Forums Vs Reality

I just want to add in, almost every one of my buddies has asked me the "what are you packing" question along with quite a few people I didn’t even know.
One of my ex-buddies that I used to go out and play girls with asked me constantly and even asked me to show him so one night he was staying over and I had layed down in my bed with a not too thick cover over me and I grabbed my mag light (those big long flash lights) and put between my legs under the covers.

I called him into my room and he dead stopped and his mouth fell open, a reaction I had never seen out of him in my life where he then quietly turned around and went back into my living room. I never told him I was just messing with him but after that night he had turned so jealous of me every single girl he talked to I would later find out he was dissing me heavily to them and trying to make them stay away from me.

7x6 Large or what?

This subject starts to annoy me.

And I’m bored to death. really, you have to accept the fact that you’re on a Penis Enlargement Forum dot.

Wow, I’ve never been asked that by my friends. Its funny, I really have no idea what they’re packing, I don’t think we’ve had one conversation about penis size.

I can’t quote everybody but I’ll just wright another post ha. Pegain, ht topic isn’t much about 7x5, it’s about the difference between this forum and reality. Ha I’ve gone through tons of threads and have not really seen a thread about this topic. And HardbodyPEer. that text was pretty crazy. but in a way i do have to agree with you in some cases. I’m only 20, so When I’m at parties and clubs the topic if everyone dick size come up. It’s just what goes on now in days. The topic about someones unit is very open. especially when your tipsy and don’t care. I think 7x5 is big enough to be some what cocky in front of people.

I’m not saying 7” is small or big.

When you hear someone has 7” inch’s, you automatically do not think it’s small. On a real note you kinda don’t hear 7 inch’s come out of someone mouth outside this forum. But when you think of 7” inch’s as big.. some people don’t really think it’s big either. I’m Caucasian. and all my friends are Caucasian. My friends brother is only 18 and has an 8in dick. my best friend is 20 and has 7”, my other good friend is 21 and has a little bit under 7”. And I’m right at 7”. If you add all my friends together. the average is well over 7. I’d say 7.2 is average between all my buddies. I have yet come across a friend with anything under 6.5”. That’s why I think 7” ain’t all that great.

So to me this calculation blows the statistic board out the water. black, White, Asian, Mexican, Don’t matter. I think 7” is about average these days. Me and a few buddies met this one Asian and sure enough is was about 7”. It’s not the hot topic at hand every time we go out. It’s just so common and open that you don’t even think twice about the topic in hand.

Sorry if this is a little sloppy.

An insecure 7” is equal to a secure 5” when it comes to perception no?

No science. Just thought without any basis.

I am around the same age as you and if someone claims they are 7” where i am from it is not seen as big. Thats because everyone wants to act like they have a 7” or more because they feel they are not up to standard if not. But i no 7” is well above average. Also you say your friends have these lengths all over 7”, have you actually seen there units, or do you just take their word for it?

I’d say thats spot on, thats what it is in a girl’s mind. Thats why I’ve said before, women view confidence as a sign of a large unit, thats pretty much what it boils down to. If you act confident and a women finds a thin 4 incher in your pants, she ain’t gonna be turned on. Its kind of like dancing, the better you move on the dance floor, the better a woman thinks you are in bed, fair or not. I come across confident, but I lack what girls think is a large unit, so eventually these girls end viewing my confidence as bravado, although they don’t see it that way at first.

Lots of people are full of shit, exagerate by like an inch, or two or three, but there are definitely some big ones out there. I know because of various girls who have told me about the same guys who just happen to get all the pussy, including from under my nose. Yep, 7 isn’t considered big and most girls who have had big, really don’t want to go back to anything that isn’t big. I don’t make the rules of this game, but that is what my experience has been.

Thats a good post, but it will also be a real eye opener for the older crowd in here who downplays the importance of penis size. They don’t really understand how it is to be young in today’s world (US we are talking about), things have changed significantly. Blame it on porn, the internet, MTV, whatever.

Btw, I hope I didn’t upset you with my earlier post. I don’t want you feeling like shit about what I wrote, let it motivate you, thats what it does to me and we’re close in size.

Has anyone ever called you small or large? I thought women would see 7 inches in their mind more like 8” or 9”. Man I would be so happy to get to that length, if women dont think 7” is a large unit im suprised knowone hasnt laughed at mine at 5”.

I’ve had one girl tell me I was small, she is the one who spread a rumor I was small. I’ve had another girl, who, I’m 95% sure but can’t prove it, spread rumor I was small, but I’ve had a whole host of other girls (and by no means am I a pimp or anything, but I can meet the ladies, just have a hell of a time keeping them, but I do have very high standards) move on from me rather quickly to guys I know who have reps for being hung, its like something out of the twilight zone, only its real life. Hard to explain all this in one posting or even thread.

I’m glad no one has laughed at your 5, please, I don’t mean any offense either. I know this can be a touchy subject. Oh, regarding what women think of my 7 visually? I was about 240-250lbs of muscle (can’t remember how big I was, but I was pretty thick at the time) on a 6’1” (I think I’m down to an even 6’ frame now or somewhere between the two numbers) when that girl accused me of being small, perhaps all that extra muscle didn’t help, I don’t know, but I fucked her and while she had no complaints at the time, bam, when I dumped her she made her accusations. Of course, this is a girl who stalked me for a couple years after that (some crazy shit), so I guess I will disclose that tid bit of information. Either way, it fucked my head up, but what has blown my mind even more, is the more recent experiences I’ve had with girls going from me to guys with reps for having big dicks (and most don’t have anything else going on in life either). When this shit first started happening, I felt like a complete asshole, I knew why it was but I was in a bit of denial. I’m not in denial anymore, it is what it is.

There is some “size inflation” here, as on a bodybuilding forum, and sometimes the “I’m 8x6, am I small?” threads seem intended only to boost guys’ egos, but there are also some other factors:

1. Some guys here have HUGE bodies (e.g., 6’3”, 220 lbs of muscle), such that a 7x5” dick may really look smallish on them.

2. Some guys here seem to use extremely liberal measurement methods, if you look through the Members Pics forum. Occasionally I see someone measuring himself as 8”, when all that’s visible is 5” and some odd measuring tricks. In that case, I can understand why he might see himself as average (and why women may have regarded him as average). When it’s said that the medically verified average dick size is 6” BPEL, that is using ordinary, conservative measurement techniques.

3. I lost my train of thought :)

Hardbody

Its true man, its just how it is these days. Maybe dicks have evolved lol. Well everyone i know say they are way over 6” most over 7” and some at 8” and they say it with so much confidence i believe them. I dont know what to believe anymore. Girls are just getting more shallow and more bitchy. You know a lot of those girls could just be saying your small because you left them or pissed them of. Its not like everyone knows how big each other are here, so i dont know if girls are running of to hung guys, like you say goes on there. Im in the uk and it is pretty much the same as the US, its just so shit being this size and risking the whole world knowing you got a small dick because one bitch decideds she wants to spread it.

I still beleive average is around 6” though for sure.

If I hit 7 i will be wipping my thing out at every chance lol.

I had to get in on this one since Hardybody and I went over this topic before. I mean it really is outrageous. I’m not even going to beat around the bush on this one I am just really sick of the bullshit. I see people (myself included) but other friends literally torn by this topic. At least I was. here is the truth, and I am just going to say it straight up, this has a little to do with life experience but more to do with common sense.

1.) 7 inch BP, decisively above average, my guess is this easily crosses into the 25th percentile. Yes regardless of what surveys say where people have crazy measurements.

2.)7 inches NBP, bordering on huge. Yes this size is easily in the upper 5-10(at the absolute most) percentile amongst men.

3.) I am about 6.5 NBP, and 7.5 BP measured over the top of my penis. I don’t think I am that big but even my length has caused pain to my girlfriend. Imagine another inch!

4.)People don’t think 7 is that big here because most people on this site are a bit crazy. Let’s face it most of us have BDD, or some other compulsion as normal guys just don’t go to the crazy lengths to fix their penis as we do. shit, you could do a search for an hour on the web and easily find this place, why doesn’t thunders have 1,000,000,000 members. Besides the fact that the server couldn’t hold em, there just arent enough people buying into this stuff, but if you become desperate enough (have bad enough BDD, you will try it and see it works) this is not everyone here, but I would wager the larger majority, just like hardbodyPE.

5.) 5 inches max shaft girth easily throws you in the upper 1/3, there are so many studies that are even self-surveys (aside from lifestyles 4.97) that show this to be true.

Personal anecdotes. I have talked with no less than 10 people about penis size in an honest mature way as I am trying to here. (in the last 6 months). We have all agreed that 7 inches is considered BIG, and a legit 8 inches is HUGE! I have one friend who was 8 1/2 inches NBP, he’s never the type to lie and he has only been able to fully penetrate 1 girl out of 6. I also was on a college sports team, and he was THAT GUY! EVERYONE talked about his “monster” he once said “I wish I was 7 inches, that’d be perfect”. Ohhh and for the record this 8 1/2 incher saw another one of my friends who has openly said I am 6.5 inches, and if I push in with a ruler, I’m almost 7! the guy with the 8 1/2 said damn so and so has a pretty big penis when he saw him having sex. The other guy who was with him agreed.

Conclusion:

people exaggerate their penis (especially if they are actually under 6 inches, (55%+) they’ll say I am 6-6.5-7, this makes it seem like there are tons of people who are 7, if they are actually 5 inches, they’ll round up to at least 6! whens the last guy you heard say aghhh im sittin at about 5.5 inches NEVER! and you never will because people actually believe its below average!

getting back to my friend with 8.5 saying the guy with 6.5 was big this shows that mr.8.5 has bad perception…..but thats actually quite common, how many times do you look at a pic on here and say wow he’s “6.5 inches BP” I look smaller, then you go to check the ruler to find you are still BIGGER!

ohh one more I had a friend in high school who also said 6.5, I have heard people say he was big since then.

2nd Conclusion:

Guys who are saying 7 inches rarely are. Although its impossible to average it, I would say most people that say this fall into the category of 6-6.5 (maybe they are stating BP). That said, I still think that only about 1/4 guys actually claim this number. I have been a jock all my life and I know about the male ego. believe me. I still believe the majority state less than this claim. I also grew up in a town with stupid people, and I don’t think they are underestimating their size.

Do girls care about penis size? That idea seems to be coming more true as I get older. I think its more of a power thing for them. Although I believe a penis clearly in the lower 10 percentile would be a turn off I don’t think its a complete deal breaker, and one that is in the upper 10 percentile may become more attractive with time to girls but I certainly don’t think the majority are hunting specifically for big cock when they go out, I think looks, personality, and unfortunately money will do a substantial amount more for you.

Hardbody may come back and say I am insecure, but I’m not anymore because I am pretty positive im right, and I get really sick of people who misconstrue the truth, truth is a bit precious and I believe he ruins it. He’s so wrapped up about his dads supposed 9X6er that he has had to deal with it his whole life and is now dillusional. Anyways I have seen so many guys suffer from this and I still suffer in a way that maybe I don’t even realize and so I continue coming back to get bigger, I just hope that when I get to my tiny 7 NBP I don’t hurt my gf to bad because I believed myself to be “average” now.

You know what I think is the funniest thing about all of this: Ron Jeremy might not even be 7 inches NBP, I mean he probably is but he might not be anymore, and he is a porn Icon for having a huge dick. Do you think when the “average” guy looks at ron he says “wow, he’s got a real average sized penis” sure some of you people do, but 90% of guys think he has a big penis for a reason. Same with Tommy lee, he’s probably sporting 7.5 inches at best NBP, but the rumors about him started because everyone thought he had an “average” sized Penis. The list goes on. John Holmes said he was 8.75-9 and is argueably the biggest caucasian porn star ever. Is he just crossing the border to “Big”.

Ohh I also heard a guy on here one time who said “ohh you base everything off porn, and those guys aren’t all big some of them are even smallish” No but some are absolutely huge, for those of you that think there are guys with a 12 incher out, there’s not. Theres none, maybe enough to count on my hands and feet in the WHOLE WORLD 10 inchers, maybe a few hundred….why do I say this??? Do you think the average guy with a 10 inch penis is going to pass up millions of dollars and having sex with hot woman to hide his penis? HAHAHAHAHAHA. Sorry about getting of topic just addressing WADZILLAS statement in another thread.

SORRY I REALLY VENTED ABOUT THIS, BUT I HAVE MYSELF WENT CRAZY OVER THIS TOPIC UNTIL I COULD DIFFERENTIATE WHAT REAL VS. WHAT WAS FAKE, AND I HAVE SEEN OTHER GUYS IN A TON OF PAIN OVER THIS AND I REALLY AM EMPATHETIC.

I have seen with my own eyes 3 of my friends, the 1st was around 6 inches and had a strong curve to the left, 2nd was about 3 inches erect, and the 3rd was around 5 inches. The friend’s that I have not seen for myself, usually tend to say 7 inches to people but I am willing to bet they are really around 6 inches.