Just need some advice, this is killing me
So I really don’t have anywhere else to explain this dilemma, but I figured there is such a wealth of knowledge here, this would be the best place. First of all, I’m a 22 year old in good shape, never really had any health problems. I don’t really drink at all, but I do use marijuana around 3x per week (trying to cut down). Ok, basically I met this girl around 4 months ago, dated her for a while, but then she broke it up, saying we were “different people”, blah blah. Fast forward to now, I start talking to her again and before I know it, she confesses to wanting sex but no other strings attached. My friends tell me this is the holy grail of hookups, but I’m not really wired that way. I tend to get attached and I really liked this girl. But I’m smart enough to not give up some good times, so we’ve been sleeping together for a few times recently. My real question lies here; I am experience massive problems holding, or even gaining an erection. I mean I’ve never gotten 100% hard with her and it’s killing me! Before we started hooking up I was watching massive amounts of porn, so I cut that out completely for about a week now. Now I understand part of that was initial “nervousness” but its continued and its eating me alive. Could it be porn, weed, mental, or a combination? Have any of you had an experience like this? Basically I try and diffuse the situation by going down on her or something but I have yet to even blow my load. And she DOES turn me on like crazy so this is pretty much the most frustrating experience I’ve had in my life. Thanks for reading and I appreciate any responses.
"Been that way for years and years, a slave to broken hearts and sex appeal."