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Firm flaccid penis

Originally Posted by BMashina
I cannot decide if the poorer than usual erections are a result of the “tense muscle” possibility and my PC muscles are tired and do not allow me to get a good erection which would indicate the tense pelvic muscles theory. I doubt this is it.

I’m getting to the point where this is ruining my quality of life. I have a girl that I could literally have sex with as much as I wanted whenever I wanted, but I wont and she is getting very frustrated as to why I won’t. I can forsee this as being the rest of my life and ruining any chance of me having a meaningful relationship or enjoying my youth.


I can relate with this man. I also have been thinking that it might be an overworked PC muscles, so I have been trying my best to not kegel at all.

I’m like in the same situation, theres this girl I’ve been messing around with but can only get my erections at 60-70%, which I think is pretty weak. We’ve had sex, I thought it sucked. Buuuut shes still chasing after me :) . I say have sex with her man or else she might feel as if your not attracted to her or anything and may move on.

Let us know if the ED meds work, I just placed my order yesterday. I’m thinking when I get them, I will take them before bed (if I’m not having sex that day) in order to achieve/help nocturnal erections which are vital to penis health.

Also may I ask how did you injure yourself? And how long has this injury been lasting?
I injured myself/started suffering from firm flaccid & weaker erections and just an overall weak feeling in my penis last year from over pumping.

In the past year I have only had an erection like before my injury a handful of times. I have noticed when I edge, it gets rigid like before my injury. But no spontaneous erections, no nocturnal erections (unless my bladder is full, then only the CC is erect, the CS isn’t)

Originally Posted by venomx
I was starting to fear the end is near until recently. After being depressed about my unit for about 3 years and experiencing nothing but failure I’m finally seeing something positive.

I stopped watching porn completely, and stopped masturbating ( for now ) and I’ve been doing this for about a week and a half. I’ve been doing hot wraps when I can, and taking tribulus.
Generally my unit is more relaxed and rarely hard flaccid ( except when weight training ) and my erections have gone way up, they haven’t been this good for literally 4 years.
Any sexual thought will get me atleast semi, I had a random erection the other day which didnt go down for like 2 minutes, and even then it went down really slowly ! I literally could not believe what I was seeing !! Morning erections are getting better, I.e not going down as quick and are harder than semi’s.

As aposed to before where I would lose all feeling in my unit and the erection would die down unless I tortured it with constant hard stimulation and porn, and my random erections would be very very rare and would only be semi’s. Hence why I started shitting myself thinking I had a venous leak !

I really hope this is coming to the end of my problems, but I will continue doing this for about another 8 weeks atleast, to see if the results improve - and if they do, I am A) never watching porn again B) limiting masturbation severely, to light sessions only when I get a random erection.

This is great! I will do the same at this moment. The only fear I have is that my EQ goes down if I don’t masturbate at least once every three days. I’d say masturbate at some point just to test it all out man, whats the point of doing this if it will all go back to normal whilst having sex. I am going to follow your lead on this though, my ED meds were delivered to the other side of the US, so I have no clue when I’ll be getting them. Keep us posted Venomx, I haven’t tryed not masturbating or no porn in a long time to help with this.

BTW could you explain tribulus?


8/12/09 5.70" x 4.9" NBP

Goal: 6.5" x 5.25" NBP

Originally Posted by darryl316
I can relate with this man. I also have been thinking that it might be an overworked PC muscles, so I have been trying my best to not kegel at all.

I’m like in the same situation, theres this girl I’ve been messing around with but can only get my erections at 60-70%, which I think is pretty weak. We’ve had sex, I thought it sucked. Buuuut shes still chasing after me :) . I say have sex with her man or else she might feel as if your not attracted to her or anything and may move on.

Let us know if the ED meds work, I just placed my order yesterday. I’m thinking when I get them, I will take them before bed (if I’m not having sex that day) in order to achieve/help nocturnal erections which are vital to penis health.

Also may I ask how did you injure yourself? And how long has this injury been lasting?
I injured myself/started suffering from firm flaccid & weaker erections and just an overall weak feeling in my penis last year from over pumping.

In the past year I have only had an erection like before my injury a handful of times. I have noticed when I edge, it gets rigid like before my injury. But no spontaneous erections, no nocturnal erections (unless my bladder is full, then only the CC is erect, the CS isn’t)

I know what you mean about, she said that she feels like shes not good enough for me or something. It’s a pretty messed up situation though.

I will, as I said in my previous post, the mailed them to the wrong address or gave me the wrong tracking number. Either way a second package is out from ADC. Where/what did you get for your meds? I plan to do the same, to promote healing and have a fall back if I have sex.

I was young, and stupid when I injured myself. I was hanging a large amount of weight without warming up. I have no idea a warm up was necessary. I just found instructions on how to build a hanger and did it. Then I began PE and got bad EQ after my EQ finally recovered. I didn’t stop until it was too late and got the FF condition. I was also riding my bike and weight lifting at the time I got this which could indicate tense muscles.

Good luck man, and keep us posted.


8/12/09 5.70" x 4.9" NBP

Goal: 6.5" x 5.25" NBP

Well tribulus is said to increase free testosterone and sex drive, I can just remember it helping with my erections before - so I thought it wouldn’t do any harm if I can promote random erections !

Are there any pictures of the so called “firm-flaccid” or “hard-flaccid” penises?

Originally Posted by pooper11
Are there any pictures of the so called “firm-flaccid” or “hard-flaccid” penises?

To the naked eye, it looks the same as any other ‘penis’. It’s just the feel of it which is completely different, it should feel spongey and soft, but hard flaccid feels like rock ( a hard wringey feel ) It’s also been completely destroying my erections, which is the last thing any 18 year old needs - but I have managed to maintain level headed and cope through it, in the hope that one day I will be ‘normal’.

I really hope some of you can take a read at some of these articles;
Http://www.reuniting.info/how_i_rec…e_dysfunc tion
Http://www.reuniting.info/node/4692
Http://www.reuniting.info/node/3287

Never have I read anything on the internet which has made more sense to me. I also relate to these 1000%.

I’m nearly up to week 2 on no masturbating + no porn ( which is the biggest contributor ), and my sex drive is up, confidence is up, hard flaccid is less regular, erections generally are improving. But this won’t happen over night, we need to re-train our brains. This could take a few months. But a few months dedication can help in the long term, I believe.

I got my meds today and popped my first Viagra today, I took 25mg about 30 minutes ago. They must have given my a wrong tracking number.

I have thought about taking pics, of the firmness, when its normal, and when erect, but just havent got around to it. I really think it would help people realize our condition though.


8/12/09 5.70" x 4.9" NBP

Goal: 6.5" x 5.25" NBP

Originally Posted by BMashina
I know what you mean about, she said that she feels like shes not good enough for me or something. It’s a pretty messed up situation though.

I will, as I said in my previous post, the mailed them to the wrong address or gave me the wrong tracking number. Either way a second package is out from ADC. Where/what did you get for your meds? I plan to do the same, to promote healing and have a fall back if I have sex.

I was young, and stupid when I injured myself. I was hanging a large amount of weight without warming up. I have no idea a warm up was necessary. I just found instructions on how to build a hanger and did it. Then I began PE and got bad EQ after my EQ finally recovered. I didn’t stop until it was too late and got the FF condition. I was also riding my bike and weight lifting at the time I got this which could indicate tense muscles.

Good luck man, and keep us posted.


I got the cialis & viagra. Yeah man it sucks having weak EQ, especially at my age (20) its feels baaaad man lol. I have noticed when I am more comfortable with the girl (have had sex with her atleast once) my EQ is way better than the first time and its gets better but I will also say its not the same as before my injury. I look forward to using the ED meds.

Originally Posted by venomx
To the naked eye, it looks the same as any other ‘penis’. It’s just the feel of it which is completely different, it should feel spongey and soft, but hard flaccid feels like rock ( a hard wringey feel ) It’s also been completely destroying my erections, which is the last thing any 18 year old needs - but I have managed to maintain level headed and cope through it, in the hope that one day I will be ‘normal’.

I really hope some of you can take a read at some of these articles;
Http://www.reuniting.info/how_i_rec…e_dysfunc tion
Http://www.reuniting.info/node/4692
Http://www.reuniting.info/node/3287

Never have I read anything on the internet which has made more sense to me. I also relate to these 1000%.

I’m nearly up to week 2 on no masturbating + no porn ( which is the biggest contributor ), and my sex drive is up, confidence is up, hard flaccid is less regular, erections generally are improving. But this won’t happen over night, we need to re-train our brains. This could take a few months. But a few months dedication can help in the long term, I believe.

How hard is a firm-flaccid penis? Are there any other signs?

Also, is this porn-desensitization induced rather than injury induced?

Guys some advice, just have fun. Lay of the wanking get some meds and bang some women. Will help your confidence. I don’t think the problem will get better I’m 20 and had this for about a year. The worst that can happen is that you will have to get a implant which doesn’t bother me as long as I can have sex.

If anyone knows any good sites to get cialis from posy it or inbox me please I’m from the uk 60£ for 4 cialis is a killer.

Originally Posted by qwertypoiuyt
Guys some advice, just have fun. Lay of the wanking get some meds and bang some women. Will help your confidence. I don’t think the problem will get better I’m 20 and had this for about a year. The worst that can happen is that you will have to get a implant which doesn’t bother me as long as I can have sex.

If anyone knows any good sites to get cialis from posy it or inbox me please I’m from the uk 60£ for 4 cialis is a killer.

Yes, I havent tryed the Cialis I got yet, try all daychemistthough. The viagra I got from there seems to do the trick, about 50mg is required for me. The only problem is that I took about 200mg over two days and I was awake for 34 hours. Good erections, easy erections, and I was semi-hard for so long my penis was sore in a good way. The side effects were minimal, only the insomnia from that one time.


8/12/09 5.70" x 4.9" NBP

Goal: 6.5" x 5.25" NBP

Originally Posted by BMashina
Yes, I havent tryed the Cialis I got yet, try all daychemistthough. The viagra I got from there seems to do the trick, about 50mg is required for me. The only problem is that I took about 200mg over two days and I was awake for 34 hours. Good erections, easy erections, and I was semi-hard for so long my penis was sore in a good way. The side effects were minimal, only the insomnia from that one time.

Are you dosing it 50mg before sex or when for when your going to bed?
I’m not too sure how to dose them, with the viagra I was thinking 25/50 before sleep & either 50/100 if I were to have sex…I’m glad that it seems to have done the trick, I’m looking forward to getting mines in the mail.
I guess by good erections your saying EQ has been top notch?
Also how long did all day chemist take from dispensing to actually sending it? Mines been in the dispensing stage for a few days now

Originally Posted by darryl316
Are you dosing it 50mg before sex or when for when your going to bed?
I’m not too sure how to dose them, with the viagra I was thinking 25/50 before sleep & either 50/100 if I were to have sex…I’m glad that it seems to have done the trick, I’m looking forward to getting mines in the mail.
I guess by good erections your saying EQ has been top notch?
Also how long did all day chemist take from dispensing to actually sending it? Mines been in the dispensing stage for a few days now

You’re going to have to test around with the dosages as I am sure it will be different with everyone. I think 50mg is a good number for me for anything. The Cialis I feel is perfect for night/morning wood. I woke up this morning after taking cialis yesterday and had morning wood for an hour(laying down with a female though). After that I had about 6 hours of semi-erect time. My penis felt sore from being erect and semi-erect for so long. Only now it actually flaccid.

The viagra is ok, I definetly get better erections from it then from the cialis, but the time best time to have sex for me would be 1.25-2 hours after taking the pill. After that the effects seem to wear off although there were still some good effects from it.

My EQ isn’t top notch, but it is much better and it LASTS which is the most important. It took them a few days to dispense it before sending it. It will be here before you know it.

My side effects have been as follows:

Cialis, headache the first night of taking it with some nasal congestion. The morning after all was good.

Viagra, flushing, insomnia and some nasal congestion.

Nothing serious or annoying enough for me to not continue using the drugs.


8/12/09 5.70" x 4.9" NBP

Goal: 6.5" x 5.25" NBP

Have any of you guys listened to me yet? Go see a pelvic floor specialist and get the book A Head Ache in the Pelvis. If you are truly serious about trying to fix this issue, you will listen to me. This has changed my life. I have been dealing with this Firm Flaccid for 4 years and I am now finally starting to get over it. We have to retrain our bodies to let go of the involuntary tension in our pelvic floor. It sounds to me like a lot of us have the same issue.

I hate to see you guys still dealing with this problem. I was 20 when I got it and now at the age of 24 I am finally starting to recover. This disorder ruined my early twenties for me. Please take my word for it and look into what I am saying. The absolute best thing you could do right now is get this book and bring it into the pelvic floor specialist with you. Highlight what your issues are in the book and the specialist will work with you to relax these muscles and improve normal function.

Well In your case it was a muscular issue but not for all of us. Did your hard flaccid use to relax whenever you went to urinate or tense your bc muscle ?

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