Without getting into the specific words she used, over the years she would imply or tell me straight out that she had bigger and better, unsolicited by me, btw. She also told people close to me the same thing, again unsolicited, and they repeated it back to me. It is not so much that she had this opinion, my ego is not so big, or I am that insecure, or that my pride is hurt so easily, but that these comments were unsolicited, and repeated over time. And again, also repeated to mutual friends. I can certainly understand and accept that we all have gifts and talents, and no one has a monopoly on all of them. But it doesn’t help that in addition her comments about having bigger, (and maybe I am old fashioned here, or down right wrong, I am open to opinions about this) that she also implied and sometimes stated outright that she was more open to doing and trying sexual things with him and other BF’s that she was with me. Those comments would have not sat well with me if we were just BF and GF, but they really stung in that we are husband and wife. I have also never experienced anything even close to something like this before, so it has taken a bit of adjusting to. I just feel like the biggest idiot for marrying her. If I knew all this then, I wouldn’t have.