I am having trouble finding my lot. I can see tugback from 12:00 all the way down to 6:00 . I am grasping my head and stretching my penis outward but not very hard and then doing, what I think is a kegel. And when I do this the base of my penis moves inward some. It does this at all angles. When I am doing a kegel is it supposed to feel like I am tightening my anus?