Advice needed - narrow urethrabladder neck obstruction
I’m kind of in a rut. Last month I fainted while taking a piss (vasovagal episode), fell down and fractured my skull. Currently I am in between visits to my urologist who has informed me that I may suffer from either structure, primary bladder neck obstruction, or simply a naturally narrow urethra. I have dealt with the symptoms for about ten years silently because, honestly, it is painless, albeit uncomfortable. It just takes me a while to stop peeing because the stream weakens and it feels like I can’t empty my bladder. The doctor has informed me that surgery will be needed (bladder neck incision) if the meds he gave me end up having no effect, which is what’s happening. I can expect major relief following the surgery due to a cut made to increase the diameter of the bladder neck which will allow easier flow and output.. I can also expect permanent retrograde ejaculation.
Safe to say I’m extremely anxious about this entire situation. My only PE experience was about six months of dry jelqing last year. I am 6 x 4.5 and my only wish is to one day be 7 x 5.
The question that’s been plaguing my mind is: does PE put strain/pressure on the urethra? Do you think the stretching of the ligaments and the development of the smooth muscle of the penis would aggravate an issue like this?
I would love to one day be able to reach my goal. I was depressed for over a year after being heartbroken and basically had PTSD symptoms of being unable to get the images out of my head of an ex girlfriend cheating on me after I was forced to hear all the grisly details. Needless to say I am very self conscious now and I pretty much avoid situations that may lead to sex.
I plan on talking to my doctor about this and expect to be scolded for and dissuaded as far as PE goes. That’s why I am seeking your guys’ opinions :)