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Help me pee comfortably

Guys, lately one thing has become my Major concern I’m approaching the legal age for drinking and as you know when you drink you pee allot. I however cannot pee in public or in stalls, it’s weird and I have suffered some embarrassing incidents related to this problem recently. I have tried all the tips with breathing and mind controll, but I just can’t do it. I need to fix myself fast, as I go further down the track in PE I know I’ll gain more confidence but I need to go pee otherwise I’ll look weird all ways running off. Please guys Help me the best you can because I really need to get over this problem.


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I feel your pain Carlos. I’m thirty and have been like you my whole life. I’m sure you probably even have trouble in private when your really excited, or in a hurry to. I don’t think there is any real cure for this problem. I just make a joke about it if I’m around buddies and don’t let it bother me. Some people are cock shy, and need privacy to go. I’m sure there are even women who have the same problem.

As an aside, a buddy of mine was like this to, and he had a massive penis. Just in case you think everyone out there assumes you have something to be ashamed of. It happens to well hung guys as well.


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That happens to me a little bit because my penis is like 7 inches while flaccid, not to mention a bit of discoloration from PE. So every time I go to pee in public or in a crapper I have the idea in my mind that people will notice my snake and will make comments and that will cut my inspiration to pee in peace. lol specially that I cannot take it out and in just opening the zipper. I need to unbutton my pants to pull it out and then to put it back in in a way it can’t be noticed when I walk. I could be wrong and maybe everything is just in my mind; but still…you got the idea.

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I have the same problem and my flaccid is nothing to be ashamed of either.

It used to be a lot worse for me, but now I think I’m actually close to being rid of my shy bladder. I just concentrate on something else. One trick I often use is I’ll analyze the bathroom, just to get myself thinking about something else than me being paranoid about if I’ll be able to pee. It’s gotten a lot better for me just from staying relaxed and keeping my mind of it.

If I’m drunk however, I could piss on the 50 yard line in front of a packed stadium at the Superbowl. Do you have this problem when you’re drunk too? Because I sure don’t.

Originally Posted by RandomGiant
If I’m drunk however, I could piss on the 50 yard line in front of a packed stadium at the Superbowl. Do you have this problem when you’re drunk too? Because I sure don’t.

That’s right. The second best thing about drinking is letting off the pressure from the plumbing. And when enough has accumulated in the ole blood stream it hardly matters who’s around to see you.

Never really had a big problem with pissing in front of another feller(or lady) but I always was a bit of a nervous pooper. Couldn’t go in a public place for the longest time until one day it was hammering at the back door so terrible I had to. Now I like going in there and seeing how much of a ruckus I can make.

Happy pissing Carlos :-piss:

Originally Posted by Mtn High
That’s right. The second best thing about drinking is letting off the pressure from the plumbing. And when enough has accumulated in the ole blood stream it hardly matters who’s around to see you.

Never really had a big problem with pissing in front of another feller(or lady) but I always was a bit of a nervous pooper. Couldn’t go in a public place for the longest time until one day it was hammering at the back door so terrible I had to. Now I like going in there and seeing how much of a ruckus I can make.

Happy pissing Carlos :-piss:

I used to be able to pee when drunk but now I can’t.


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Something I really want to find is a free source or site or somewhere with a step by step guide.


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I’m not advocating drinking but that will lesson some of the fear a bit I think.


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carlos11, Check this site- Paruresis

Totally missed CubanB’s post. Oh well, they still might have some tips.

Graduated exposure therapy explained

Make a ranked list of urination locations from easiest to most difficult. For example, most people with paruresis find it easiest to urinate at home alone. The hardest location is usually a crowded and noisy public toilet. The idea is to start with the easiest locations and work your way up in degrees to the most difficult.
Have a ‘pee partner’ to support you. This could be a family member or trusted friend.
Ask your pee partner to stand as close to your home toilet as you feel comfortable while you are trying to urinate. Urinate for a few seconds then stop for a few minutes.
Have your pee partner stand a little closer to the toilet. Go back into the toilet and urinate again for a few seconds, then stop.
Keep practising, with your pee partner getting closer and closer to the toilet. This may take several sessions over a period of time.
Try to make as much noise as possible while urinating. Deliberately splash your urine into the toilet water. Do this with your pee partner nearby.
Pick a quiet public rest room (once you are comfortable with urinating at home) and then, with your pee partner standing outside the toilet door, practise the same way you did at home.
Use your pee partner and work your way up the ranked scale of difficult locations until you can successfully urinate in a crowded and noisy public toilet.
Graduated exposure therapy is more successful if it is practised often, perhaps three or four times per week.
Drink plenty of water before your practice session to make sure that your bladder is full.
Avoid any negative self-talk while trying to urinate. Remember that paruresis is a common social phobia. You are not abnormal or ‘the only one’.
Take it slowly, step by step. Don’t pressure yourself. You should see considerable improvement after about 12 sessions or so.

I never knew about this, but I used a very similar method. Where are you right now? Can you pee in public restrooms (stall or urinal) if nobody is in the room at all?

Build up from where you are now. Maybe first use the stall with nobody in the room, then go for the urinal. Then try using the stall/urinal when someone is washing their hands in the room (with no one using a urinal), then build up to using a urinal when someone is using a urinal that is 2 or 3 urinals down from the one where you are. It’s all about being comfortable, and that usually doesn’t happen over night. It happens with experience.

As soon as you can pee in a stall with people in the room, you are set. Then you can choose if you want to try the urinal over the stall if the conditions meet your level of comfort. Plenty of people use the stalls to pee, I actually prefer it. Just relax!

Don’t know if this will help But could you try imagining people in the toilet when you go to the toilet when at home. Just try to think there are people there behind you. Even take a radio in there with people talking, and imagine people are actually having a pee there as well.

Also just lightly touching/stroking your glans when you are standing there holding it (birds do this sort of thing to their young in the nest They just stroke the litle’uns with their beak and out it comes) all wrapped up.I’m glad to say.

Seriously though Just tickling your glans very offen stimulates - 0r relaxes the muscle holding it in and away you go.


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