I cannot decide if the poorer than usual erections are a result of the “tense muscle” possibility and my PC muscles are tired and do not allow me to get a good erection which would indicate the tense pelvic muscles theory. I doubt this is it.
I’m getting to the point where this is ruining my quality of life. I have a girl that I could literally have sex with as much as I wanted whenever I wanted, but I wont and she is getting very frustrated as to why I won’t. I can forsee this as being the rest of my life and ruining any chance of me having a meaningful relationship or enjoying my youth.
I can relate with this man. I also have been thinking that it might be an overworked PC muscles, so I have been trying my best to not kegel at all.
I’m like in the same situation, theres this girl I’ve been messing around with but can only get my erections at 60-70%, which I think is pretty weak. We’ve had sex, I thought it sucked. Buuuut shes still chasing after me :) . I say have sex with her man or else she might feel as if your not attracted to her or anything and may move on.
Let us know if the ED meds work, I just placed my order yesterday. I’m thinking when I get them, I will take them before bed (if I’m not having sex that day) in order to achieve/help nocturnal erections which are vital to penis health.
Also may I ask how did you injure yourself? And how long has this injury been lasting?
I injured myself/started suffering from firm flaccid & weaker erections and just an overall weak feeling in my penis last year from over pumping.
In the past year I have only had an erection like before my injury a handful of times. I have noticed when I edge, it gets rigid like before my injury. But no spontaneous erections, no nocturnal erections (unless my bladder is full, then only the CC is erect, the CS isn’t)