Opposite of premature.

So.. I’ve had this problem forever, and never really said anything about it until now. I can’t cum from anything other than masturbation. Not from sex, oral, or any other things. My ex boyfriend made me cum from a hand job, but it took 25 minutes and kind of hurt.
I heard of some people on here saying that doing PE exercises has made them premature and that they don’t last long anymore. I was wondering if this problem for them could be a good thing for me? Is PE known to cure my condition sometimes? If not, does anyone else have this problem? Can you do something to help it, exercises? Supplements? Anything like that? I think it’s probably a mental thing, but I’m not too sure after all these years now.

Please help if you can.

I will tell you the same words i told one of my best friend who suffers from the same condition as you. Its a psychological problem that can be related with long term pornography addiction. I suggest quit porn and reduce the frequency of your ejaculations maybe 1-2 a week. in a month or two you should be cured or see some improvements.

We can become very accustomed to always cumming from the same stroke type and pressure, and that becomes the ‘trigger’ to cum; break the cycle.

Get a Fleshlight. Stop masturbating with your hand completely and just use the Fleshlight until you can cum with that every time (don’t finish yourself off with your hand if you don’t cum, just go back to the Fleshlight later and try again.

When you can cum with the Fleshlight every time, try masturbating with your other hand, or try with a different stroke and a different pressure to what you would usually use. Resist whatever method you usually use to cum until you know for sure that you can cum from lots of other, different stimuli.

Thanks very much. Those sound like great suggestions, I figured something like that would be the way to go. I planned on getting a fleshlight anyways, but was putting it off, now I have a reason. :)

After I left the mother of my children I dated a few women, and always had difficulty ejaculating and mostly failed.

Even when I met my new wife I had episodes in the beginning.

The mind is a powerful thing, and if its not settled then problems can arise.