Tell Your Son Your Penis Size

To clarify myself, I had in mind that “old enough” to talk about PE would be when he is over 18, and done with high school.

Chances are he’d find out about it from a friend or on his own before he’d bring the subject of with me. I don’t know.

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I’m not going to tell him “size does not matter”. That phrase is such an irritation, it does matter in a sick and insecure world. So I would start him out at an early age say 16 with some simple stretches and say it is for penis health. When 18 if he pushes the issue I would introduce him to TP. If he asked me my size I would say what my size is.

When I was young I saw older boys and men with bigger dicks, it made me feel like shit. Until I was in high school I had never seen a flaccid hang on any male. They were always erect.

My son is much younger than 14, but I did ask him if he wanted a big one when he grew up. He said no. :p

Yeah, KP, sadly it does, as you say, “matter in a sick and insecure world.”

When I was in junior high and high school, I occasionally saw other boy’s cocks in the locker room or in porn mags. I really didn’t give it much thought. The pleasure and pursuit of pleasure was the big deal to me, and having fun with the cock I had/have. If anything, the only comparing myself to other men was that I was inclined to admire the muscularity of the big rugby jocks…. I was a skinny runner. While I might have been intimidated or just impressed by their physique, I didn’t care about their cocks.

Another thought in this whole thing, back to sons…. Though I doubt my son would talk to me about it, if he ever mentioned that a girl (or guy I suppose), rejected him because of the size of his penis, at that point I would tell him that size does not define a man’s worth, or at least it should not, and that someone who would choose to like him based on his penis size or reject him for perceived insufficient size, is shallow and probably not a quality person to have a relationship with anyway. Guys who seem to live just in the pursuit of more holes to plug with their “big tool” are not the kind of guy that I want to raise my son to be, and yeah, I have the right to decide how I will raise my son. How he turns out, though, is of course ultimately up to him.

In my opinion, size is important when it comes to pleasure (for oneself and one’s partner), and I don’t think it’s wrong to be proud of having a big penis. However, to fixate on it as the most important attribute of being a man is immature in my opinion, and probably a sign of other psychological issues going on. As I think that most kids going through puberty are naturally immature and prone to feelings of insecurity, I expect it to be something they’d worry about. And because of that, I think it is proper for a father to assure his son that he need not get sucked into the “sick and insecure world” mentality that a man should be ashamed of an average or less than average cock size.

As much as I am proud of my penis enlargement accomplishments, there is so much more to life!

There is one situation where I would definitely intervene with my son without waiting to be asked. If I discovered that his body was not growing right, such as gonads not enlarging like they should at puberty, I would take him to my urologist so he could get the medical care he’d need to get proper development to happen. Long time ago I had a friend who actually trusted me enough to show me his “micropenis.” Honestly, my friend’s penis is no bigger than what my two year old son has now, and his testes were small too. He didn’t get the DHT or IGF-1 or didn’t have the proper androgen receptors. That’s a serious medical condition. If I knew my son had that medical problem, I would NOT wait for my son to bring it up. I’d get him to a doctor ASAP.

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#:-o

The cocks in the mag’s belonged to adult men.

I am 21, and I am not to sure if I would be comfortable with my dad talking to me about PE at any given age. Sure, I have had “the speech” with my dad about sex in general but to go into such details as size or his size would make me feel very awkward with my dad.

Pretty sure that was the case BigFatLuvRocket. I just amuse myself when and where I can. :spin2:

And how would you handle that? He’s going around bragging to all his friends that his penis is bigger than his dad’s.

I remember it was sometime in high school when this question came into my mind. I saw others friends unit, some were bigger some smaller, some my size, I didn’t really pay much attention, but the question was already there. Later on I read in a magazine something about size and it turned out I was small according to their view. But since I was a child I was a scientist, interested in facts and statistics, so I took an anatomy book which had lots of info and the size that was given in there was actually my size, although was a range I was actually a bit above their average. That put my mind to rest for a good 10 years :) .
So I would think if you give him a science book (not the crappy data various magazines give) you’d give him the trust and confidence that he needs to have a normal teen development..

Telling him your size is pointless in my view.

I think porn has done a lot to destroy mens spirits. It has made a generation of young men with more hang ups than necessary. I think the reason there are Penis enhancement forums is to undue most of that damage.

I’m involved in a situation where an older man older than me is constantly telling a 19 year old boy that he has a small penis. It has gotten to the place where this boy is talking about penis pills being advertised in fitness magazines. I’m having to come up and mop up the damage being done to this young man.

I almost told him about TP or Pegym. If this becomes a more severe pressing issue I will not let a this young man go through adult life w/o out the knowledge to increase his penis size if it comes down to it.

I sense that his spirit is being broken though and I will likely have to point him in this direction.

Do you guys think I should step up the penis enhancement approach?

You’re a great guy kp, always helping others.

You can always steer him in the right direction. If you don’t want to be obvious, just say there’s a guy named kingpole on this forum that likes to help those in need.

Depending on how well you know this person, it may be easiest to do this anonymously. Print a screen-shot of the main page of Thundersplace showing the http address and anonymously leave in his jacket pocket, gym bag, briefcase, backpack… you get the idea. Then, if you sense that he’s interested in PE or is asking about this in a sincere way, you can talk to him about it personally. I know that if I was 19 and some guy started talking to me about penis enlargement and making my dick bigger, I would think it was some kind of creepy come-on.

Good luck

Hmm, I may just do that, be discreet. I would not want him to think I’m some kind of kinky pervert or anything like that.

I would not be jealous. I’d be proud. Rather have him bragging than getting a girl pregnant, or something like that.

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