I have been trying this for the past week or so since I am on an injury break from everything else.
I think I have been close once or twice to getting at least part of it down. On a couple of occasions I have gotten a very good erection and been on the brink of cumming 4-6 times in the session. I have had good expansion in those sessions, but not what it should have been. I, like others, can’t seem to get the anal breathing thing down nor the rubbing of the spot where the shaft meets the pubic area.
I just tried again right now and I can’t get a good erection for what I think is me putting too much effort into trying to find the sweet spot and trying to figure out the anal breathing thing. This has been my experience more times than not. In fact, the couple of times that I got good wood and expansion, I was not trying to find the spot for the most part or worrying too much about the breathing. I think trying to find the spot is causing me more problems than the anal breathing.
I have also had to stimulate the glans area way more than suggested to keep good wood going. I have been using the fleshlight to get to almost to the point of climax then going without it from there until needed again. Again, this may be in part from me thinking too much about HOW to do it. Oh yeah, and of course I have the porn going the whole time to help.
I think I am going to try to ignore the “how to” part and focus on getting excited and getting good wood and hope to stumble onto the rest for now. Maybe when I get off my injury break soon I will take some V or C to help and maybe I can find the spot and the breathing method then.
Do you need to do the rubbing of the spot and the anal breathing from the beginning, or can you start when you get close to cumming the first time and from then on?
I am just rambling. I guess I don’t really have a point. Just wanted to share my frustrations.
Any suggestions are welcome.