An odd problem
Hi all, this is my first post/thread.
The other night I had sex with my girlfriend for the first time. This was actually my first. I know a lot of people mention problems with premature ejaculation. My problem is pretty much the opposite. My girlfriend, try as she might, could not get me to come. Getting and maintaining an erection is not a problem at all. I don’t have any problems ejaculating as far as I know, since masturbation is quite effective. My girlfriend was pretty bummed that she wasn’t having any effect. I’m hoping someone with a bit more experience might have some suggestions.
I’m not sure the cause, but I have a couple of guesses. The first was that I have the tactility of a lump of wood. Between that and the condom, I’m pretty much not going to feel anything. The second possiblity is she’s just too big for me. She likes them large and has had boyfriends who nearly fill her up. Size-wise I’m average, but that may just not cut it.
What I’m going to try is first having her switch to using the pill so we can eliminate the condoms. Second, I’m going to start doing PE and see if size gains help. I’ve done the latter sporadically, and by my crude measurements I think I’ve gain maybe 1/4”-1/2” in length and 3/16” in girth, but haven’t been really satisfied with any of the programs I tried. This forum seems to have some interesting stuff, so maybe I’ll have better luck with the programs here.
Again any suggestions would be great. I really would like to fix this so she feels better about herself.