Lost interest in BJ, advice needed!
Hey guys, I need some advice quite desperately. Last night my girl and I were fooling around and she went down on me for the first time. I’d been drinking a bit, and also didn’t want to lose out on the fun too quick, so I tried to keep my mind off it. She was going slow at first…and then all of a sudden it was like *snap* I was out of the mood and she noticed, and got super sad and just disappointed in herself thinking she was bad at it. The thing was though that she wasn’t, like she was doing well, but actually was really torn about her not being able to finish it off really. I told her it wasn’t her, it was probably the situation or she was taking too long to speed it up, but that barely seemed to do anything. Now I’m worried she may never try again, or it’ll be a long time until she does. Any advice guys? Similar experiences (doubtful lol) and advice thusly?
Thanks, because this is just f*d up since I’m actually feeling bad about it.
Current: BPEL - 7.375", NBPEL - 6 1/8" - 6 1/4", EG - 5.375"
Goals (Modest): BPEL - 7 3/4", EG - 5 3/4"
Goals (Maybe one day): BPEL - 8.5", EG - 6 "