Maybe I’m missing something because I can’t masturbate without a good hard on. Poleaxe, are you able to masturbate? I know you said you’ve gone without sex for over 2 years. I doubt you meant self sex included. The mind can do funny things to a person. After having left the post earlier I had the dick go limp inside my wife within 2 minutes of penetration. I could not get it back up. I got my wife off and left myself semi-satisfied. What went on in my head I don’t know but it hasn’t been that bad in months. (I probably have buried some of the past again instead of leaving it out and dealing with it. I’m sure I’ll get my junk straight tomorrow and have a great tumble with her. I just want you to know that there are plenty of people out there with ED and a lot of reasons for it. Keep in mind that African vacation. That was a good sign.
Oh no, I hope I’m not somehow spreading this problem via cyberspace! I can still masturbate, but it is never a good hard on. I haven’t lost any sensation, so I can still reach the point of ejaculating. Of course, with only a 60% erection or so (at best), it isn’t as satisfying an experience as it should be.