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Originally Posted by saulgoode45
So this begs the question, If you are PE’ing in a long-term relationship, will it have any effect on the sex? I figure it won’t. Maybe a little, but not in the long-term, and in fact she may get pissed. My wife talks about a boob job, but I love her boobs. They are ~her~ boobs, and they’re what I’m used to. Changing the boobage would change the girl I married. I love her stretch marks (they’re scars to be proud of, not cut off!). I love the extra baby girth she put on around her hips. I really, really love the extra booty all that created.

And she loves my penis just the way it is. That won’t change if/when she notices a change in size, so we in relationships should remember that PE is about how we feel about our own pecker, not the way she feels about it. I doubt she gives a shit, so long as you are nice to her and do those things a husband and father needs to do.

- Saul

+1

Once upon a time (2015): 6.40” x 4.50”

Today: 7.25” x 5.00”, Thunder Cocks Unite!

I think we can...Little Engine’s Climb

I pump while I’m in the shower and while I shave every morning. My wife is at the other sink getting ready for work. I have pumped and jelqed in front of her for years. She has come in the room and had a conversation with me while I was jelqing several times. She isn’t bothered by it and she is a very very conservative and shy person.

I’m on the stealth tip too. I’m new to it but it’s been almost four weeks and I get up 30 minutes earlier than usual. Use a bathroom downstairs and fire up a space heater. So far so good! She has said that I look bigger already so I said I’ve been kegeling and gave up diet soda. Not sure what the gains are but soon I will be measuring.

10/7/16: BPEL - 6" EG - 5"

12/14/16 BPEL - 6.6" EG - 5"

Goal: 8x6 - Isn't that everyone's goal?

Originally Posted by saulgoode45
So this begs the question, If you are PE’ing in a long-term relationship, will it have any effect on the sex? I figure it won’t. Maybe a little, but not in the long-term, and in fact she may get pissed. My wife talks about a boob job, but I love her boobs. They are ~her~ boobs, and they’re what I’m used to. Changing the boobage would change the girl I married. I love her stretch marks (they’re scars to be proud of, not cut off!). I love the extra baby girth she put on around her hips. I really, really love the extra booty all that created.

And she loves my penis just the way it is. That won’t change if/when she notices a change in size, so we in relationships should remember that PE is about how we feel about our own pecker, not the way she feels about it. I doubt she gives a shit, so long as you are nice to her and do those things a husband and father needs to do.

- Saul

Well stated. The sooner we realize this, the sooner we can be at peace with ourselves.

Being at peace is better than any of our other goals.

4/16 BPEL 7.2 MSEG 6.0

1/17 BPEL 7.75 MSEG ~6.2 BEG 6.75

Size anxiety is the mere response to viewing other males as a threat and the corresponding jealousy it causes. Realize that your feelings are a response to a perceived threat and the anxiety will disappear. My log: Big Booty Extravaganza (and Log)

Originally Posted by butterdogbutt
I pump while I’m in the shower and while I shave every morning. My wife is at the other sink getting ready for work. I have pumped and jelqed in front of her for years. She has come in the room and had a conversation with me while I was jelqing several times. She isn’t bothered by it and she is a very very conservative and shy person.

This is respect.

Once upon a time (2015): 6.40” x 4.50”

Today: 7.25” x 5.00”, Thunder Cocks Unite!

I think we can...Little Engine’s Climb

Originally Posted by butterdogbutt
I pump while I’m in the shower and while I shave every morning. My wife is at the other sink getting ready for work. I have pumped and jelqed in front of her for years. She has come in the room and had a conversation with me while I was jelqing several times. She isn’t bothered by it and she is a very very conservative and shy person.

Awesome. Kind of the same thing here too.

She finds it natural cause I find it natural. She understands.

BPEL 7 EG 5.5 NBPEL 6.5 Flaccid length 4.5. Started Jan 2015 at bpel 6.5 nbpel 6.0 and eg 5.2 flaccid length was 3.5

I have reached my goal. At least for now.

I think telling or retaining PE info would be fine, as long as it is what you want to do. Personally, I would rather keep PE in stealth if I was married, since A) I wouldn’t want her telling her friends, B) because seeing her get more intense sensations yet at the same time be confused as to why would be more exciting than her knowing. I like mystery and anticipation, and not knowing what to expect, instead of having everything planned. Might just be me though, to each their own for sure

Problem solving with fire.

My wife has no idea. She knows I edge but doesn’t know its to increase my size.

HoustonWoods

Beginning stats 3/2010: BPEL: 6" Flaccid: 3.5" Erect Girth: 5.25

Stats as of 9/2022: BPEL: 8" Flaccid: 7" Flaccid Girth: 5.25 Erect Girth: 6 5/8"

I kept it a secret because I didn’t want my wife to know how insecure I am about it. I’m no longer stealth since i bought my pump.

I pump in front of her now.

4/16 BPEL 7.2 MSEG 6.0

1/17 BPEL 7.75 MSEG ~6.2 BEG 6.75

Size anxiety is the mere response to viewing other males as a threat and the corresponding jealousy it causes. Realize that your feelings are a response to a perceived threat and the anxiety will disappear. My log: Big Booty Extravaganza (and Log)

Pumping in front of your SO is quite sexy.

Started 4-27-16: BPEL 6.06; MSEG 4.625; Base EG 4.88; Current: BPEL 6.5; MSEG 4.81; Base EG 5.0; Goal: BPEL at least 7.5; MSEG at least 5.25

"She takes, she fakes, she aches and makes love just like a woman. But she breaks just like a little girl." BD

I said to my girlfriend “how would you feel if my cock got bigger?” She asked me what I was talking about so I showed her this site, showed her some pictures and videos. She is very happy with my cock as it is but said that it’s my body and I can do whatever I want to it, then she asked if she can help in any way. I’d rather not keep secrets.

He was delighted as it stiffened

And ripped right through his sock

It’s been a good year

Originally Posted by butterdogbutt
I pump while I’m in the shower and while I shave every morning. My wife is at the other sink getting ready for work. I have pumped and jelqed in front of her for years. She has come in the room and had a conversation with me while I was jelqing several times. She isn’t bothered by it and she is a very very conservative and shy person.

That’s awesome butter! Sounds like you guys have a great relationship. How did you introduce her to the idea in the first place?

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