Is It In Yet????

Yeah, the other guy was a built-like-you’d-die-for Baseball player from Africa. Pitch-black and so tall he easily could put his chin on my head (I’m 183cms tall).
We knew each other and had good times and no rivalry, as he lived in France and she visited him sometimes and he dropped over sometimes too. Pretty cool guy he was!

It seems she had the nose :-) - and she was a lot of fun too. Unfortunately not a keeper for me for the mindset I was in then.
And I have to admit that she was maybe a little narrow-minded for my wild times then.
I mean: anal yes, oral no??? Still scratching my head on that one!

But if ever: beware of 180cm tall, big-breasted and large-hipped redheads who ask at the railway station what time it is…
Because that’s how it started.

I see her from time to times in the shopping mall because she lives quite close - and even now after 20 years my dick remembers her and give a little howdy-wink :-)

Haha, sounds like you had a lot of fun with her indeed when you’re talking about her like this. :)

I’ve never heard “is it in yet?”, and never had a problem with getting a lover to orgasm. But someday I’d like to see the eyes go wide and make her moan and grunt with a big one. Other than that, my motivation to do PE is I want a thick flaccid dick to slap my legs when I walk. I spent some time at a nudist gathering and while there was nothing wrong with my size compared to others, I want a leg slapper! He he.

After reading all of the stories in this thread (which I’ve been doing all day) I wouldn’t’ wish those experiences on anyone, and thankfully I have never heard those 4 dreaded words “Is is in yet?”, I would have to say that it was because of my lack of promiscuity only having slept with three girls in my life. Two of which I was in long term relationships with and one alcohol fuelled one night stand that didn’t last long enough.

I have always been aware that I was slightly below average down below and exclusively date petite girls, I am a good looking guy with good people skills so I have never had a problem with girls being attracted to me but always been way to afraid to go further with them until we were in a relationship.

My most recent long term girlfriend of 5 years and I had a really long and painfully drawn out breakup and its really eating me up. This was my “is it in yet” moment, She and I were perfect for each other physically, she is gorgeous and really petite and we had personalities that just meshed together, we were madly in love with each other for the first 4 years and went downhill from there, we previously had really good but not amazing sex (she always said it was but I could tell it could have been better) until a few months before this drawn out breakup and even in the last month we had a couple of times where I guess for fear of losing her had some of the best sex we have had in 5 years with me outperforming myself in time and technique (around the same time I found thunders :) ). Even this wasn’t enough for her to realise that what we had was right, she left me and is now with another guy..

As painful as this is I am hopeful for the future but this is really a wake up call for me as I want to make sure that this doesn’t happen to me again I want the next girl in my life to be satisfied with me 150% and that means building more meat!!

I started PE about a month ago with a scaled down version of the newb routine only 1 set of stretches and started with 30 perfect jelq and increased 10 per week and have had a great improvement with EQ until recently when I decided to up the intensity of my jelq I’ve noticed greatly decreased EQ and a weird feeling in my unit almost like blood is having trouble circulating but only for a fraction of a second and is mildly painful. Decided this was due to over training and my current numb outlook on life due the breakup. I guess a few days rest is in order then back to it.

Thank you everyone on Thunders sharing their stories and showing that we’re not alone in this and that people on here have achieved their goals and mine is just a lot of pulling and squeezing away in the near future.. I’m in this no matter how long it takes and its great to know that there are people on here who understand and convert those feeling of despair to real motivation and succeed!

Fred, PE is for the long term so if you are feeling discomfort back off, and return to less for a while.

As difficult as breakups are I assure you the size of your dick isn’t going to make or break.

Do the PE for yourself and take the confidence to life in general.

And yes, this is a remarkable community here.

This was never told to me. I’ve asked girls about it and they have said that I’m good in bed, my ears are ringing, etc. I have a pretty decent length for a 5’5 man, 6.75. I measured my girth however and I was only at like 4.3. So I never really believed any of the girls although I’ve never had any girl say I had a small dick. I’ve tried jelqing and it hasn’t done much for me so far. But how do you even get a proper measurement for girth?! Do you squeeze the tape when its on, leave it a little loose but at the exact moment everything touches, I’m just flipping out, ect?

Fred how big are you?

Lightning, when measuring for girth, just wrap the tape around normally, not squeezing, and not loose.

I’ve been a lurker here for the past month or so, but this thread along with the “Secret of a small penis” thread motivated me to actually post.

I’m half Asian and always grew up assuming that I must be less than ideal in the size department, and my smallish flaccid size didn’t help (2-4 inches). I was nervous for my first sport’s physical in high school and didn’t explore my sexuality like a teenager should. I turned down a few chances to go skinny dipping with hot girls that I would have really liked to have seen naked. I didn’t have one night stands at high school parties. There were even a few times where girls new to alcohol would reach down my pants or try to pants me and I would get nervous and remove myself from the situation. I lost my virginity fairly early (15 years old), and didn’t have too much size anxiety while with semi-serious girlfriends - at the time I assured myself that whoever I was with wouldn’t care as long as they liked me.

Throughout high school and early college I got a lot of positive feedback from girlfriends that my size was acceptable (Pre-PE: NBPEL - 6.0; EG - 4.8) and my personal mindset shifted from having a small penis to a decent penis (at least when erect). I became more adventurous after this paradigm shift as I was happy to be normal, and slept with a new girl basically every other weekend in college. While in college, I was constantly around sorority girls and exposed to the reality of how important sex/bedroom performance is to a relationship or a potential hook-up, and how much girls talked about penis size or lack thereof - some of these girls were downright cruel as we’ve seen in this thread.

We had communal showers at my fraternity in college, and soon after internalizing all this “size matters” stuff I happened to stumble into the communal shower with a guy in my frat house that was 7” flaccid. It was bigger than my erect size, and I could feel my flaccid shrinking to its low ~2 inches while in the shower with him. I could not imagine of hooking up with a girl after she’d been with him. Another humbling experience happened when me and my 2 year college girlfriend were watching porn while having sex. It was a Peter North film and when she got a look at the size of his penis the words “OH MY GOD!” slipped out of her mouth. Just seeing the look in her eyes and hearing her say that and then looking down at my 6” NBPEL made me feel like I was missing something even if I was average. Also, being Asian hasn’t helped as people are always assuming that you must be hung like a baby - even though this wasn’t the case I didn’t have a monster penis to shut them up.

I’ve been PEing for 2 months (newbie routine) and I’ve had significant improvement in flaccid (2-4 —> 3-5) and small improvements in erect size (NBPEL 6 —> 6.1; EG 4.8 —> 5.0). Things with my current girlfriend have improved even with the small gains, she feels its thicker. I hope to achieve 7 NBPEL x 6 EG and have a flaccid that is consistently around 5 inches. I know this may take years and life can get busy, but I’m in it for the long haul.

It sounds like you are on the right track.

Hi all, I have been doing PE excercises and I don’t know if it is on my mind but I already feel “more vascular”. I start from 6.1 erect (body pressed), is it feasable to reach at least 7.5 by PE (I am a little over 6.3 ft and 198 pounds)?

Thanks a lot guys

I would think so, if you have a few years to spare.

In three years I’ve gained an inch and a half and I’m learning new stuff all the time about how my unit reacts to PE.

That’s the first thing you start to notice, and it is an attainable goal for sure if you put the effort into it and don’t expect it to happen overnight.

I don’t have a wake up call cause almost everyday of my life was one (didn’t realize it until now) my ex was the one them and more people, man even my uncle was dissing me and they all think it’s the size of a pinky or smaller, but I recently measure with my iPhone lol (no ruler) but surprising enough the body is 4.5 (Same height as the phone) but what about the head?? I really wanted to finish the measurements so I download this app call Iruler (it’s scrolls up and down) so I measured it, it reach from 4.5 to 6 is this really me? Even if it is why can’t I just be happy? I guess all the talking and the laughter got to me, sometimes I feel like telling them all like bitch I know how make it bigger and what They gonna say NOTHING but their jaws drop but I won’t, got to remain humble lol

Goodday,

Dont’ sweat anyone whose knocking you, it does you no good. I wouldn’t think about them or even talk to them. Be happy with yourself and what you have to offer, and just be happy in your life.

I hope you make good gains in PE.