benny
This may all sound a bit strange but I have somehow the impression that between your mind and your dick there is a little communication issue. So why not starting to rebuild a bridge of communication in order to get in contact again. So all of the following has nothing to do with eventual PE exercises:
- Treat him gently, pat his head from time to time and show him you are a good friend of him
- Shaving? Sure! Give him air and the possibility to appear in all greatness.
- Tell him he looks great every time you are naked. And speak it loud! Like: “Hey man, you REALLY look GREAT today!” Even if he is just flaccid.
- When showering, put special attention to him, buy him a special soap (slightly pH-negative I recommend).
- Keep him nice and dry all the times, use a bit of Baby powder after drying off, that makes his skin nice and silky
- Give him, outside of PE, a gentle massage every night which is not masturbation, but a real massage. Just to make him feel good and relaxed for the night. If erection occurs, respect his will and continue, but do not masturbate, just a little bit of edging. It’s a sign he appreciates the treatment.
- If he spontaneously gets erect during daytime, thank him (if possible by speaking it out)
I know this all seems really weird, but it’s all about reconditioning and getting reconnected. It is a little game you play with yourself, but believe me it can work. Because the trouble is not in your dick, I rather believe it is your mind which is blocked somewhere. So treat your dick as friend and your mindset will change - and the dick will start to become your friend again.
You may call me a believer in strange things, but only after you tried it out for a few months and it didn’t work at all.
I sincerely wish you success!
Post-script: daydreams of a heterosexual (I suppose you are) about anal sex with girls? What’s wrong with that, I ask? Just enjoy the moments…
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