In the UK we have a ‘chant’ we are taught as kids - ‘sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me.’ It may be a kids retort, but it’s actually a very useful mental shield too. When you know there is no foundation to what someone says, and that they are saying something purely out of malice, the best option is to smile and say nothing. It may be tempting to say ‘your tits are small’, or ‘I’m sure the next girl I stick it in will be happy’. But don’t.
It makes me cringe hearing of guys becoming hermits just because some malicious woman made (what was to them) a throw-away comment.
Guys, you are going to hear a lot of negative crap in many forms during your lifetimes; from women, co-workers, bosses, your parents and friends. Negative feedback can be a superb learning tool or it can harm you, but that is a decision within your own control.
Learn from it and adjust if it is of value to you, but discard it if it is not.
This guy could have been packing an 8 incher and the bitch would have said the same thing. It’s sad to read that those words in that context had such an effect.
Talking about wake up calls. I haven’t had one. I’m a lot smaller than most guys on here at about 5.75 NBPEL X 5 Girth and have never felt like I’ve had any issues with women at all or feel like I’ve been judged.
The reason for wanting to do this is simply ego. When I watch porn and see a big dick stretching a pussy, I want to be able to look down at my dick in a pussy and see it just like that. And I don’t exactly know why because it’s quite difficult to get it in a lot of pussies as it is.