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We are hanging out again tonight at my place, and I’m going to install a lock this time (kinda obvious isn’t it?). I’m getting better and better to mentally let go and just let things happen as they happen. So I’ll just have fun, have no expectations and enjoy the moment!


"Been that way for years and years, a slave to broken hearts and sex appeal."

Originally Posted by certaindeath4
I’m getting better and better to mentally let go and just let things happen as they happen. So I’ll just have fun, have no expectations and enjoy the moment!

Good luck with that.


WE are the 99% 'WE are the people you depend on; we cook your meals, we haul your trash, we connect your calls. We drive your ambulances. We guard you while you sleep. Don't f&ck with us'-- Madame DeFarge

"Rope trades @$10 a yard. I wonder if they even know that?"- Capitalist

Hi CetrtainDeath!
I had you problem before, but in a different situation. It seems you are getting through anyhow. I would normally say go for love, but this women sounds particularly laid back and fun. You can have a lot of mutual fun with a girl like that. If it were me, I would be indulging in a lot of sensual massage and all sorts of fun and games. It does not need to be full blown shagging every time. I love a girl with imagination - she seems to have plenty. I had a girlfriend years ago, who was real hot, real hot, but I realised a relationship could not work. So I said to her, look, I really need sex, and you are fantastic, lets just do that. She agreed, and it lasted on and off for a while, and it was so hot. That was when I was 19 - 22 years ago. We are still friends and she hooks up with my wife once a week for Zen meditation. Go easy on yourself chill out - and report back here with an update.

Oh by the way, you don’t need to screw millions of women to become experienced. I have only been all the way with four, and that was enough head banging for one lifetime! But seriously, you can explore a lot of stuff with just one woman, and this one sounds like she might be fun. One tip for erections is - don’t masturbate to orgasm - save that for her. You will be so revved up your body will crave release. Also Pot can reduce libido in some people. You have youth: that is a drug in it’s self - enjoy.

You’re getting some good responses CD. All the best, sounds like you’re on the right road.

Well last night everything changed. We went to a party with all her friends (didn’t know any). She has a super protective sister so she told me to just act like her b/f. I went along with it and before long she was pretty drunk (I was driving) and she went on and on about how she likes me and can’t separate between just having fun and having a relationship. We went to my house till 7am and then I had to go volunteer picking up trash at 9. Kind of rough, but worth it. Basically she’s had a rough past with relationships, and so she was super-cautious about starting a new one. My only concern is that I am leaving to college in the next 4-6 months but I’m going to try and not worry about it and just go forward. I really appreciate the advice and am grateful a place like a Thunders exists.

CD4


"Been that way for years and years, a slave to broken hearts and sex appeal."

So does that mean it’s on or off?


WE are the 99% 'WE are the people you depend on; we cook your meals, we haul your trash, we connect your calls. We drive your ambulances. We guard you while you sleep. Don't f&ck with us'-- Madame DeFarge

"Rope trades @$10 a yard. I wonder if they even know that?"- Capitalist

Originally Posted by androNYC
So does that mean it’s on or off?


Sounds like some sort of combination of the two… Onfff perhaps?

GM

Yeah, that’s what I thought.

Good luck with that.


WE are the 99% 'WE are the people you depend on; we cook your meals, we haul your trash, we connect your calls. We drive your ambulances. We guard you while you sleep. Don't f&ck with us'-- Madame DeFarge

"Rope trades @$10 a yard. I wonder if they even know that?"- Capitalist

Sorry if I wasn’t clear, this sex must be getting to my head. We are officially dating. What was crazy, was the parents almost kicked me out of the house today because they heard us last night.


"Been that way for years and years, a slave to broken hearts and sex appeal."

There you go, man. It sounds like you got what you wanted. You had the confidence and drive to step up, and you did it. If this relationship pans out or if it doesn’t, it’s a major growth period in your life. You now know you can satisfy a woman, and that rules.

Take it day by day. It looks like a long distance relationship may be in your future, but if you both know the rules, hopefully you’ll be able to let each other go in the end…or keep it going. Either way, major victory for you. Good job.

One word of advice though: Make sure she’s not too clingy. You may be the one guy that has treated her nice, and she doesn’t know how to handle that. Sorry to say, but she may not be the one. Just watch out. Love comes in many different forms.

Oh we hung out tonight, had to relocate to the car haha :) . And I was able to come tonight, that was amazing. Seriously, knowing that she wanted the whole of me for a relationship turned me on so much. It was like there was no pressure to perform and we just were together and that was really it.


"Been that way for years and years, a slave to broken hearts and sex appeal."

Congratulation man. I’m really happy for you!

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