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I’m trying to hold my ejaculation in for longer and I was wondering if you guys could give me some tips on whether I should masterbate using my foreskin (dry) or using some kind of lube and pulling back my foreskin and masturabating that way. I tend to last longer with lube and pulling back my foreskin but I’m not sure if thats ideal for vaginal sex

Try various models of fleshlights. I have tried many throughout the years and now it takes forever for me to cum. Also do kegels.

Or just fuck more women so that you don’t need to flog the log?

Here is how I learned ejaculatory control. I learned this in my early 20’s.

TRUST ME, this will work for almost all guys.

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Set your goal to jack-off without coming for 30 minutes. You are going to try to come close to ejaculating a few times during that time, but don’t until you hit 30 mins. Once you hit 30 mins, blow your load.

But once you can go 30 mins by yourself, you can last as long as you want with a partner.

The secret is learning about the sensations you feel, especially learning to identify what it feels like when you are about to blow a load.

This is why you are going to do this jacking off WITHOUT PORN. The porno will distract you from your own sensations.

If you want to watch porno while getting hard, that is fine. But once you are hard TURN THE PORN OFF.

You are also going to use LUBE EVERY TIME you jack off, because this will also help you focus on the feeling and sensation.

You do not have to be perfect, it will take time before you can reach 30 mins. If you blow a load too soon, don’t worry about it. Better luck next time.

Once you can reach the 30 minute goal, you can add time if you want to. I don’t know whether that is necessary. For me once I could do 30 to 40 mins, I had all the skills I needed for great ejaculatory control

For more details on how to do this, take a look at this article from the net I posted here:

sta-kool - Edging 101

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For background, you might want to read the first post in this thread, it explains what happens when you ejaculate:

Ejaculation Process


Last edited by sta-kool : 05-25-2011 at .

sta-kool, im really glad you posted those links. For the past 6 months ive been having issues with control and now I think its because ive been edging wrong.


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Current: BPEL 7.00" EG 5.5"

Goal: BPEL 8 EG 6 My new goal is now 9" BPEL X 6" EG So I can blow my wife's pussy walls out!

HA HA, well practice makes perfect! Great thing is it is FUN and relaxing, so it is easy and fun to “practice.”

It was good for me to read that “orgasmicedging.com” article again too. As I am a bit out of practice myself on it. I think edging really helps my Erection Quaility if I do it a couple, three times a week.

The full article was longer, it had stuff about both men and women. Too bad it disappeared off the net.

If I can add to this: I also fully endorse the use of lube - it helps to simulate real life circumstances if you see what I mean. Also, rather than a standard masturbatory method try to incorporate more head work massaging etc. I find that a standard straight up and down method, followed by head work then back to the standard method means that you can carry on masturbating but holds back on the urge to come by focusing in different areas of the penis. Try also changing the angle of your penis during masturbation as I find it affects different nerve endings.

I would stress though you really do need to try to bring yourself right to the very edge of the point of no return before you stop a cycle because if you done learn to recognise that very specific point it can all go wrong.

Sta-Kool recommends 30 min and this is a very good target but my personal preference was to achieve 45min


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Not going to the very point of no return is my error when edging. Ive been here just whacking off trying to think of things I hate so I don’t make myself cum. Man, this gives me a great amount of hope now that I know what I should be doing.


Stock Cock: BPEL 6.187" EG 5.25"

Current: BPEL 7.00" EG 5.5"

Goal: BPEL 8 EG 6 My new goal is now 9" BPEL X 6" EG So I can blow my wife's pussy walls out!

Nah don’t do the “things I hate” thinking.

With some practice, you can really get on the edge of the PONR and just kind of “surf” there. I will get there and just do like 1/8 of an inch strokes and just stay on the edge.

Again don’t worry about finishing too soon. If that happens, just enjoy it. Better luck next time!

Good posts by sta-kool. I would like to say that masturbating is a different beast than vaginal sex. The sensations and interactions are completely different. Edging is a very good practice and should help but it’s not fucking.

Sex with a woman is - and should be so much more on all levels that you should not be thinking about whether you should pull back your foreskin or not.


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Start BPEL 6.50" x MSEG 5.00"

Now BPEL 7.625" x MSEG 5.25"

Very good points about sex with a partner.

The edging helps you figure out the sensations you feel before you hit the Point of no Return, so it is useful to have that knowledge to bring into the bedroom.

I can last for like 30 mins in certain positions like sitting down, but other positions I just blow my load in like 5 mins. Any tips for this problem? Ps: thanks everyone for the advice!

Originally Posted by sta-kool
Here is how I learned ejaculatory control. I learned this in my early 20’s.

TRUST ME, this will work for almost all guys.

—-

Set your goal to jack-off without coming for 30 minutes. You are going to try to come close to ejaculating a few times during that time, but don’t until you hit 30 mins. Once you hit 30 mins, blow your load.

But once you can go 30 mins by yourself, you can last as long as you want with a partner.

The secret is learning about the sensations you feel, especially learning to identify what it feels like when you are about to blow a load.

This is why you are going to do this jacking off WITHOUT PORN. The porno will distract you from your own sensations.

If you want to watch porno while getting hard, that is fine. But once you are hard TURN THE PORN OFF.

You are also going to use LUBE EVERY TIME you jack off, because this will also help you focus on the feeling and sensation.

You do not have to be perfect, it will take time before you can reach 30 mins. If you blow a load too soon, don’t worry about it. Better luck next time.

Once you can reach the 30 minute goal, you can add time if you want to. I don’t know whether that is necessary. For me once I could do 30 to 40 mins, I had all the skills I needed for great ejaculatory control

For more details on how to do this, take a look at this article from the net I posted here:

Sta-kool - Edging 101

——

For background, you might want to read the first post in this thread, it explains what happens when you ejaculate:

Ejaculation Process

Originally Posted by sta-kool
Nah don’t do the “things I hate” thinking.

With some practice, you can really get on the edge of the PONR and just kind of “surf” there. I will get there and just do like 1/8 of an inch strokes and just stay on the edge.

Again don’t worry about finishing too soon. If that happens, just enjoy it. Better luck next time!

Agreed


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