Injury

Almost 2 months ago I was squeezed very tightly for about 45 seconds during mutual masturbation. I didn’t feel any pain during or after. Ejaculated completely normally.

The following few days I started getting a tingling feeling, I was worried I got a std- recent test showed that wasn’t the case.

About 5 days after I masturbated and felt discomfort after ejaculating. I also noticed a red line under my penis that curved to the right near the base. At this point my testicle also started swelling. Diagnosed with varicocele via ultra sound. I haven’t masturbated since that last time.

The few weeks following I believe I was experiencing a hard flaccid. Tough, shrunken and unable to get aroused. I was also needing to pee a lot.

Now for the past 3 weeks the hard flaccid has dissipated noticeably. And I have been getting spontaneous erections or semis.

However, I’ve also been sore down there. On the head and base of shaft. Not really a pain just a dull ache. And seems to get worse after I have an erection. Mind you, I still haven’t masturbated. Also, the glans have been getting these weird inflammatory blotches that go away after a day and then reappear in a different spot a few days later. My partner was tested before and after our encounter and is negative for everything. Also it’s not raised. It’s under the skin. Not sure if it’s from injury or from my penis not moving around much in my pants.

There’s also a curve to the left when flaccid. Which becomes more noticeable when I go poop. And when I’m laying down and see what mobility I have with a flaccid it seems blocked or stiff when I go in the opposite direction of the curve.

I’ve been to the best urologist in San Diego. He gave me a round of antibiotics, did nothing. And anti inflammatory cream for the that red line under my penis. Which is now pink and spread out.

I have no idea what’s going on and I know you don’t either. But from this novel is there anything you can surmise or recognize?

I’ve never done PE before but I feel like this is a similar injury.

Thank you for your time :)

Anyone?

Have you had a Doppler ultrasound done? And what did it show, if you did have it done?

What you describe is a deathgrip masturbation injury. I’m not personally familiar with it but…I’ve heard about it before.

Honestly, if the doctors haven’t given you any ideas…what symptoms bother you the most? What are you trying to do to recover? I mean, assuming you want to rectify all symptoms, which ones are the priority for you right now?

Well the most concerning is the stiffness and lack of natural movement. Also the inflammation that keeps occurring, as well as the dull ache.

Stiffness, not sure how to rectify though heat may help. Try different methods of applying heat to your penis throughout the day. Rice sock microwaved (gets very hot easily, be careful) or an IR lamp (but not too close, or that also is too hot) or heating pad set on medium or low. I’m not sure what the ache is about.

Have you had your penis ultrasounded? This is important, if you saw the best urologists there are in the city then you have had an ultrasound and have results. What do the results say?

Getting one next appointmemt.

Without the results of your Doppler, there is no good way to recommend advice. As there’s no way to know what internal structures (if any) are damaged and to what extent. But, remember very closely what he says and shows you. Then, solutions may be on the horizon.

I will let you know what they see. Have you heard of people recovering from this?

No. But I haven’t researched it much either. I’ve only seen it in an advice column as an issue one man faced as an intimacy problem with a new girlfriend. No discussion of treatment or symptoms was really included.

I imagine recovery can be done in time. I see no reason for it not to be. But the results of the ultrasound and what options are open to you are going to be key. So, you can read up or just wait.

I recommend waiting as no case is the same and reading about poor prognosis (as those will pop up first in a search engine for any illnes) will deflate your hopes. Take your case as the best one and put a brave face on and prepare for victory.

I looked it up. Seems like an issue that affects guys who masturbate violently constantly and is the only way they can cum. I don’t think this is me! But I appreciate the input

Can anyone explain the pain in the glans?

When you squeezed, did you put any direct pressure on the glans?

No they didn’t.

They? How many times were you squeezed?

It was during an encounter. Only squeezed once.