20 years old, erection problems, suggestions? thx!
i am 20 years old and i have a problem of not being able to have erections when i need them.
i would approximate that i have been jerking off since i was 12 at least once a day, and in the past few years at least two times a day.
i am considered the porn king by my friends and that i am always horny as hell.
well i am still a virgin, last spring i went to my fraternity formal with a chick i met in english class, and we hit it off pretty well. On the last night we went at it after having a couple drinks and I could not really get it up. She wanted to fuck and I put on the condom and then the medium erection just died instantly and I was really embarresed so I ate her out and then I tried having her stroke my flacid penis but then i stopped and ran into the bathroom too embarresed. I stroked it and thought of all the hardcore porn I look at that probably desensitized me and caused this problem. I came out after 30 minutes and had my strong-like-bull 7” ready to go but she was already asleep. I was so pissed. We stopped talking after that and havent seen her since :(
So now is summer and i met a chick in my art class. We went out a couple times and she has come over a few times to chill out, we usually just watch movies. Well yesterday she came over and she was like standing in front of me and our legs were rubbing and my erection just sprang up and she saw it and we went at it. I took off her shirt, sucked her boobies, it was great. Then she went for my wang and she started sucking it. It was the first time Ive ever recieved a bj and for some reason I just shrank until I was completely flacid. I took my wang back in my hand and tried to get back my erection by stroking, but I don’t know why it just would not come back. I closed my eyes and started imagining my favorite porn and it slowly came back, I gave it back to her and told her to finish me off, and again she started sucking, it went back down. I was pretty embarresed. She asked me what I was imagining and I did not want to tell her, so I said something stupid like “having a great time with you” and she knew I was lying. I wanted to return the favor but sshe would not let me as she did not shave. (woohoo!)
So after a while of more kissing her my shorts went back on and my erection came back about 60%, she stroked me over my shorts a bit which got me to 75%, and then she said she had to go as she was late for work. Blue balls suuuuuck. It seems when clothes are on I am more prone to getting hard.
I told her I would take her out tomorrow night. I just don’t want this to repeat. I want to be able to show her my wang at 110% and then have a great cumshot on her breasts like i see in so many of my .mpeg collection.
I considered going to the Smoothie King down the road, I remember seeing a viagra-like pill product for sale, I would sneak one in my drink before we go back to my room after dinner and have a great night.
Any suggestions or recommendations for viagra-like pills? I really appreciate any help.
Truthfully I dont want to have to rely on any viagra-like pills but I just don’t want this to happen ever again.