft.

After a few months of doing this those stoppages will become dry orgasms. (Ejaculating without cumming) This is a very spiritual experience.

Ok, I usually masturbate without lotion, but I assumed it was said to use to to simulate a vagina.

I just tried this, and found it very tough to come even when touching my frenelum. I went about 30 minutes until I started stroking my spot under my balls.

My question is, if I find it easier to cum without hand lotion, would it not be better to do it that way, so I could continuously get close to PONR and back down? I think that is the most important part of edging, getting before that point and come back to it a lot, correct me if I’m wrong here.


Starting Length(Late August 8/11): 6.5 BPEL Currently:6.75 BPEL Short term Goal 7in BPEL

Starting Base Girth(Late August 8/11): 5.25 in Currently:5.40 in Short term Goal 6in

Also, whats the consensus on throwing my cock into the ADS or stretching in general post edging?

I’m only edging for 20-30 minutes so far.


Starting Length(Late August 8/11): 6.5 BPEL Currently:6.75 BPEL Short term Goal 7in BPEL

Starting Base Girth(Late August 8/11): 5.25 in Currently:5.40 in Short term Goal 6in

I’ve been doing this my whole life, & have been surprised talking to friends, most of which never do it. Edging comes naturally to me. I would add from the OP that you don’t necessarily have to stop stroking when you get near the PONR. Just slow down your stroke a little bit. The intense pleasure should still be there, just slightly less intense & not enough to make you cum. & then repeat.

Originally Posted by TopsySauce
Ok, I usually masturbate without lotion, but I assumed it was said to use to to simulate a vagina.

I just tried this, and found it very tough to come even when touching my frenelum. I went about 30 minutes until I started stroking my spot under my balls.

My question is, if I find it easier to cum without hand lotion, would it not be better to do it that way, so I could continuously get close to PONR and back down? I think that is the most important part of edging, getting before that point and come back to it a lot, correct me if I’m wrong here.

It doesn’t matter what technique you use. Edging is all about getting the point of arousal just before orgasm, & riding that point for as long as you can. How you get there & maintain that feeling doesn’t make a difference imo.

Originally Posted by PeteyPiper
I posted this somewhere else, but I bet you guys could give me the neccessary answers.

Hey PE’rs. I have a couple questions about edging and etc.

If deemed important to whom ever may be curious. I am 18 years old. I am uncut and my frenulum is extremely sensitive. A couple of minutes of intercourse and I’m already overly stimulated. I began edging the other day and I discovered that I can completely stop my load with a strong kegel. My questions are:

1. Am I going too far into the PONR? Should I not have to stop my load like that? Because I read in a previous thread that I should relax that muscle with a reverse kegel. But I am certain that I’d nut everywhere.

2. Should I balloon rather than edge? I figure it would make a lot of sense to rub the sensitive areas to that point where I’m going to nut so the spots would calm the hell down and disassociate themselves with busting a nut.

3. Will edging help my load shoot rather than ooze out of my penis. The oozing is whack. I’m trying to shoot far.

4. Also, should I use my mind instead of porn for edging?

Thanks, guys. It’s my first post ever.

I think you are getting too close to the PONR. In fact, it sounds like you are actually getting to the point of no return. When you start having involuntary contractions, an orgasm is inevitable. To stop, you will have to stop what youre doing & stop all stimulation, & even then cum will still probably ooze out anyway & you might go soft. In this situation you will probably be able to get hard again quickly, but it’s a pretty big interruption. I don’t like big interruptions, I prefer to be able to stop things more subtly. You want to be just before this level of arousal where you begin getting involuntary contractions. Extremely aroused, very close to orgasm, but not so that your body is literally contracting & starting to give you one. Just get to the point where your dick is super sensitive & every stroke feels awesome, every stroke feels like that if you were just to alter the speed & intensity a tiny bit you would cum.

Originally Posted by joesnuffy
Guys, I’ve read this whole thread and spent a lot of sessions experimenting with edging. But I am still confused about something. In the ideal state (after becoming an expert), should I be NOT kegeling just before PONR, or just I be kegeling and stoping the ejaculation? Or does it just not really matter as long as I don’t ejaculate?

Reason I ask is that neither seem to have the desired result. If I stop via kegeling, I am not getting any significant difference in volume when I do finally ejaculate (or even I get less if some semen leaks as others have said when edging), and the “orgasm” when edging is just a small burning sensation. It isn’t anything to get excited about. If I stop before PONR and manage not to blow my load without kegeling (or if I use reverse kegeling), I think it just isn’t a big event. There is no orgasm, I back off, and start over.

There have been a lot of posts on this, but not enough in my opinion (or the info we do have contradicts each other, and so do the articles) on the PONR and second or two before and after. Just saying “keep practicing” isn’t helping me much. I do believe you guys are having significant experiences with this, I am just having trouble replicating it. Can anyone clarify.

I don’t stop via kegelling ever, I stop by varying the intensity I’m fucking/stroking at.

Originally Posted by alex553
So it is the actual kegeling while edging, rather than edging (if you didn’t kegel while doing it) that is increasing blood flow, right?

You also said that there is more blood flowing into the penis that is erect for a long time while edging, however, this is only temporary, right? It’s not like edging will give you permanent blood flow.

I don’t think it improves blood flow permanently, but it does give you an increased erection temporarily. Just before you cum, your penis becomes slightly thicker, & the glans become engorged as far as they can go. Now, since your keeping your body in a state that is just before orgasm the entire time … your penis remains erect to its maximum capacity the entire time.

Originally Posted by richardj
Wanking is not the same as having sex with a person who really turns you on. You can edge ‘til the cows come home sometimes, but when having sex with your GF, you are soooooo turned on by what’s happening that you cum very fast. That’s normal. Edging does help VERY much. It teaches you control that you wouldn’t otherwise have. Don’t give it up. You’ll get better with your GF, but have to be patient. Believe me, you’ll be MUCH worse off without it. Well that’s my thoughts anyway.

And that’s the danger with porn. You can end up being so turned on by it that you can end up not being able to have good sex without it. It’s all about conditioning. Your mind is conditioned to have good sex with a GF. That’s good. Build on that.

For the people with partners, I would edge with them. It’s hard because animal instinct kicks in even harder when you’re fucking. But if you can ride the feeling of near orgasm the entire sexual session … you will get immense pleasure, & so will she because you will be acting like an absolute beast. Every touch of her skin will drive you crazy, you will throw her around, you will be extremely intimate & passionate etc

I think I’ve had a dry orgasm before but I didnt get the same feeling as just a normal masturbation session. It was like a weak version of a full on orgasm with ejaculation and all, is this normal or do you guys feel the full on effect?

I dont get it, i thought you should pull in the pc muscle ( i mean squeeze ) the pc muscle when you are about to come so that strains the orgasm. I dont get it with the pushing out like when you are farting?

The orgasm master article helps a lot

I have had a problem with edging to subdue PONR, while doing kegel clenching, clamp, and exercise. It doesn’t help at all, in fact, it helps to going in PONR right away because it gave me more sensitive feeling. I did stop stimulate it, do kegel workout to make PONR feeling goes away. After PONR feeling goes away, I started to stoke it again and PONR came back within 30 secs. It’s not good for me because you need to subdue PONR quickly while having sex with a girlfriend because most of girl doesn’t like wait for few mins till back to no feeling. I was told that longer than ten seconds to subdue PONR isn’t good, and girls will lose climax orgasm quickly.

After I read the orgasm master article provided by thunder member in few pages ago about try push pelvis floor like trying to fart or force let last drop of pee.

I gave it try, first five to ten minutes is a bit difficult. Once I got it and pushed it hard to desensitize my unit, ta da, I was able to masturbate for good 20 to 30 minutes without going to PONR. It instantly cured my problem. After 40 minutes, I accidentally let a half ounce of pee come out and trickled down my hand hahaha. I tried do that method but it kept peeing out and went into PONR quickly. I decided to ejaculate since I passed 45 mins mark which is good enough to me. I drank a lot of water, 8 glasses of water daily. Although, it’s only day one, will try again tmw or two days later to see the result is the same then I’ll stick to it.

Don’t get me wrong, I have been edging for roughly two months and kept struggling with PONR and kegel. I don’t masturbate that much due to busy life and privacy concerns.

I hope my story helps those fellas who have same problem as I.

Cheers!
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