Why is my penis so small

And will jelqing help??

I am quite tall (6’5”) and my penis is only 5.5” long. This looks very very very small against my body especially as it curves.

My brothers and dad are around the same height as me, and I can’t help noticing in the changing rooms that their penis’s are significantly larger than mine. My flaccid size is only a couple of inches when cold.

Can I improve on this? And why is my penis so much smaller than the other males in my family?

Genetic lottery. You can improve it though.

Benny

you came here for a certain purpose, I suppose. So the question is not: why? The real question is: can I make it grow?

To this, we all can give you a solid, evidence-based “yes, we can!”

Now please don’t ask: but how much? That cristal ball is not invented yet. PE is a journey you have to do for yourself for these answers. We all know the recipe: dedication, dedication, a lot of patience and willing to listen to the vets who always give advice when asked for.

Put yourself on the Newbie routine, keep a logbook, measure once a month and keep exercising. Believe me, I am still a Newbie too, but within three months you will be convinced.

And: welcome to the club!

I know the feeling, having a small penis feels like its the worst thing that man can have. But as you do PE, you’ll get bigger dick. Mostly my erection has got bigger, not much of a change in the flaccid department wich annoys me since I’ve done almost 2 years of PE. But I’m grateful for all my erect gains, and maybe some tiny gains on the flaccid section too.

First, you are not "small". You are in the average range. A medium t-shirt is not a small t-shirt. Same thing goes for dicks. Please spend a little time with this thread.

Penis Size - A realistic view

If you are avoiding women over your thoughts, see this one too:

Young Guys - SiZE ANXIETY is DUMB

Second, pick out one of the newbie routines and do it for at least 3 month. Take your time, PE is a marathon not a sprint.

Newbie Penis Enlargement Routine
NEW newbie + advanced routine - I did something similar to that as a newbie and picked up a half inch

Third, take a look at this article - it will pretty much guide you for the rest of your PE career:

Physiologic Indicators (PIs) to help growth!

Best of luck and you are going to do GREAT!

Bennyjames you’re a legend. Well done for taking the leap from the lurkers and seeking help and guidance. I’m new here but I think that you’ll find people are kind, understanding and more than willing to help. Your situation can and most likely WILL improve if you commit. But you gotta do your research and dedicate time and effort to it. I’ve seen research showing people who research more get the better gains as they understand what they’re actually doing and optimising their training. If you work hard I’m confident your dreams can be reached and all the stress will be gone.

One thing that is certain is that it WILL NOT CHANGE OVERNIGHT. If you start now and make it a healthy routine habit then the day you can look back and say what a brilliant life decision I made will come all the sooner. I think you will agree that’s what you sorely want? It might take months, it might take years to reach your goals. So you better get started then!

Good luck buddy, keep us updated. We’re all rootin for ya!

Wrangler101

I feel your pain Benny, I’m 6’3” - 285lbs (played football in HS and college) and my BPEL is 7” based. My flaccid is less than 6” and with a not so impressive girth. These sizes when compared to my body size makes my dick look really small. My brother is 6’ 5’ and his flaccid dick size basically doubles mine. No idea what his EL is but I’m sure it might be above 8”.

I’m new like you and I’ve done a lot of reading since finding this forum. From what I can see by way of photos, it can work so I’m giving it a go. You should too. You have nothing to lose.

Unpredictable_D, you have big dick and a big flaccid. Pretty sure a 7 inch cock is a 7 inch cock whether you are 5 foot tall or six foot three.

Please see the length data from the Lifestyles/Ansel Cancun Penis Size study,

The guys were measured with ruler on top, pressed against pubic bone. Measurement was from base to tip

Length_data.jpg

(graph from WIKIPEDIA penis size article0

I’m not trying to bust your balls, it just breaks my heart to see you guys beating yourselves up over your cock size. Benny’s average, you are big. Neither of you are small. I think there may be too much naive viewing of porno going on here.

I am a big advocate of getting your perception to match reality. I have a hunch that it could even help with gains, as I think this negativity about size could negatively affect gains. Sounds a bit WOO WOO, I know - but as an athlete you know the strong connection between mind and body.

So are you saying your brother’s flaccid is about 12 inches long?

Why are you 6’5” and I am not. So lucky and so ungrateful, most women will happily go for tall as very attractive any day over something way less obvious or useful even. 5.5 is just plain average, get over it you are lucky overall

Play the cards your dealt

There is a great exercise it’s the push/pull

Your penis will grow very fast

You can grow 0.5 cm in just 10 minutes

Check it out on youtube Spam Link Removed

“I didn’t play the hand I was dealt I changed my cards, I prayed to the skies and I changed my stars.”

Kanye West

You want to swap? If you’re 5’8” or taller and have a penis of 6.5” or greater, I’ll happily swap.

Height is irrelevant.

Nothing stings more than knowing your penis is sub sized. And it is, when it curves upwards, not enough length to do a lot of things (though I am still quite inexperienced so am still bad).

I have been wracked by my penis size for a long time. So much so that I don’t even get erections anymore. :(

Also if I was smaller, my smaller penis would be okay as it would suit my frame better. But with my height and athletic build, it looks FAR smaller than it really is. Especially if it’s cold (for my body thats normal temperature :D ) when it shrinks to a couple of inches.

My girth is not as bad, but is still a decidedly mediocre 5.3”

Benny

quick and crude: stop whining, start exercising!

Ok, that was very rude, so I may give a bit lengthier explanation.

First of all you should, from a few days of TP reading and some experts (which I am not!) posting to your thread, by now have noticed that you are not small but average. And not even on the smaller side of average, but rather higher average! It looks small on your big frame, but you are definitely not small.

Secondo: you should start to believe that the probability of being able to increase your dick’s size by your own means is high and it is worth giving it a try. You know by now this will not happen over night but will need consistency and dedication, so you may start to prepare your mind for PE duties in the very near future.

Third: please stop comparing your dick in locker-room situations. Only the erect size is viable when action is ahead. So unless you frequent gay saunas where men can walk around erect without causing alerts you have only seen flaccid dicks. And this is not a valid size information! Now please do not answer with: but porn stars… There are simply too many tricks and we all know it.

Last but not least: in my humble opinion you are ready to start training. Set up a reasonable schedule, take things slowly and avoid injuries. The newbie routine is waiting for you. And let’s see if after 3 months you will become a convinced member here.

Or simply give me a reason why not to start exercising. But beware, it must be an excellent one, I am a severe critic! :-)

Don’t do it! Well, at least not without a broker (twatteaser). Given relative supply/demand for height Vs. dick? You can make some serious coin on the trade as well.

Patience and PE. Although I meet your swap criteria, here’s the thing: I’ll never be more than 5’8” - regardless of perceptions that bigger is better. You, on the other hand, can do something about dick size if you want to.

While I totally understand your point about relative size in terms of visual impact, most women are not as visually oriented as guys. A two-foot unit might look micro on a whale shark, but its just not going to fit in your typical blowfish. Grow your tool for yourself if you want, but most women are likely to focus more on what it feels like than how much of a full length mirror it fills.