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22 Year Old with Severe Impotence from Improper PE. any advice

I agree with the other PEers that the times and weights you claim would not have done that type of damage.

I am no expert (even in PE), but my best guess is that you have a broken penis, but in the very unusual circumstance of having done it to yourself gradually, over time. When you write “It was even somewhat extremely painful/uncomfortable,” (and yet you continued over time), it sounds like you might have been doing self-harm as a way of coping with your depression. Which would make PE tangential to the real issue.

Unless you very explicitly told the urologists about the pain you inflicted on yourself, I wouldn’t necessarily expect them to guess it. Probably in every other case, when a guy breaks his penis, he knows exactly when and how the accident occurred.

The body has amazing healing ability, as does the mind, but the mind, uncontrolled, also has a way of mucking things up: the negative-feedback ED spiral is a good example of that.

1) Recognize that you have been presented a lesson in life. Your life. Each of us has our own path, and challenges, and lessons to learn (and ways to contribute). I know of someone who became a quadriplegic at your age, and has become an amazing inspiration to others as a result. And you’ve heard of Nick Vujicic?

2) I am inclined to think “emotional (or spiritual) healing” instead of “psychological help” or “mental health professionals.” Check out the Sedona Method, a simple and effective way to release damaging emotions. I ordered the course many years ago when going through a challenging time, and it worked amazingly well.

3) If you’re not a DIY guy, I agree with Pudendum and Sparkyx that you find someone to help you. Personally I’d look for a sympathetic hypnotherapist before going the medical-institution route. In an emergency, different story: do whatever it takes to right yourself.

Good luck,

Tom Hubbard

BTW. it was not my site you saw, but material archived by Thundersplace, that I had removed from my site years before.

Hey Mikey - to be honest I think your pics look good, but what you describe definitely sounds physical. Can you elaborate on how well you can kegel? I think this is a good question to think about and experiment with. When I had my venous leak, I could not kegel blood into my glans at all. They were lifeless, and felt kind of disconnected from the muscle. However, once I had the vein tied off, I could kegel blood into the glans when I was erect fairly easily.

Try to get an erection and play around with your kegels and let us know if you can feel anything. A kegel is pushing blood into your penis, get an erection as strong as you can and then imagine you’re trying to stop yourself pissing and see what happens.

Originally Posted by Yataghan50
Hey Mikey - to be honest I think your pics look good, but what you describe definitely sounds physical. Can you elaborate on how well you can kegel? I think this is a good question to think about and experiment with. When I had my venous leak, I could not kegel blood into my glans at all. They were lifeless, and felt kind of disconnected from the muscle. However, once I had the vein tied off, I could kegel blood into the glans when I was erect fairly easily.

Try to get an erection and play around with your kegels and let us know if you can feel anything. A kegel is pushing blood into your penis, get an erection as strong as you can and then imagine you’re trying to stop yourself pissing and see what happens.

Thanks for reply,

Yes it is definitely physical, I currently cannot Kegel blood into my glans at all. It is almost impossible to even kegel period, if i do there is no change in the appearance of my unit. Like you said my whole penis is lifeless, almost as if there’s not even blood going into it properly. And true my glans feels like its not connected to the muscle either currently.

I have done that before with erection and when i do they are extremely weak and i cannot hold it longer than a split second. Its almost as if im forcing blood into it and its coming out just as fast if not faster.
My Glans does not inflate until i reach the PONR. otherwise it is completely lifeless…

I have held pressure on my DDV and SDV during an erection and when i squeeze my glans i can feel the blood rushing underneath my fingers..

After studying arterial and venous some diagrams, a leak on my DDV would explain why my testicles feel cold to the touch during an Erection as the “leak” is ruining the whole blood flow circuit and robbing them of circulation.

I am determined to figure out what is physically going on whether it be repairable or not.

I totally attempted PE in under 2 hours of my life and will not give up hope for a cure…

Originally Posted by drabbuhmot
I agree with the other PEers that the times and weights you claim would not have done that type of damage.

I am no expert (even in PE), but my best guess is that you have a broken penis, but in the very unusual circumstance of having done it to yourself gradually, over time. When you write “It was even somewhat extremely painful/uncomfortable,” (and yet you continued over time), it sounds like you might have been doing self-harm as a way of coping with your depression. Which would make PE tangential to the real issue.

Unless you very explicitly told the urologists about the pain you inflicted on yourself, I wouldn’t necessarily expect them to guess it. Probably in every other case, when a guy breaks his penis, he knows exactly when and how the accident occurred.

The body has amazing healing ability, as does the mind, but the mind, uncontrolled, also has a way of mucking things up: the negative-feedback ED spiral is a good example of that.

1) Recognize that you have been presented a lesson in life. Your life. Each of us has our own path, and challenges, and lessons to learn (and ways to contribute). I know of someone who became a quadriplegic at your age, and has become an amazing inspiration to others as a result. And you’ve heard of Nick Vujicic?

2) I am inclined to think “emotional (or spiritual) healing” instead of “psychological help” or “mental health professionals.” Check out the Sedona Method, a simple and effective way to release damaging emotions. I ordered the course many years ago when going through a challenging time, and it worked amazingly well.

3) If you’re not a DIY guy, I agree with Pudendum and Sparkyx that you find someone to help you. Personally I’d look for a sympathetic hypnotherapist before going the medical-institution route. In an emergency, different story: do whatever it takes to right yourself.

Good luck,

Tom Hubbard

BTW. it was not my site you saw, but material archived by Thundersplace, that I had removed from my site years before.

Thanks for reply, yes I sort of remember exactly when I noticed something wasn’t right. It was almost right after I initially hung. I was receiving oral for over thirty minutes and didn’t cum.. she usually got me off in under three..but I was too stupid to put two and two together. I knew something was wrong but sort of went in a stage of denial for four years..I knew something wasn’t right but didn’t want to believe it. I just added to the problem by using the vacuum device.

I know my penis is broke currently. I believe there are three main basic stages of impotence on the physical side. Inflow , compression, and outflow (along with neuorological). My current goal is to find out which one is the biggest factor and attempt to fix it of possible before I accept being useless in bed for the rest of my life.

Hi all, I don’t normally post on general section but Mikey asked me to comment about his situation.

After reading all the posts, I don’t have anything to add but few observations,

1) I think you are thumbing through in the dark. You are trying to figure out what is wrong or even what is causing the issue without understanding what is happening with your body. I would suggest that you find a reputable Urologist (and perhaps behavior therapist but get the physical side done first) - one that specializes in impotency, if that is your condition. Find and eliminate the possibility. If you can’t find a specialist, I could certainly get you in contact with some of the people I know depending on where you live. I work with quite a few.

2) Looking at your pictures, I can’t see much of what you are describing. Over the years of doing what I do, I seen quite a few penis from my users and your pictures don’t show any of what these people had. It actually looks quite healthy… but again, this is just an observation from pictures you’ve posted.

3) Are you still doing PE? Why? Like anything else, eliminate all possible causes and start from scratch. I’m a big naturalist (herbs, roots, supplements, etc) and when I don’t feel good, I stop taking things completely and slowly re-introduce ingredients back to find out what was causing my symptoms. Also, why are you taking Viagra? Just to get morning wood? Again, I think you need to find the cause and if at that point that is the only option, then do it at that point.

4) Although your condition ultimately might be an physical issue, I can feel your anxiety (basically driving yourself nuts!!!). Trust me, I’ve been there and while severity can vary, some of the folks here also share that feeling. I’ve started this long ago and suicidal was just one of the issue I had when I started PE’ing. Not feeling adequate can play huge role in how you feel toward everything you do - it literally consumes you. Over the years, I’ve been fortunate enough to help some men going through similar situations from very painful Peyronie’s disease to Micro Penis, each with unique set of challenges. What I’m trying to say is that you are not alone and use the forum as a support group only and let the professionals do what they do best, a cure or remedy.

If there’s anything I can help you with, just let me know.

MB

Coincidence or not, I went to an urologist this afternoon and I was submitted to a penile Doppler ultrasound and I discovered that I suffer from a poor vascularization in my penis left side.
I had some of your symptoms: no morning woods, purple glans (no sensibility on them, cold on touch) etc.
I know why I have this problem (when I was 17 years old, I overused a penis pump) and now I have the proof that fucked up my sexual life since then.

Go check a professional and please, warn us of any news.


One day I'll be able to do PE o/

@Monkeybar I pmed you…

Surprisingly I am seeing slight improvements…

This is not from sitting on my ass though…

Have been taking tadalafil for past 3 weeks though…

It is too early to tell if anything is certain..

Will update in a few days/weeks

Wow brother, believe me I feel your pain. Although not on your level I had the same thing a while ago and ended up going to three doctors and a urologist, also administering tests with two of them and barely getting to 50% erect..

The best piece of advice I received from one of these doctors which honestly helped was the following.
“On the record, you just need to relax. Even when we administer tests for erections, if you’re nervous about it then it won’t happen. It’s a mind over matter thing more than anything. So just relax.”

Now for the off the record bit
“You’re too young for me to comfortably be prescribing you with prescription drugs, as there’s nothing physically wrong with you and it’s all mental. What I would suggest is you get yourself in to a healthy routine (working out, therapy, etc).. And if I happened to tell you that the key component in Marijuana, THC, is also a key ingredient in many sexual stimulation drugs, then maybe you happen to choose to try this method.”

Of course I’m not condoning it at all, and it may not be for you but.. Off the record, maybe you should consider it?

Because it seemed to work for me, and then after the first time of being able to keep it hard and have sex everything seemed to go back to normal.

Originally Posted by Whitehart1882

….. the key component in Marijuana, THC, is also a key ingredient in many sexual stimulation drugs,….

I agree with your post, but I think this point is incorrect.

Originally Posted by Whitehart1882
Wow brother, believe me I feel your pain. Although not on your level I had the same thing a while ago and ended up going to three doctors and a urologist, also administering tests with two of them and barely getting to 50% erect..

The best piece of advice I received from one of these doctors which honestly helped was the following.
“On the record, you just need to relax. Even when we administer tests for erections, if you’re nervous about it then it won’t happen. It’s a mind over matter thing more than anything. So just relax.”

Now for the off the record bit
“You’re too young for me to comfortably be prescribing you with prescription drugs, as there’s nothing physically wrong with you and it’s all mental. What I would suggest is you get yourself in to a healthy routine (working out, therapy, etc).. And if I happened to tell you that the key component in Marijuana, THC, is also a key ingredient in many sexual stimulation drugs, then maybe you happen to choose to try this method.”

Of course I’m not condoning it at all, and it may not be for you but.. Off the record, maybe you should consider it?

Because it seemed to work for me, and then after the first time of being able to keep it hard and have sex everything seemed to go back to normal.

How did your ED develop?

I understand if nervous erection wont happen with injection sometimes…

As i stated before my condition is not mental… I have organic impotence and last doctor i saw confirmed this. Furthermore i have a decent sized lump of scar tissue midway up my shaft…

I have have thought about Marijuana before to deal with stress but im not seeking it currently at this point in my life.

Your condition is different from mine but thanks for input.

Just an update, i had phone consult with very reputable urologist in the united stated. Went as expected. He believes i may have arterial blockage near base of my penis from hanging semi-erect.
Furthermore he said if theres any internal scarring i will likely not be candidate for any surgery (not that i would or was planning on partaking in experimental surgery anyway)…

I am currently experimenting with this other brand of tadalafil i got from india, and continuing my daily dose of 400 IE vitamin E, 500 mg ACL, and 1.5 g of Gaba and 400g vitamin C before bed…

My next thought of theory on my quest for a working unit would be to possibly try experimenting with DMSO and iodine to break down the scarring in my glans and possibly soften the hard almost fibrous tissues on the dorsal side of my shaft….
*after i do more research on this to make sure its not more harmful than helpful

This guy seemed to have similar case in his glans as me…but is no longer active on this site and i cant tell long term results…

DMSO + Iodine Experimental Treatment for Deflated Glans and Firm Flaccid

Another interesting read i found

http://curezone.com/forums/am.asp?i=1749773

I may try experimenting soon with this stuff but have no privacy for a few months..

I feel that my scar tissue, (although it has not been confirmed by a mri), and believe it is constricting my penis from fully relaxing and expanding especially near my glans…

If i can somehow break this down i believe my erections and sensitivity would improve even with my current inflow and outflow problems…

Hs anyone on here have experiment with long term results of dmso and iodine?

Originally Posted by ThunderSS
So you haven’t actually been to see a urologist yet but you want to treat yourself not really knowing what the problem is? Doesn’t sound like a smart move to me.

If you read my entire thread I seen four urologists, one supposedly being one of the top in Midwest…

Originally Posted by ThunderSS
And you are still of a different opinion than they are?

No I’m not…. One who tested me with Doppler said I have organic impotence and also believes I have scar tissue in glans and shaft. The other decent urologists said my injury and problem is beyond the scope of their capabilities. I also had a phone consult with one of the best urologist in the united states presently and he believes I may have blocked arteries near base of my shaft because I hung semi erect…but can’t diagnose without multiple testing.

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