libido/erection problems, please help
Ok guys please tell me what to do…
I had like 2 years of total sexual abstinence, I just watched porn and masturbated
Now I found a GF. We haven’t had sex yet but it’s a normal relationship so sooner or later it’s going to happen.
However, my libido has decreased over years to a point where it’s nearly non-existent. I can simply not masturbate for like, two-three weeks before feeling a slight urge to do so.
I don’t have morning wood (never had). I can watch porn without any reaction at all (I have to use my hand to get a hardon.). Pics never turn me on, whatever they contain, I’m not turned on even by the slightest bit. And the real problem is, yesterday, when I came back from a date with her and tried to masturbate (it was late and I was sleepy, but who cares..), I couldn’t get a hardon. I was like, 20% erection max. It was horrible. I tried different fantasies but IT DIDN’T WORK. Took me about 20 minutes to get hard enough to masturbate (it wasn’t 100% ofc…) … when I finally came, it was extremely watery, as if I came with water, not sperm…
I’m freaking horrified…
I know people have psychical barriers, like, when they are virgins, first time with new girl or whatever, but I WAS ALONE IN MY BEDROOM TRYING HARD AND REMAINING FLACCID!!!!!
what should I do? :/
I’m currently taking Isotretinoin and suffering from high cholesterol, by the way… but the libido problems began before that.
Started: 01/02/2009 ; BPEL: 5.5'' ; EG: 4.35''
01/03/2009 Checkpoint: BPEL 6.0'' ; EG 4.5 '' ; Suspended: 02/03/2009 ; Restarted: 05/01/2010 ; Suspended again: 01/02/2010
Goal: BPEL: 7.0''; EG: 5.5''