Most people talking about EQ focus on increasing blood flow into the penis. But an erection is actually a two-stage process: increasing the size of the blood vessels flowing into the penis while also decreasing the size of the blood vessels leading out of the penis. How does the body simultaneously increase and decrease blood vessels? It’s because of a difference in the type of blood vessels. Viagra dilates one type of blood vessel, the type flowing into the penis, but it doesn’t dilate the type of blood vessel leading out of the penis. As far as I know, viagra doesn’t have any effect on vascular systems draining blood out of the penis. I sometimes wonder if an erection aid could be developed that would act on the vessels flowing out, and assist those veins in decreasing in size. Either on it’s own or in combination with viagra it could help erections by slowing the flow of blood out of the penis.
This is actually a fairly complex process. I tried reading an article on it once and it was a bit over my head. But I got the point that, whether you’re talking about the neurology or endocrinology or psychology or vascular functioning of getting and staying hard, it’s a complex and delicate balancing act that occurs in the body to get some blood vessels to increase while others decrease. Many on this site know that NO is beneficial in this process, which is why we stack L-Arginine, etc.
But I mention this less-discussed function, the decrease in size of the vessels leading out of the penis, to talk about how we may sometimes have variations in size of our erections.
Throughout my 20s I didn’t give much thought to my dick size one way or the other. It was working fine for the girls I was with. Totally a non-issue. I went through some periods of being very healthy. I had been in sports in high school, I was in the military, eating healthy and in good physical shape. Young, dumb and full of cum as they say. During that time I was physically fine and had a healthy sex drive but had some personality issues, insecure in some ways, not a real hot shot with the ladies, etc. And my EQ could be strong and healthy because I was strong but sometimes was weak because of psychological issues like lack of confidence or immaturity, etc.
Throughout my 20s I also went through a phase where I was really living an unhealthy lifestyle. Sex and drugs and rock and roll. Out of the military, less exercise, horrible sleeping and eating habits, drug and alcohol abuse, cigarettes, stressful dangerous situations, paranoia, etc. But I could also be pumped up with (false) confidence, cockiness, and a reckless attitude, and I was having more sex than when the other phase when I was in better physical health.
In my healthy phase, I may have struggled a little with EQ just because of lack of experience and confidence. But if the situation was just right psychologically, I could get one hell of a raging hard on.
In my party phase, I may have struggled a little with EQ for physical reasons, but not at all for lack of confidence and I was gaining experience, etc. But there is a way this all ties in with variations in size.
When I was healthy and achieved great erections, they seemed bigger, fuller, veinier, almost stretched out and even the skin seemed more puffed out. I was definitely fully erect, and the stiffness was strong and sustained. But if my erection could be compared to a flexed muscle, it would be like 90% - 95% of rock-hardness.
By comparison, when in my partying days, I could have good EQ or bad EQ. In the early days I could have very good EQ and after years of abuse the EQ decreased. During the early days of good EQ, the good erections were different than the good erections of my healthy days. While I wouldn’t say that my dick was actually smaller, it sure didn’t have that big, strong, puffed out veiny look. But at the same time, man could it ever get super rigid. Where the other one seemed like 95% stiff at most, this was like 105% stiff. It was very much that steel pole feeling.
My (very personal and un-scientific) theory is that during my unhealthy phase, I had caused a sort of shrinking and shriveling of much of my body tissues, muscles and vascular system, maybe even lungs and urinary tract, etc. According to this theory then, the vein carrying blood out of my penis also became smaller than normal. Between the drugs and paranoia and smoke rambling with losers and assholes, my dick was just turtling pretty much most of the time for a few years there. But if I got just a little jazzed up with some chick and got even a little blood flow into my dick I had pretty good EQ.