Told the wife

So after about 6 months of constant PE and a while before a couple years ago…I’ve gained a full 3/4” and max erect, 1” total BP. I was goofing around with my wife the other day and said something like, I’m not happy with the size of my penis. So, I’ve been making it bigger. She said, it’s not the size that matters, really. I said oh yeah how would you know. She said, “Well I’ve had a really big one and its not fun”. And to that I said, “How big”. She said “Freakishly big”. So then I say, who? And she reluctantly tells me..which I’m not threatened by..the guy used to be in shape and now is just an alcoholic with a huge gut. Anyway, I say “Was he long and thin or normal and wide, or both”. She said “Freakishly big in every way, bigger isn’t better. It was never comfortable”. And then I say to this, “Maybe he didn’t know how to use it then”. I told her after that I was doing “excersizes” to make mine bigger. She said, that stuff doesn’t work. I said, oh yeah? Since I’ve started I’ve gained almost a full inch! She says “Bullshit”. This coming from a woman whom I had sex with the night before. Either she was more fully aroused the other night or she just can’t tell I’ve gained yet. She has had 2 of our kids though, so things I’m sure have loosened up a bit. After that conversation on Sunday I’m stepping up my routine a bit with more intensity. I’ve read about a lot of things on here and some guys see quicker gains by shortening their workout but stepping up the intensity. I mainly do an advanced manual stretch, Jelqs-ULI’s-V’s-Fulcrums-Horse440’s-Clamping etc but now I do shorter reps with more intensity. Lets see if it all works out in the end. I’m hoping that WHEN I break the 7” barrier, that she’ll really start to notice. I’m 6.5” BPEL maxed out and 5.5” EG. Normal erection, I’m 6.25” BPEL and 5.5” EG. Here’s to gaining!!

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When will you guys ever fecking learn!

I’m all for telling wives but that read like a reason not to! If anything you now sound more insecure about your dick size than you were before she knew. Good luck Bro I hope she supports you and doesn’t make it even harder for you.

RTG,

I understand where you are coming from, but let me explain something from a female point of veiw.

When it feels like you are giving birth to have sex, its too big.

Hey Sunny. I was talking about guys discussing past boyfriend’s penis size with their SOs. I completely understand her point.

So she said “bigger is not better” and you responded with “im making mine bigger”.

Interesting :D

Anyway, hope it works out for you. Good luck

Yeah here’s to hoping she can accomodate my new sizes I’m sure to get. I just made myself a Capn’s Wrench style of ADS. I’m wearing it now at work. I hope that helps a bit on the length. She may not have been able to take a large one before the kids, but now she might. Hell..when I get her aroused, she takes all of my 6.25 BP and I don’t even hit home. So I’m thinking that another inch or two and it will all be good. Besides, I’m not making it bigger all for her. I want a bigger one because of my own personal issues. She will have to get used to that fact.

I second the motion and request an emediate vote!

Christ, the pain I felt just reading that.
Some things are better left dead,
like the fact she may have had her pussy stretched to the breaking point
by some OTHER GUYS cock.

Freakishly Big by one woman’s POV may be 8x6, and another might be 9x7 or 10x8. I wouldn’t sweat it. She obviously loves you and doesn’t mind the sex you have now.

Yeah but she didn’t like it. After all, she left him for me, and we got married. So I believe her when she says it wasn’t good. But then again, maybe he didn’t get her warmed up enough. I’m going to get bigger no matter what, and if I have to be careful, well then I’ll be carefull and use lube. She loves me for who I am, and with time, there will be more of me to love. :)

True on all counts, I’m sure. Good for you.

Yeah, that is pretty funny.

Either he doesn’t give a f*ck about what his wife thinks, or, more importantly, he is doing it for him. I think it is the latter and I feel the same way.

Cdr.Blop

We have been here before, but bigger is not always better. I’m as curious as the next guy as to what she considers freakishly big. I’ll put my $20 on the fact that it is probably not as big as what most of us would consider ‘freakish’. I am 7” BPEL, and I have had girlfriends that it is too long for. Not many….but a few :)

You told her, so it’s done and over with. I wouldn’t bring it up again unless she does and be real cool about it. It should be like working out, dieting, or any other self improvement. It shouldn’t take over your life, and it shouldn’t define you. A lot of us can vouch how hard it is to be patient, though. Hopefully, you will be married to her for the rest of your life. Plenty of time to become the freakishly large penis in her life! Good luck.

I told my girlfriend about my PE before she had ever even seen my prick.

This was mainly to prepare her for the discolouration I had. But I also wanted to let her know it was pretty big so she wouldn’t be scared :D

Things have been pretty much the same since I told my wife save for a few wise cracks. “ya gonna go pull on your weener?” It’s all in fun and I take it that way. I mainly wanted her to know so that when she sees some bruising or an ace bandage or some other contraption, she doesn’t get all freaked out or something. I also told her because my flacid size has increased pretty dramatically from before PE and I always cought her looking at it. :) :) :)