PE in Secret?

Here’s a question for all the married dudes (or guys in a relationship/living with a significant other). Does you partner know about your PE habits or do you do it “in secret”? Married myself, and just starting week 2 of my PE career. Hoping I’ll be successful enough in my attempts to get it noticed, but for now I’m keeping it on the DL. Just curious. Would love to hear others opinions/experiences.

Cheers!

Search “stealth” and ‘stealther” and you’ll get a ton of hits. It’s kind of a sport around here. *chuckles*

My wife knows and supports it, which is great, sometimes we have some appointment and we set out schedule considering my 1~2 hours workout.

Awesome, thanks Thoughtul! I’m not sure exactly what you mean by it being a sport, but sounds exciting and I’m looking forward to improving my skills in stealth game. This morning was a pretty pathetic sight trying to complete a session while making breakfast, lunch and getting out the door for work.. And not looking like a fool with my dick in my hands in the middle of the kitchen lol! Will have to work on scheduling. Ha.

What does the deadlift have to do with PEing?

Here’s some of my stealth experience:

BigBootyFan - Big Booty Extravaganza (and Log)

Pretty sure you’re referring to his “DL” comment. That’s “Down Low” if you’re not exactly hood savvy. *smirks*

I’ve been a stealther for over 3 years.And plan on keeping it that way………

I’m married and I’m stealth as well. My wife works weekend nights so after I put the kids to bed that’s when I get good sessions in. During the week I either do some jelqing in the shower, some piss pulls at work, or after my lunch workout I’ll do some more working out in the private showers at the gym (don’t judge me or act like you haven’t pulled your dicks in public places, haha). I plan on keeping it a secret until the wife comments or notices the increase, to which I’ll come out and say “yeah I’ve been doing some exercises to increase erection quality and a side effect is it grows. However I’m curious to how it will be if/when I need to increase workout times to 1+ hours a day and it not become a burden.

Ditto verbatim, all of the above, which is kinda weird. Except I can’t imagine 1+ hours a day peckering around with my pecker, not unless it was inside something better than my damn hand! ;)

Also, my options are limited since I have both a toddler and two teenagers. Even with the wife at work during the night, I still have very little privacy. I’m always at risk for a barge-in from the toddler, or a random money request from the teenagers. My wife has caught me a few times in the shower jelqing, but that’s no surprise to her. She usually just rolls her eyes and closes the door. Hell, I’ve had baby oil and lotion in the shower for years, and sometimes I’ll even haul in a bottle of beer or whiskey (we have a large two-headed walk-in shower with a bench, so it’s comfy for hours.).

- Saul

Sounds like a mighty nice shower you got there Saul! Now, if you tell me it’s also a steam shower, I’ll be majorly jealous!

Been married ten years. We have sex regularly and she knows I am doing “weird” shit with my penis as she knows about my various pumps and my extender.

If we spoke about me increasing my size she would say “I love you just as you are”.

Most forms of pe can can provide immediate yet non-permanent gains in both length and girth. My wife has never complained as I regularly hit her up with these non-permanent increases. When we met I had dimesions of maybe bp 6.25” x me 4.5”. At my greatest she has experienced bp 7” x me 5.5”. She takes that with no issue.

Truth is she was having amazing orgasms when I was at my smallest.

My thought is that a large penis is a large penis. Intamacy as it’s most fundamental depths is something different.

I won’t ask for permission from my wife for this kind of things.

She knows. I told her. That’s it. She just said don’t make it too thick.

Yeah the kids thing can be a burden too. I have a toddler so it’s hard to tell if he’ll ever barge in even though he should be in bed. But other than that I’m usually good at night.

Haha, I’m also jealous of that shower you speak of. Sounds not only great for PE, but just overall relaxing. My water bill would be through the roof!

So this begs the question, If you are PE’ing in a long-term relationship, will it have any effect on the sex? I figure it won’t. Maybe a little, but not in the long-term, and in fact she may get pissed. My wife talks about a boob job, but I love her boobs. They are ~her~ boobs, and they’re what I’m used to. Changing the boobage would change the girl I married. I love her stretch marks (they’re scars to be proud of, not cut off!). I love the extra baby girth she put on around her hips. I really, really love the extra booty all that created.

And she loves my penis just the way it is. That won’t change if/when she notices a change in size, so we in relationships should remember that PE is about how we feel about our own pecker, not the way she feels about it. I doubt she gives a shit, so long as you are nice to her and do those things a husband and father needs to do.

- Saul