Do you tell your girlfriend/wife?

I can relate to what Metamorpho said: “I am working on loosening her Puritan ways.” My wife is a very sweet and very sincere Christian - one of the best things about her, and one of the reasons I married her 26 years ago - and, while she enjoys sex and has been a willing and satisfying partner over the years, she always has a bit of a problem with anything that smacks too much of pure hedonism.

She had seemed OK when I confessed to using generic viagra last year, but recently told me that she didn’t really like the “happy pills” because she misses the feeling of me going soft inside of her after cumming. I’m happy that she can be honest with me about what she likes and what she doesn’t like, but I fear that there is a deep sub-text to her concerns that involves not doing anything that isn’t “natural.” So, I’m pretty sure that she won’t embrace my quest for a monster penis - no matter how much she might also benefit from it.

A lot of my interest in PE is motivated by improving my natural EQ, and not having to rely on Indian pharmaceuticals. Probably, we will approach it together on this basis, and the sense of continuing honesty and sharing goals will be a good thing and further strengthen our relationship. But I cannot be blind to or careless with her sensibilities so, for right now, I’m strictly in stealth mode and treading very lightly.

Of course, if I end up gaining 2 or 3 inches, I think it’s going to be pretty hard to hide!

I guess another reason I don’t tell the wife is that I want her to notice. Though I’ve made decent gains, it was over such a long period, that she hasn’t noticed. But I figure that there must be some point where she asks what’s up.

My wife & I had some more of the most wonderful weekend sex in our 35 years of marriage! I can tell when she looks at my cock that she knows it is changing. I don’t know if it’s her pereceptions or the fact that I’m bigger that is spicing up our sex life but she is enjoying it a lot more. And that makes me enjoy it a lot more. I think we all love to satisfy our lovers. That’s human nature! So she can hang on to some of her puritan ways and I’ll just bend them more and more. Hell she even let me lick her pussy again. That’s a couple of times in the past month and more than in the last twenty years of marriage. She is trying to help me please her and I know it is hard for her because her head is messed up with that straight christian sex shit! (Some of the church bullshit in my estimation. It just fucks with people’s minds.)

It may be a year or two or never when I tell her. Certainly not on my deathbed! I am not going to stress over this and I don’t believe anyone should feel they have to tell. That’s what the word “personal” means. Have a great day guys!

That ‘Christian sex shit’, as you so delicately put it, has no biblical basis. The Bible does not ‘fuck with people’s minds’; people fuck with people’s minds. Christians should live by the Bible, not by ideas that some misguided pastor or Pope has added-on.

Sometimes it is easy and legitimate to draw inferences from the Bible, but vast amounts of what people assume the Bible says are entirely fallacious. But it’s not the Bible or the church’s fault; if people actually read their Bibles it would not be a problem.

FG,

I meant organised religions. Good points. I don’t find that in the Bible. :)

The bible is much more concerned about sexual relations outside of marriage, not inside a marriage. It’s not really something that we need to talk about; but for anyone who does go reading about sex and the bible, keep in mind that just because something is mentioned in the bible it doesn’t mean it has the authorization of God. Abraham and David where polygamists; does that mean polygamy is condoned by God? And remember; none of use are worthy of heaven in the Christian world view. We are all sinners, our only salvation is trusting in the saving grace of Jesus. It is far more important that you put your trust in him and treat others with love, respect, and humility, then it is to wonder about whether cunnilingus is a sin.

Lots of common sense and good attitudes here, guys - which is why I love this forum!

I was thinking that my wife and I have, in fact, talked about PE. Last night while we were going at it pretty good, she let out a healthy “oh,man!”, to which I replied something eloquent like “unghhh.”. Roughly translated, the conversation went like this: “My, you must have done something to your penis, because I’ve never felt anything like this before.”“Why, yes dear, I’ve been exercising the little guy regularly for a couple of months now, and I do think it’s starting to get noticeably bigger; but of course, I do it all for you (smile).”

And the point here is that communication, whether in English or in your own secret language of the sack, is good for a relationship. :)

When I hit my next goal of 7nbp x 6mseg, I plan on doing one of those clone your willy dongs and giving it to her and then seeing where the conversation leads. That is assuming I get there and that she’s still a fan of my size like she is now.

The bible is the book of god, Everything inside is authorized by god, If someone change a word in a holly book then the book it self is not accurate any more, I think we better keep in mind that for 1 word there is 20 meanings, Specially translated books like the bible. Everything around us is perfect :D We are fucked up creatures :D

That’s very naive, when the bible records that David committed adultery with Bathsheba and got her pregnant, are you saying God gave David his authority to do that? And then he tried to get her husband to sleep with her so they could pretend it wasn’t his child; but he ended up murdering the man when he refused to sleep with her since his fellow countrymen were at war and he didn’t want to be enjoying himself when they were off fighting. Did God also give David the authority to do that?

If so, then why did he send Nathan the prophet to David telling him that he would be punished for his sins; that he would be shamed, that his family would suffer, and that his wives would be taken from him for what he had done. Are you saying God authorized David to sin and then punished him for it?

Many of the books in the bible are meant to be historical records of events, and they record the events as they happened. When they record a sinful act, they do so not because God said it was moral or because he gave authority to it; but because that was what actually happened, so like I said you have to be careful when reading the Bible. It isn’t always trying to teach theology, sometimes it is just telling you history. Divine inspiration doesn’t tell us what God intended for each part of the bible, only that he did intend for the bible to be the way it is.

OK, it may have been me de-railing the thread, answering a point in a post, but can we please return to the subject now? Whether you do or do not tell your wife is not a matter of theology. :)

What a great idea!

1st off. I’m w/Firegoat. And I accept some of the blame for getting us into that religion discussion.

2nd. I’m w/Bubba101. When my dick tells her he is bigger and she screams that he is big enough then that’s good enough communication for me and maybe I’ll tell her why. (Or maybe not) I love suspense.

Well I’m not Christian, But I read the bible the new/old testament, And Yes you can say Its historical events, And Direct teaching, And Never forget that The bible was written in the Hebrew language. And The new testament is In many languages, And according to. So For my understanding, As a person who got lost in the versions of the bible, I think the Hebrew written one is the accurate, Even though, In any language there is a rules of writing and reading, Some languages the meaning of the word may be according to the word that comes before it, And what follow it, But Still you can tell even with translated version, When its written Do not make adultery, Its for sure a direct order, And When it Say’s in chapter 2 about David and Bathsheba It’s historical. Now I do not believe it nor I deny it, Because I wasn’t there and I didn’t read the original scripture, Even though I would love to. They Must have only 1 version.

By the way Just a note, Whats written in the Arabic version, Is not written in the English version. So the new testament in Arabic and English do not share the exact meaning, Who told me! Well I have one in Arabic and one in English.

We do need to get this thread back on topic. But if you are really interested in the translation from the OT Hebrew, and the NT Greek, you should get a good interlinear bible. I go back to the Hebrew or Greek if something isn’t clear. It’s a useful thing to do especially if you are teaching on a passage.