Tell Your Son Your Penis Size

Condom education early should go right along with PE education.

Kingpole — if I was a betting man, I would say there is a 50% chance your friend is packing an above average tool. I just don’t get why the older guy is filling your friend’s head with size anxiety.

I came across an excellent 3 page "What is the average penis size" article yesterday on a UK movie, game, gadget, and music review site. They have dating advice too. For some reason the site does not seem to be up today - but the article has a good discussion of shower vs growers, why average size from the size studies may be inflated, body image issues, the damage that size anxiety can do to people and relationships, and so on. Maybe this info can help you with your "clean-up"

What’s the average penis size?
Dr Petra Boynton
http://www.mans ized.co.uk/answ … -penis-size/a15

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I’m 20, heres my young opinion. First off, you aren’t MUCH better off with a bigger dick theres not that many reasons. It doesn’t make u live longer. It doesn’t prevent prostate cancer. For the first time in my life girls are chasing me, lately most the girls I befriend end up calling me, wanting me, getting with me, buying me shit Etc. What for my little 6.75-7.0 NBPEL. Thats really not big, honestly. Yes you might be better off in term of sex if u have a big dick, but god theres so much more. Keep in mind I am young, so I hope I don’t get attacked for saying this. But in my experience, yes there are some girls where size is everything, but that is NOT most girls. Teasing,and a sense of humor can get u into a girls pants similarly. A bright smile, nice hair, a sly wink, calling her darlin’ and gettin away with it even though you just met. It’s CONFIDENCE, I’m a nice guy thats not a pushover, I’m not a total asshole, but I’m not a total pussy. I tease, insult lightly, but then warm her heart with my blue eyes and cocky smile. ITS DEFINEATLY NOT MY SIZE THAT DOES IT, ITS MY ACTIONS. I didn’t start getting any until i was confident, girls would mention there big EXs and I would openly admit, “Hey I’m not that big.” And theyd tell me they didn’t care, and fuk me anyways. The last two girls i fucked, one had a CURRENT boyfriend of at least 8 inches, and my current girl’s previous boy had 10 inches(this has ben verified by others). This girl Jen paid me 20 bucks once to get me, which i didn’t, that was after fukin my friend who has a impressive 8 and a half. I’m sorry im getting off topic, just needed some evidence. Im not even going to get into the guys I’ve been with.

Out of my whole group of friends i grew up with, its the two 5 inchers that get laid the most, and have confidence comparable to my 8 and a half inch friend.

I’m not saying size isn’t a factor, but theres so much you can do. As far as repeat sex goes, maybe thats where size come into play. But AGAIN, your foreplay and devotion to pleasing a women shows confidence as well as your experience. There is no such thing as one size fits all. I’ve had my penis called perfect by a close female friend, who said her last 8 inches hurt and was too much for her. 6 was perfect she said. The best sex she had was with a guy who was 5and a half.

So I feel that better off is appropriate, but much better off reveals that maybe there are some other things you can try to attract women.

As far as telling your son, what could if hurt. Don’t be ashamed of yourself. Tell him that by the time u reached age so and so it was this long. Your son obviously looks up to you so much. God I wish I had a dad like you I could trust that much. Tell him its about who you are, and how you act that attracts women as much as penis size. Even though women will admit they perfer a larger penis, they also perfer confident studs, and sometimes the two don’t come together and sometimes they do.

Again I emphasize I wish had a Dad like you, you’ve obviously been a terrific father. Teach him that men should be automatically respected, and that any women that would put a man down based on something genetic like penis size, or height, should be thrown in the discard bin.

Good luck.

Reminder to all, Our penis size genes are an expression of our ancestors penis size for the most part. Our relatives were able to reproduce, and isn’t that what penises are for after all(question).

Forum Guidelines. Next time you’ll be on hold.

I’m sorry my keyboard is broken Marinera. And I wanted to empahsize somethings with Caps, put me on hold if you want,

Guys with 8" dicks could have a healthy dose of size anxiety. Likely he is normal or above.

Yes, but if it mattered so much, and size was so important, why would she cheat with a smaller cock(question). The answer is CONFIDENCE.

Well that is what were trying to help guys with and that is confidence.

Ya damn right.

I totally agree with Rhadadames with sharing some of the normal, intimacies such as letting him watch you pee, and showering with him, and, basically, just being comfortable with your body in front of him, whether you are both clothed or naked. I have a 16 year old son, and I have realized that children seem to get the most valuable lessons from what you demonstrate to them as much, if not more than what you tell them. If you are demonstrating a healthy comfort with your own body in front of your son, and with your son’s body as well, then he will pick up on that positive feedback and get more from that than anything. There is nothing that my son and I are embarrassed about sharing with each other in conversation now, and I truly believe it is because I had made it a point to be comfortable giving my son all the information he asked for as he was growing up, and also demonstrating unconditional love and acceptance for him. Though he is a very handsome boy, and even better hung than I am, lol, that is the minor stuff, actually. He has learned through our relationship, that regardless of what he looks like, or ever looks like in the future, and regardless of what mistakes he makes, there is nothing he can do that he could not tell me, or that would ever change my love for him. I have also taught him that if there is something about yourself that you can change, then change it, but never at the risk of your health. If you cannot safely change it, then it is always possible to learn to fully love and accept yourself the way you are. I have taught him to not determine his, or anyone else’s worth by appearance, rather, to look at the heart and go from there. When he was a toddler and at the constant questioning age, he often bathed with me, and asked all kinds of questions about his own body and mine. I had no problem allowing him to explore his own body and to examine mine. As unorthodox as that may seem, I never did anything sexual with him, just for the record. He was just curious and asking questions about similarities and differences, and if he will look like that someday, all the normal stuff kids ask. I always answered his questions as he asked them, and it just seemed to flow as naturally as teaching him how to shave after he went through puberty. I did opt to tell him about jelqing and strengthening your pelvic muscles. I told him early on, because I know that strengthening those muscles at an early age means better blood flow, better control over your urine and bowel functions, and healthier sex with good control and stronger orgasms. I just added that gaining increase in size is a nice bonus, but that some people opt to use jelq for size alone. I don’t think that you should put it to a kid that jelqing and doing the exercises just for size should be stressed to them in a way that makes them feel inadequate about their bodies. I think everyone should jelq and exercise because it’s just a healthy thing to do, like working out the rest of your body is good for you. With both types of exercise, whether it’s your biceps, or your sex organs, possible increase in size is just a bonus. This also coincides with wadatah510’s reply. The main thing, I believe, is to give kids the freedom to know that they can come to you with any question about anything and know that you will be there to answer, or help them find an answer, or just be there when there is no known answer. It’s all about an honest, open, transparent, loving relationship. Be willing to let your kids learn from your own experiences and even your mistakes, and it will save them from having to repeat a lot of the bad stuff.

1. Welcome to Thunder’s Place Dickbuddy.

2. Paragraphs are free. Please use as many as you like. We have an international membership and many of our members do not speak English as their first language. It makes it easier for them to understand what you’re saying if you break it down into smaller bits. And it helps native English readers as well. Thanks!

3. I think your relationship with your son is unusual (great and beneficial, but not the norm in most families) and not every teen would benefit from or understand why their dad was telling them to do PE exercises.

4. Great first post. Please continue to participate.

It’s not about caps, danman88. Here are some specific recommendations:

Capitalization: “I” instead of “i”

Lose the chatspeak: “you” instead of “u”

Punctuation: “that’s” instead of “thats”, “it’s about who you are” instead of “its about who you are”

Spelling. “prefer” instead of “perfer”, “fuck” instead of “fuk”, “fucking” instead of “fukin”, “DEFINITELY” instead of “DEFINEATLY” Oh, and “emphasize” instead of “empahsize” (in your reply)

Correcting those things would be a very good start.

Dickbuddy’s post with some paragraph breaks thrown in:

Dickbuddy: great first post!

BFLR

:rolling: That always cracks me up every time I see a moderator use it.