I can never get the clamp all-the-all-the way down, so I can still rub that spot perfectly - preliminary report, erections are extremely hard when I do this, it feels pretty awesome.
Mick, I don’t know about the other guys, but what I do is just a very light… hmm, flinch? Think of it as a reaction to the pressure in your dick, like there was too much energy to be kept in the front, so some of it had to travel backwards and it’s making your asshole flutter a bit.
Ha, also, try thinking of it as just above your anus, to the back, and focus your mind there when pulling LIGHTLY on that area. Once again, I’m sure other’s take a different approach to this, so hopefully they’ll weigh in too.
Um… I still don’t get it completely, lol. I’ll try to just figure out for myself later… but just to be sure… you’re not flexing this muscle like in a kegel right? You’re doing the opposite… like you have to take a crap?
Oh ya… I also just want to clarify the ballooning process. Basically you start like you’re wanking off… stroking up and down and on the penis head and stuff and also feeling the spot near the base. When you get close to orgasm you only play with the base part… doing this and also doing anal breathing, lol. You do this for as long as you can basically and you start to get really engorged.
Is that basically correct? How long from the first time you feel like you’re going to cum until you get significant engorgement? I just want to make sure so I know that I’m doing it right so I don’t sit there forever doing the wrong thing.
Thanks kazooplayer :) .