Just found out my gf's experience with size

Hey All,

I’ve been reading the PE forums for a couple weeks now as what every newbie should do before they post. This seems like a great place to learn about this stuff. I only started researching penis excersises after realizing how friggin’ small I am. I mean, it never really got to me until I started doing it with my current girlfriend. I always thought I was average, so didn’t think much of it.

Today she told me her past boyfriend sizes. Just the length, her bf for 4 years is 6” and some guy she went out with during her break up is 7”. She said the 7” guy was too big and it hurt when he went full penetration. Now I’m 5” length and 4.5” girth (I still don’t understand the terms NBPL,etc). Now I know size isn’t everything and she told me I’m the best she ever had. Maybe women just say that to boost the guy’s ego, I don’t know. She also said she never experienced oral like the way I did it. Keep in mind this does make me feel better but I’m not a friggin’ lesbian.

Last week I started my first PE regimen and on the first few strectches I really pulled some kind of muscle near my pelvis. I gave it a few days to cure and now I’m good.

I will be using the newbie routine

5 min hot wrap
5 min manual stretch (ten 30-second stretches)
10 min of jelq (two hundred 3-second strokes)
5 min hot wrap
50 kegels of five second holds each

Schedule: 2 days ON / 1 day OFF
Gradually increase to 10 min total of stretches and 30 min of jelqing over about 6 weeks time.

There are some very newbie questions I want to ask.

1. Schedule: 2 days ON / 1 day OFF - Does this mean my schedule would like this?. Mon,Tues,Thurs,Fri,Sun…these are the days I would be doing PE

2. How much tension are you guys using for your stretches. They say its suppose to be enough to make it feel like your stretching a muscle. I’ve been pulling really hard and it doesn’t feel like i’m stretching anything. Just feels like I’m pulling my penis out of my pelvic bone so to speak.

3. The main problem is I’m very sensitive down there and get erections quickly with just a touch. I don’t have a pre-mature ejaculation problem but just very sensitive and it gets stimulated easily. Anyway, when I tried doing PE I was always at 90-100% erection. I heard newbies can really hurt themself when doing this so I stopped. You only have one penis:) . Anyway, would it be alright if I masturbated and waited 10 minutes, then do PE?. I think thats the only way it would help

4. When I’m doing kegels, I’m not sure if I’m working the right muscle. When I squeeze the muscle over and over when I want to stop peeing, my penis becomes fully erect and everytime I squeeze it after that I could easily move my penis up and down. Is this the kegal excercise?

My goal is 6” length and 5” girth. I don’t care if its too small still, my whole goal right now is to be average at least.

Could someone also explain what all these abbrieviations mean? (NBPL,BPL,etc)

Thanks guys, I’m looking forward to hearing from everyone.

Out of morbid curiosity, how did this conversation about ex’s sizes come up?

Shadow Cruiser Welcome to Thunders.

1. If monday was the beginning of your cycle thats how it would look.

2. It doesn’t feel like stretching a muscle per say, but you should feel a stretch in the inner workings of your penis. Do a search of the words ligaments and tunica. These are what you want to stretch.

3. You’re right about that erection level for newbies…a bad idea. And its perfectly fine for you to masturbate before a session to help out.

4. Sounds like your doing them right to me. When you stop the flow of urine, you’re using your BC muscle (essentially doing a kegel).

Good luck with your gains!

Yup. Thats the right muscle. BC muscle I believe it is. Don’t ask me to spell out the acronym. ;)

Welcome shadow_cruiser, heres a link to the glossary Glossary
It should help with some of the abbreviation questions.

(sorry for the length of the url)

Please proofread before posting. Thanks.

Sorry. Honest mistake.

No biggie, per se.

Wow, what fast responses and friendly ones too!!. You guys are great.

Anna Nimity - This is the second time it came up. The first time she didn’t want to convey anything to me. We were talking about past experiences and how small her first bf was (2.5” erect), is that even possible?. Anyway, she didn’t want to disclose the size of the latter two bf’s. We just talked about our experiences and that was that.

The second time we were talking about past experiences again. I was very persistant in asking about size, I don’t have low self-esteem about my package up until then. She explained how the guy who was 7 inches was too big, etc,etc. I really have a problem with her ex-bf because he always gets in the way of our relationship. When she was talking about experiences with him, I bluntly told her how big her ex was. I know this isn’t a fact but doesn’t the vagina walls stretch after someone who is bigger?. I said he was 6” and she said your right. Keeping in mind the whole time I thought I was bigger than him. I really don’t know how these conversations actually come up but they just do, it was something like that though. For the most part, it was me being curious about it as with every guy. I shouldn’t have asked because the outcome isn’t good but I’m glad I did.

Doubles - Thanks a lot for the information. You answered all my questions perfectly!!!. I really appreciate it:)

Alrdybig - So when I do kegels, it increases blood flow to the penis and in-turn giving me a erection?. The penis should also move up and down when I do it?. Also, how long do I hold and release for?. Sorry for the questions.

Cyborg - Thanks for the abbreviations link for me. It will help my understanding a lot

You may have seen this on the site’s front page (articles are rotated and this one happens to be up now). If not, read this article. It will tell you all about the muscles used for Dr. Kegel’s exercise.

There have been many suggestions about Kegels and how to do them. My current recommendation is 50-100 a couple times a day. It doesn’t take long for the BC (bulbocavernosus) muscle to get toned which will improve your erection strength and ejaculation force. A hold of a couple seconds is all that’s needed. Others have suggested holds up to 60 seconds, but I think that’s a waste of energy. You’ll find that there are a few “standards” in PE and quite a lot of “personal favorites.” Your job is to figure out which ones work best for you. :)

I don’t think its good to erection sizes with girlfriends, because the rule of thumb is there is always someone bigger. No matter if your 7 inches, there’s a chance she had a 8 or 9 incher. So there goes your ego.

Welcome to Thunder’s ! This is the place to be.

2.5 is definately in the smaller range, but it is not the smallest. The smallest can be a few centimeters long with only the glans showing and no shaft. 2.5 is within the range of the condition called Micropenis.

What is your starting girth?

I find it very encouraging that most people PE for the sake of their partners and not for some ego trip. Good gainings!

By the way, how were the lengths of the previous boyfriends measured? It is the general concensus that women over estimate the size of a penis when simply eyeing the unit. This is sometimes due to their measuring the whole shaft from the anus, simple overestimation, personal ego/boasting rights, possible mind f***. 90% of women who state a size of previous lover never used a measuring device. The average deviation is around .5-1.0 greater than actual.

EDIT Sorry I just noticed your starting girth, ignore my previous inquiry.

Hey, I hear you, my GF actually brought up penis sizes as well, she asked if I had an average sized penis and yes I have (I have around 5 inches length and 4.72 inches thickness), she mentioned she was “lucky” finding 3 guys with unnormally big penises. It made me feel very uncomfortable :/. Not like she has said my penis being small or anything, I dont remember how we got to sizes though but it was very uncomfortable to hear what she said and I would never want a discussion about other guys penis sizes ever again. She does however enjoy my sex very much, everytime I put it into her she usually says “I’m always surprised how good it feels to have a dick inside of me”. But since she brought up those overgrown penises…… I’ve wanted to increase my penis size and thickness. Anyway hope it works out for you, I’m going to start downloading the clips to see how you do the exercises properly, I’m afraid I might be doing the stretches wrong.

westla - I’m doing kegels at work now since I know what they are. There’s not much to do in the office all day and this would be a benificiary exercise.

illpo - I know that. She only has had a couple bf’s and told me the experiences with them. If it was any other girl that I didn’t care much about, It probably wouldn’t affect me as much.

Siamguy - Her first bf was 2.5” in length and he was 6’5” tall. She said he was very underly portioned but she didn’t care about his penis size. He had a major self-esteem problem which I’m assuming is because of the small penis. I’m only doing this for her because with my ex, I didn’t care at all about my penis size. I was also her first so it didn’t matter because I knew she didn’t experience anything else. With my current gf, it sucks knowing she had bigger because during foreplay I finger her and she wants it deeper and deeper. To be honest, my index finger doesn’t seem to be any longer than my penis, thus wanting me to be bigger. I’m not egotistical and I’m not doing this for me, as what every guy should be thinking.

She said the length of her hand or something is 5” so just basically eyed all of them. She measures from base to tip so NBPL?. Those are good facts to know. It seems like most women exaggerate their partners size because she said I’m above average, haha, yeah right. Btw, all asians are not small. Her ex of 4 years is 6” who’s korean and I’m a born and raised canadian who’s smaller. I’m assuming your asian siamguy, please excuse me if your not.

Anonymous - Tell me about it, someone that can relate. My hasn’t said I was small too because I think every gf knows in their right mind not to call their bf small. We’re both about the same size. My girth differs from day to day in the range of 4.5”-4.75” though. Those discussions always come up speradically. My girlfriend loves my dick in there also and she also said how great I am at doing what I do. Mentioning the penis size spares your feelings though. I downloaded the clips and watched them over and over. Then on the first day of stretches I tugged too hard, lol. Anyway, good luck with ya and hopefully both of us get some good gains quickly.

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