Tell Your Son Your Penis Size

Your mum has seen you wearing your FLESH LIGHT???? Wow…

You know what I meant.

It would be impossible to stand there wearing a Flesh Light, erection goes down and it would fall off.

Exactly. When they’re adults and ask fine have the talk. Till then let them have fun, make mistakes, pick them up when they fall and let them find their own path in life not the one you want them to take.

Well to me it doesn’t sound as much about telling future or current fathers on how to raise their children but more like how not to pass your insecurities onto your future or actual children.

Any guy can father a kid but not every guy is a responsible Father.

I disagree with this part for the same reason I’ve said in all of the previous threads on this topic. Teenagers have enough body image issues. They don’t need their parents to give them another by suggesting they might be too small.

No, I don’t think it’s just you. Most 14 year olds are still not grown up enough to deal with body modification issues.

I couldn’t help myself ;) Congrats on the open communication in your family. That is great! (And fleshlights are great too …)

I had to be open as I used my Mums credit card :) .

I wasn’t really bothered telling her though, the funny thing is my younger sister said “I thought all that penis enlargement stuff didn’t work” so I ended up telling her what does and what doesn’t, she laughed her head of when I told her you wear it for 9months (Andro) and said its like a woman being pregnant.

I took the quote from the guy directly above the post you quoted ( Grief_ ), but I was making a general statement with it for all reading to consider.

Forum much?

I ask, because I thought it was fairly obvious, and it is my habit to quote folks if the comment I’m referencing isn’t within a post or two of my own; sort of unspoken forum etiquette, if you take my meaning.

My perception is contextual, Mr. Rocket.

In the context of a young, naive, 14 year-old, who is coming of age and asking about size differences I think it’s fairly reasonable to assume that self-confidence at that age is, at best, still in a newly evolving stage. Particularly when it comes to self-image, the body, and anything related to the wonderful world of sex. Touchy subjects all in our culture.

It’s no mistake that westla, Cock Kent and I all have the same general point of view on this subject, as do others here I might add.

We, as adults, are considering the impact of what the suggestion of a Thunder's Place might have on someone that young.

As a man you may think you are no more a man with your gains, but then again you’re a man - so you have a different amount of life experience to put such things in perspective. Children are not typically as centered. Sex is brand spanking new to them at that age (or it should be anyway), and it is, by its nature, a loaded proposition for their self-esteem.

The psychological growth that challenges adolescence is matched only by the physical and hormonal changes.

Best to let children run that gauntlet free of any extreme ideas about body-modification - especially as it relates to sex.

To list just one example: We have older people here, people who are more centered, injuring themselves all the time because of over-zealousness.

Who wants to be the parent that has to explain the injuries their child might well suffer to…their spouse, the family doctor or, worse, emergency personnel? It’s possible such a parent could lose custody of their child under the wrong circumstances.

PE is loaded proposition for those under age and one best left completely alone.

You want to do your son a favor? Teach him to play ball.

Only a measly 430+ at this site, for what it’s worth. I don’t understand the point of that question.

Anyway, my take on the original post was whether we’d tell our sons our penis size. My best answer is “it depends.” Apparently any elaboration is subject to abusive responses from people who’ve never met me or my family.

BFLR

I’m sorry if you found my response abusive.

For the record, I did not understand that you were responding so specifically to the thread-title question.

The thread itself seems to have turned into a referendum on whether to teach one’s son to PE or not, the size question being the lead-in.

I didn’t (and don’t) mean to offend you Mr. Rocket, but I do disagree with the proposition of teaching teens PE. I assumed, wrongly, that you were taking a “what’s so wrong with it?” position.

As far as telling one’s son about penis size, I’m for it.

I think that question could provide a healthy way for a parent to discuss what’s real and what’s not with regard to a wide-range of issues relating to sex.

I do sincerely apologize for any misunderstanding between us.

Hey, Merry Christmas you two. Everything OK now? ;)

I just mis-under-estimated him.

It happens.

You’re okay by me BigFatLuvRocket. :up:

You playing fucking Doogie Howser again with the steroid thing ironaddict?

I agree that it is wrong to tell a 14 year old about PE, but I really wish I knew about PE when I was that age.

I appreciate that most you guys have included your age with responses. I really don’t like this threads because it makes me want to say “wait till you have kids!”.

As a 46 year old dad when do you talk to your kids about sex. What age? Can’t imagine discussing penis size until they are sexually active and mature. So the question to you young guys what is the age?

We’re family here no need to take offense. Yea we may come across as the opinionated uncle but we mean well.

Cock Kent: In case I didn’t mention my age, I’m 38.

I accept your apology, Mr. Happy. Thanks.

BFLR