I Want to Ejaculate Quicker

I know this is weird, but I have the opposite problem of premature ejaculation - I can go forever. I know, sometimes it’s great, I never leave a girl unsatisfied. But sometimes it’s just too much. She has to work too hard to get me to cum and enough is enough.

Anyway, I was wondering if there is anything I could do to make myself ejaculate more easily. So far I have zero ideas.

Thanks,

MYS

Does it take you a long time to ejaculate when masturbating? Master of your domain?

Sometimes, but I’m usually pretty good at doing it on my own (I know what I like :) ). However, I do have a lot of control and can get to the PONR many times while masturbating and still not ejaculate.

Next time you have sex, focus on pleasing yourself. Might seem selfish, but if you’re really taking that long because you’re holding off to make sure she’s satisfied, then it’d be worth it. Plus, the girl will probably like to be dominated and will receive pleasure from you receiving pleasure.

Thanks mobbo, I think you’re right. It’s all in my head (no pun intended :) ).

What do you think about hand jobs? My ex-girlfriend used to go and go and she’d be tired before she got it. It took a ridiculous amount of time. I think I might have been unintentionally holding back, if that makes any sense. Like I was over-anxious and couldn’t relax or something.

What do you think?

I’ve never really gotten too much pleasure out of handjobs. I’ve never met a girl who could stroke my dick like I can. Like you said it just seems to take forever. Blowjobs and penetration is where it’s at for me, lol.

I started a whole thread about this problem called “retarded ejaculation” look it up there’s some good stuff. I recently made progress in this area by edging a lot and not getting myself off for at least 5 days prior to sex. You have to want it and you have to reprogram your brain to let you get off.

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Thanks guys :) . I’ll see how this works out.

Well, you aren’t alone with this problem. I have it too and to many guys it sounds like a blessing but I understand how it really can be a problem especially when you want to ejaculate. You feel like you want to ejaculate but something just stops you before you do. It can be very frustrating. I don’t think there is an easy solution but it was certainly a weight off my shoulders when I decided to tell my partner about the problem I had. There is nothing worse, for me, than having the pressure to climax both from myself and my partner. Sometimes I say ‘I didn’t finish that time’ and she can understand and it is okay. A lot of women are used to men with the exact opposite problem so for them it can be a bit weird to adjust. For me, most of the problem stems from wanting to please my partner. You have to hold off for a certain time and the idea that you shouldn’t ejaculate just becomes so ingrained that it becomes almost impossible to actually do it in the end.

If I can give you any real valuable advice I would say just relax and explain the problem to whoever you’re with and you might find that when your problem loses its significance for you and your partner or partners it just might slowly disappear.

You want to cum quicker?

Beat the crap of your cock and it will get get weak and cum quick.

No really. Listen to her moans, fuck really fast, kegel throughout, and go without a condom to cum quicker.

If you’re circumcised, you may simply be feeling the effects of missing half your pleasure receptive nerve endings and having a dull desensitized glans (as well as the mucosa just below the glans).

You can use your own skin to make your mucosa more supple and sensitive again. Just wear your skin rolled forward over the glans 24/7. You can do this with the “o-ring foreskin restoration” method (Google it) or wear a comfortable discreet Your-Skin Cone (which I sell, Google it).

Cheers,
-Ron Low

I think you might be gay.