Advice from experts on glans problem
I know some of you are very knowledgeable when it comes to the anatomy of the penis, the various muscles and veins and so on.
Until I was 24 years old, I had a really outstanding erection when it came to hardness (and size as I am around 7.75” * 5.8” although really because of the curve it is very hard to measure BPEL).
Girls commented on how hard it was, the glans were full and my penis used to throb and stay erect for an hour if I needed or more, and I could last very long.
Starting at 25 I had a pelvic pain episode that messed up my sexual life. Without getting into the unnecessary details, it is a dysfunction of the muscles in the pelvis (never done PE by that time). Mostly due to stress.
This affected my erection strength and everything. Since then I have recovered some (I would say 80-90% in erection fullness) but not all. One nagging probem was that the glans and the corpus songisum are often not full enough, except when 5 minutes before cumming. It reduces the volume, the sensation (big time), and the confidence. The situation is worse when I lay on my back.
Since my problem is at heart muscular I thought you guys would know which muscle in the pelvis is mostly related to controlling the blood flow in this area. Any thoughts how can this be improved?
I started PE-ing for the sake of not only size but also quality/fullness and it DID help. I would have slightly but noticeably better erection. The problem is that I CANNOT do Kegel, because that would leave me in tremendous pelvic pain. Pain that would radiate throughout my pelvis and down to my legs.
I do not expect people here to be familiar with my condition (pelvic pain syndrome is not that rare), but I just wanted thoughts on what could be the muscle that is messing up my erection and whether this could be worked out somehow.
Thoughts from the experts are MUCH MUCH appreciated :)