Do you tell your girlfriend/wife?

Started taking PE more seriously, so am now doing approx 150 squeeze jelqs every other day.

But! Quite often now, if I use a slightly firm grip, I will get lots of red dots, most small, some large around the top end of the shaft. This is to be expected right?

Since I’ve yet to say anything to my girlfriend about my venture in to PE world, I’m worried she will see and ask why is my dick all red. She got a glimpse the other day, after some sex and I just asked if she was on her period xD pretty dumb, and kind of bad since she was obviously not.

Anyways, my question is to all you pro jelqers, do you tell your wife/girl/partner? I hope its yes (to save hiding your dick when its red), and would be nice to hear how some of you guys broke the news

I don’t tell my wife.

I told my fiancee and now she’s my wife. Not sure what wife doesn’t want a harder bigger cock. She’s been very supportive. Some say don’t tell because they may use it against you. If that’s the mindset of your girl, you need a new one. She supports me all of the way.

I think that that is an etreeeeeemly personal call to make. It really depends on the chick and your relationship.
I would say that for a girlfriend it is a good deal mor high risk since there is a greater likelihood of a break-up during which time she might use that little pearl of knowledge against you in a hurtful way.
A wife is with you a good deal more and the risk is a little lower.

For me … I am not in a place where I wuld feel comfortable sharing that with my wife … things may change … but not now

I did. Complicity is cool!

Agreed. I like when she comes home and finds me pumping and wants to try it out.

While I don’t currently PE I did tell the woman I am currently with about it. Her reaction was at first just disbelief that a guy could make his cock larger and then it was kind of a whatever “boys will be boys” kind of attitude. We talk about everything and the subject just has never come up again.

I don’t want to sound patronizing, but the point is that when things are smooth everything is cool . The problem is that most people change when things go bad. There are perfectly “good” women who refuse to let their children see the “once ..oh so adored” father after the divorce … Now, how long it takes to the same pissed off women to tell all friends and family what kind of degenerate you are, stretching your dick for hours? The “mine is different” mindset is understandable but a lil dangerous in real life.

I wish you the best of course!

I did, makes everything easier…

Yes you are right, I thought a lot about what you say but when things go bad this is a very little problem then I don’t mind what people think

I tell almost everyone I meet hahaha

Never would I tell my girl I’m using the PE. I just hope to be one of the biggest she’s ever had at the end of the day, that’s all lol

Amen to that.

Having once had a real super-vindictive ex-girlfriend, my advice to you is do not tell a girlfriend.

Because if you dump here, she will broadcast to the world that you are a small-dicked loser. And so pathetic that you thought stroking your dick all day would make it bigger.

Vindictive exes will pretty much say anything to get back at you. And lying is no problem with them. As long as it is dirt, they will throw it at you.

Now I am not saying all women are like that, but a few are. MarkPE’s post above is worth rereading I think.

Just my humble opinion, your mileage may vary.

I’ve been jelqing for about a month. One night after sex, my wife said I seemed harder and a little thicker. I told her that I started jelqing for thickness and EQ.

Just two nights ago, afterwards, she said “You were really hard, it felt like I was getting fucked by a pole.”

.Which of course, made me smile :)