Healing And Understanding Hard Flaccid
I have hard flaccid due to incorrect hanging. Behind my glans went completely numb along with bruising on the head , sudden poor erections , loss of sex drive , and other symptoms. This sent me into a panic, spending hours researching and understanding. I hypothesized that I pinched the dorsal nerve. It was hard to gauge the severity but having no serious bad indicators I decided to let it heal with time. During this time I’ve made several realizations with my condition that I hope might help someone else .
In my experience and opinion the main thing about hard flaccid is that it’s 100% psychological. Injuring your penis confuses the mind making it impossible to recover without constant mental relaxation and reassurance.
For me hard flaccid is at its worse when I’m showering. My mind and penis are both relaxed but as soon as I’m able to see and am conscious of my penis, hard flaccid symptoms show immediately.
Mental steadiness is the cure, reassuring yourself with the knowledge that you’ve got a healthy member. Going to a urologist and making sure everything is physically okay helps.
Hard flaccid is a vicious metal loop started from the mental stress of an injury. The cycle can get worse without a proper understanding of what’s happening. Your pelvic muscles are sent into constant tension due to signals from your brain. Relaxing then leads to instant results and proper penis hang.
Things that help:
STRETCHING. The number one is definitely stretching, especially pelvic muscle and groin stretches
Since my injury happened I’ve started stretching resulting with viable changes in my whole body as well as a better mental.
With just one pelvic stretch I cured lifelong pelvic tilt and flared ribs almost instantly. This made me happy for weeks with the most relief I’ve had in my life.
BREATHING AND REVERSE KEGEL EXERCISES
Lay down on your back and breathe deeeeeepp into your stomach like you’re trying to get the air into your balls. On the inhale flex your groin or d muscles like you’re trying to piss. This should be a lighhhtttt push and not a strain. It helps to elevate your legs. This should be a relaxing meditative practice that helps you become aware of when your pelvic floor is tensed throughout the day . Lookup some exercise and see what works for you because again curing hard flaccid is 100% mental .
LOTION
Keeps your dude feeling good and relaxed. Just a small thing that really helps me because curing this is all about making yourself feel good.
PONDERING
The key is to break out of the loop of constantly thinking about your penis and if he’s okay. Realizing that the healing process will take months depending on how deep in you are. Remind yourself to relax and heal and to just forget about it. Accept that hard flaccid will be a new normal for you until you relax and stop caring about it.
QUITING PORN
Mainly masturbating seems to make symptoms worse. Could be a placebo affect but then again this whole mental illness is. Just leave him alone unless you’re incredibly horny and get hard from basically nothing. Only then should you have sex or touch it.
UNDERSTANDING HARD FLACCID
Really helps to know what’s going on inside your body .
Do some research
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The answer you don’t want
ALL OF THIS INFO IS MY OWN NON PROFESSIONAL OPINION- I’m just a dude with hard flaccid
I’ve heard that hard flaccid is denied by the PE community. You can see very visible changes in my penis when it’s in it’s hard flaccid state so I’m happy to provide proof.
I want to say that little by little I can see my symptoms getting slowly better with the help of Thunders-Place. The numbing is slowly fading in the dorsal region due to other methods I have but that’s a whole different injury that doesn’t pertain hard flaccid
I’ll be happy to further explain anything
Thanks :)