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Jelqing has destroyed my life A warning.

Originally Posted by poople
I think he was referring to “lack of libido” as erectile dysfunction, not as lack of testosterone.

Libido and testosterone are intrinsically linked. A man with ED or an injured penis can intensely desire sex without much recourse (I’ve been there and done that so I speak from experience). I’ve also suffered some nerve damage in my penis with similar symptoms. It didn’t effect my libido until I got depressed over it. I fixed the depression, increased my libido and then healed my penis all in that order. Unfortunately, it took a long time for my penis to completely heal. I now have rock hard erections and I am more sensitive than ever.

Aussiewill is concerned and looking for answers so I can understand if he gets upset and argues this point. Time will tell all then he can back up his words with experience.


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How lack. You say you’ve had nerve damage. What nerve do you think was affected? And how long did it take to heal?
I am very interested to know and what you did to fix it.

I am not saying that depression had no effect, I think it has a very big effect, and I think it has had an effect on me. I am saying that people I’ve seen that I think have the same problem as I do have a very severe reduction in sensation, erectile quality (mine was an instant reduction with little to no pain in my penis and no visible damage or bruising) and libido before the depression. The depression is a symptom of shit erectile quality and pain if it’s there (some are just numb) and from there will make things worse for sure. I can understand your reasoning to pin a lot of it on depression, but what happens if the original cause doesn’t rectify?

Mates, we are not questioning the injury here.

Personaly, I am questioning the mentality of dealing with the injury.


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For me personally I wasn’t depressed I never knew how bad my injury was until I went to have sex and realized 1.I couldn’t get turned on and 2.stuff that would drive me wild before just never. Nerve damage is pretty simple nerves transmit signals and feeling if yours are damaged they won’t pass any signals so your penis won’t know if it’s receiving pleasure it won’t know it’s about to used for sex. If you can’t get aroused you cannot get turned on. I know for 100% fact my injury has caused my loss of libido. Before this I was a normal healthy 24 year old with a very very high sex drive. The main reason I got depressed over it was because of losing my sex drive for me that’s the worst part feeling like sex doesn’t appeal to me anymore is horrible depressing came way after my injury

Originally Posted by aussiewill
How lack. You say you’ve had nerve damage. What nerve do you think was affected? And how long did it take to heal?
I am very interested to know and what you did to fix it.

I am not saying that depression had no effect, I think it has a very big effect, and I think it has had an effect on me. I am saying that people I’ve seen that I think have the same problem as I do have a very severe reduction in sensation, erectile quality (mine was an instant reduction with little to no pain in my penis and no visible damage or bruising) and libido before the depression. The depression is a symptom of shit erectile quality and pain if it’s there (some are just numb) and from there will make things worse for sure. I can understand your reasoning to pin a lot of it on depression, but what happens if the original cause doesn’t rectify?

I believe my injury affected the dorsal nerve since I had numbness (much reduced sensitivity) in my penis all the way to my glans. Unlike jelqing, I injured mine during an extremely vigorous night of sex. Long story short (pun not intended), the cowgirl riding me thought I was longer than I was, pulled off and slammed her pelvis down on my fully erect penis. I felt immediate pain and a loss of erection followed by extended intermittent ED, numbness in some areas and pain at the base of my shaft. Being the tough guy I am, I never went to the doctor (dumb, I know but I was a kid).

Before the “accident”, I got erections within seconds, measured close to 8 1/4 inches long and never had problems keeping an erection for as long as I wanted to. The only problem I had then was struggling with too much sensitivity which caused me to want to ejaculate within minutes of vaginal penetration. After the accident, it would take several minutes to get hard, erections were painful near the left upper side of the base of my penis and along the shaft. I would lose my erections within minutes or only maintain a soft erection (erect but with a soft glans). However, I didn’t have the over sensitivity anymore so even though I could probably last for hours my penis wouldn’t stay erect. That could partially be blamed on the numbness, erection pain or the scared little idiot that I was at the time. Who knows.

It took close to a year or more before I started seeing some noted improvements in my erection quality and sensitivity. Unfortunately, depression and the fear of ED lowered my libido. Fear of rejection and fear of what you might have done to your manhood can do all kinds of things to your libido. During that down time, I wasn’t getting constant erections. Night and morning wood were non existent and masturbation was such a chore I quit doing that for a while. I got heavy into porn because of fear. Unbeknownst to me, porn was exacerbating the problem by overstimulating and thus requiring more and more porn to get me hard. I thought it was just my penis.

Skip forward 20 years and I find myself here at Thunders helping others who struggle with ED. I learned many years ago how to jelq but I used it primarily to engorge my penis for the health benefits. I didn’t realize it could be used to increase size. I learned that those few years without serious erections caused my penis to shrink. WebMD documents that here. Jelqing has increased my EQ tremendously and made my penis more sensitive than ever. Swearing off porn has allowed me to get rock hard erections with my wife without too much trouble. Don’t get me wrong, she is gorgeous but very few women can compare to the fake porn women we see all over the web.

Several years ago, my GP discovered that I had an inguinal hernia. It has been repaired. I also had some back issues when I was young. The question remains, did the traumatic injury from that night of sex cause many years of suffering or did it set off a chain reaction of problems that led to more problems? What about my back pain issues or the hernia? Were those things instrumental or coincidental? I can tell you this, I overcame my injury and am on the road to success. It started with prayer and abstinence. After several years, I was able to overcome my depression through sheer will power and that allowed me to focus on healing. I never used ice or heat since that knowledge never occurred to me. I also didn’t use supplements. Somewhere along the line, I learned to jelq properly and increased blood flow to my penis. I learned how to kegel and reverse kegel. That helped with blood flow as well.

At this point, I was on the road to a complete recovery but was still lacking knowledge. Then I found Thunder’s Place. Everything fit in place. What I learned over the years started to make more sense when combined with the vast knowledge of others here. Something clicked in my mind and now I have my penis and my manhood back. When I first arrived at TP, my penis measured 7 1/4. I lost an inch somewhere. Wow. Over the course of a year and a half or so, I’ve gained back close to a half inch and my EQ is out of the roof. My sensitivity levels are better now than when I was a kid. However, I’m not 100%. I blame that on my age and fitness level, though. The road to success, my friend, is not an easy one. It is steep and full of obstacles but the only way forward is to take one step and place it in front of the other. If I can do it, so can you.


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I only came here to ask other people who got injured how there’s happened so I could kind of compare mine and in a way try to work out if I’d get better. I have no interest in so called PE or Jelqing so I’m not going to be replying anymore. Jelqing is dangerous whether people admit it or not it’s not about if you do it right or wrong it’s just full blown dangerous your stretching a penis which has nerves and vessels that ain’t made to be stretched as far as most people do it. I happen to live in the real world I have friends and a family I go out and I enjoy my life I’ve got a pretty messed up injury and if it’s for life I’m going to find a way to deal with it. As I mentioned earlier I’d be interested to meet a few people on this forum because a lot of people on here have a inferiority complex and seem like real lonely guys. These are just my thoughts but personally a lot of people on here seem like desperate sad guys come on just sit there and say it to yourself “stretching your penis” is laughable it doesn’t work any urologist will tell you that if it was so safe why are so many people getting injured from it? I see people saying oh some numbness is normal or yeah some red spots (burst vessels) are all normal trust me none of it is. If anyone sees this before they start Jelqing just don’t attempt it doesn’t work grow up get a real woman and be happy. Go out make friends go clubbing have fun don’t waste time stretching your penis it’s all so laughable I can’t believe personally that people take this serious lol 😂😂

I actually find your ignorance laughable.

Anyway fellas im off to do some jelqing.


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Originally Posted by The Wizard
I actually find your ignorance laughable.
Anyway fellas I’m off to do some jelqing.

Who? If that’s aimed at me get a life lol stretching your penis hahahahaha

Originally Posted by Moore2015

Who? If that’s aimed at me get a life lol stretching your penis hahahahaha

Yes it certainly was aimed at you.Personally i think only an ignoramus could hurt themselves jelqing.Its not bloody rocket science.


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Originally Posted by The Wizard

Yes it certainly was aimed at you.Personally i think only an ignoramus could hurt themselves jelqing.Its not bloody rocket science.

I think jelqing can do wonderful things for your penis, and I’ve experienced some of those things myself. But it really isn’t difficult to injure yourself jelqing, and you shouldn’t try to make it seem like it is. I injured myself and I thought I was being very careful. I was jelqing while fully erect like an idiot, but still. I warmed up a good bit before everytime I’d jelq, and I didn’t use an insanely hard grip while jelqing, and right when I started to feel pain I stopped and didn’t do anymore. I’m still recovering from multiple injuries months later. I think making jelqing out to be safer than it actually is could potentially be damaging to a lot of people. Jelqing puts pressure on the penis in ways our body isn’t built for which is why it’s so good at increasing penis size, but it’s also why you should be very careful while jelqing because it isn’t difficult to injure yourself.

Originally Posted by The Wizard
Yes it certainly was aimed at you. Personally I think only an ignoramus could hurt themselves jelqing. Its not bloody rocket science.

I see a post you wrote about how even your wife hasn’t noticed a change with your penis that says a lot lol. I’m not gonna sit here and argue with odd people trying to stretch their penis. The internet is a strange strange place lol

Originally Posted by Moore2015

I see a post you wrote about how even your wife hasn’t noticed a change with your penis that says a lot lol. I’m not gonna sit here and argue with odd people trying to stretch their penis. The internet is a strange strange place lol

These PE exercises work for many people and many people do them without getting injuries. Insulting people that do it properly and get positive results from it just because you injured yourself is stupid.

Originally Posted by poople
These PE exercises work for many people and many people do them without getting injuries. Insulting people that do it properly and get positive results from it just because you injured yourself is stupid.

I never got hurt through PE if you read my post I’ve no interest in it, I’m happy with my size and no it doesn’t work sorry to burst everyone weirdo on this sites bubble. It’s purely psychological when people think it has worked. What’s stupid is apparently grown men thinking they can stretch their penis I’m generally with a few mates (normal people) laughing at all the comments people write on here “ohh I’ve gained 2cm today” 😂😂😂

Originally Posted by Moore2015

I never got hurt through PE if you read my post I’ve no interest in it, I’m happy with my size and no it doesn’t work sorry to burst everyone weirdo on this sites bubble. It’s purely psychological when people think it has worked. What’s stupid is apparently grown men thinking they can stretch their penis I’m generally with a few mates (normal people) laughing at all the comments people write on here “ohh I’ve gained 2cm today” 😂😂😂

Why don’t you look at some progress pictures then if you believe it’s not real, unless you and your mates are too sexually repressed and get uncomfortable from seeing another persons penis. What kind of “normal people” go on a penis enlargement site for fun when they are with friends? Learn some better activities to do with your friends.


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Originally Posted by willy wonka
Hello all. I am writing this as a warning to all of you on here and for peace of mind for me. It’s May 2009 and I’m watching a programme on Uk TV called “Extreme Male Beauty”. The presenter is researching a penis enlargement exercise called “jelqing”. I’ve had a couple of beers and I’m watching this programme and I decide to give it a go. I can’t say I was ever “unhappy” with my penis size (3.5ins flaccid, 6.5in hard), I just did it out of curiosity (and a touch of vanity) more than anything. So I got some lube, got about 2/3 erect and did about 20 “jelqing”strokes stopping before I touched the gland. And this is the point that my life changed forever. Immediately I noticed my penis and scrotum were less sensitive than before, about 80% less sensitive! Also, when I let my penis go flaccid again it looked different, there was a vein on the left side of the shaft that wasn’t there before and the vein on the top of the shaft seemed to have shifted to the side a bit. Also my penis hung to the left more than it did prior and was smaller both in length and girth.

Fast forward 11 months and there has been no change in the state of my penis. The shaft of my penis and scrotum remain numb, my penis in it’s flaccid state is now an inch smaller in length and about half an inch smaller in girth. I struggle to get an erection (something I never had a problem with before) and keeping hold of one is very difficult (I go from erect to completely flaccid in about 30secs if I don’t concentrate), I don’t know how much smaller my erection has got because I haven’t had an erection long enough to really compare.

In a word my life has been destroyed. I am now on anti-depressants and have broken up from my girlfriend of two years due to this. I was once a happy guy who enjoyed life, I now spend my days waiting to go back to sleep so I can forget everything. I recently saw a urologist who said he doesn’t know what I’ve done and can’t give me an answer to my problems. I was thinking of suing the “Extreme Male Beauty” programme as they featured no warning of the possible consequences of this exercise but decided this would be too embarassing considering the subject.

All this because I “jelqed” 20 times. So my advise to all of you on this board would be, fuck your penis size! Trust me, it’s not worth it. It looks like I’ve ruined my penis for life and I’d hate this to happen to someone else. Be happy with what you’ve got, penis size inferiority is an entirely male created problem! Women love you for who you are and the children you can give them, something I may not get the chance to experience now. So stop the jelqing and whatever else you are doing to your penis and enjoy your health, if you’ve got that you’re completely blessed .

Thanks for reading.


Possibilities:
1. He was in poor health and that was the reason he was injured…
2. He did it wrong, and hurt himself…
3. Trolll… that actually JELQ’ed his Schnozz! :D


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