Starting out, with focus on girth
I’m just starting out. No routine yet as I’m still reading.
Current stats: 6.25BPEL, 5EG
My main goal is for girth, but I want to add some length as well, so I don’t too imbalanced.
My wife is rather petite, so too much length would not be a good thing - she dated a very well hung guy (probably 10”+EL and at around 7”EG) for a few years but could never take him all the way (probably no more than 8-9”) and I don’t want to end up with that happening to me. She liked the girth though, so I’m hoping to put on a bit discreetly to surprise her. Also, we’ll be having kids soon, so bulking up a bit couldn’t hurt. She’s happy with my size and enjoys sex, but I’m aiming for ecstatic :-D
My goal is for 7-9”BPEL (keep going until she says stop) and then trying for 7-8” EG. I’d also like a fatter head, so maybe 7”EG, and 8”head?
I’ve just got a few questions before I get started.
What should I plan for - eg. If I think 9EL is her max, then should I aim for 8 EL and then start working on girth? Ie. Can I add girth without worrying about additional length gains, or can I just cement the girth gains without cementing the length gains if I get too long?
For the warm up and warm down, would one of those athletes microwave gel packs wrapped in a towel be ok? I think a sock full of rice could attract some unwanted attention :-p
A normal, even look is of most importance to me. I’ll happily sacrifice faster/total gains to make sure I don’t look like a freak. I understand the importance of warm up and warm down and ensuring exercises are implemented evenly and gradually, but are there any other ideas I should be keeping in mind while doing this?
Sorry if these questions come up a lot. I’ve spent about 10 hours reading already and there’s so much info and I’m keen to get started, as I know it’s best done as a long term process.